ICalifornia iye yaba liLizwe lokuQala ukwenza 'ukuThwala' ngokungekho mthethweni

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"Ukuba," okanye isenzo sokususa ngokufihlakeleyo ikhondom emva kokuba kuvunyelwene ngokhuseleko, ibiyinto enengxaki iminyaka. Kodwa ngoku, iCalifornia yenza isenzo ngokungekho mthethweni.

Ngo-Okthobha u-2021, iCalifornia yaba lilizwe lokuqala ukwaphula umthetho "ngokunyanzela", kunye neRhuluneli uGavin Newson etyikitya umthetho-mthetho. Umthetho oyilwayo uyayandisa inkcazo yelizwe yebhetri yezesondo ke oko kubandakanya lo mkhuba, ngokwe Inyosi yeSacramento, kwaye iya kuvumela amaxhoba ukuba alandele isimangalo soluntu ngomonakalo. "Ngokudlulisa lo mthetho uyilwayo, sigxininisa ukubaluleka kwemvume," uthumele i-ofisi kaGov.Newsom kuTwitter ngo-Okthobha u-2021.

Umama obhinqileyo uCristina Garcia, oncedise ukubhala lo mthetho usayilwayo, naye wawuthetha kwingxelo ye-Okthobha ka-2021. "Bendihleli ndisebenza kumcimbi 'wobusela' ukusukela ngo-2017 kwaye ndonwabile ukuba ngoku kukho uxanduva kwabo benza lo mthetho. Ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, ngakumbi abo babhinqileyo bebala, kuhlala kutshayelwa phantsi kombhoxo, utshilo. UGarcia, ngokuka Inyosi yeSacramento.

Ubusela buye baba yinxalenye yencoko yodlwengulo lwesizwe emva kokuthweswa isidanga se-Yale Law School u-Alexandra Brodsky epapashe isifundo ngo-Epreli 2017 echaza indlela amadoda kumaqela athile akwi-Intanethi anokuzithengisa ngayo iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokukhohlisa iqabane labo ukuba lingasebenzisi ukhuseleko. Oku kubandakanya izinto ezifana nokufaka ikhondom eyaphukileyo okanye ukusebenzisa izikhundla ezithile zesondo ukuze umfazi angayiboni indoda isusa ikhondom, zonke zibhengeza ngombono wokuba angayiqondi into eyenzekileyo de kube lixesha. Ngokusisiseko, la madoda aziva engumnqweno wawo wokuya ngaphandle kwexilongo ilungelo labasetyhini lokuba angakhulelwa okanye athintele ukosulelwa zizifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini. (I-PSA: Umngcipheko wee-STD yindlela ephezulu kunokuba ucinga.)

Oku akwenzeki nje kumaqela ambalwa engacacanga encoko yabantwana, nokuba kunjalo. U-Brodsky wafumanisa ukuba uninzi lwabahlobo bakhe ababhinqileyo nabahlobo babenamabali afanayo. Ukusukela ngoko, uphando luye lwapapashwa oluqinisekisa oko akufumanisileyo. Olunye uphononongo lwango-2019 lwamadoda angama-626 (aneminyaka engama-21 ukuya kwengama-30 ubudala) kwiPasifiki kuMntla-ntshona wafumanisa ukuba i-10 pesenti yawo yabandakanyeka kubusela ukusukela kwiminyaka eyi-14, ngokomyinge wamaxesha ayi-3.62. Olunye uphononongo lwango-2019 lwabasetyhini abangama-503 (abaneminyaka engama-21 ukuya kwengama-30) bafumanise ukuba iipesenti ezili-12 zabo babenamaqabane abelana nabo ngesondo. Kwa isifundo esinye safumanisa ukuba phantse isiqingatha sabasetyhini sixele iqabane elichasene nokusetyenziswa kwekhondom ngendlela yokunyanzela (ngokunyanzela okanye ngokugrogrisa); ama-87 ekhulwini achaza iqabane elichasa ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom ngendlela enganyanzelisiyo.

Ngelixa abasetyhini u-Brodsky ethetha nabo beziva bengakhululekanga kwaye bekhathazekile, uninzi lwabo aluqinisekanga ukuba ngaba ukutsiba "kubalwa" njengodlwengulo.

Ewe, iyabala. Ukuba umfazi uyavuma ukulala ngesondo ngekhondom, ukususa ikhondomu ngaphandle kokuvunywa kwakhe kuthetha ukuba isini asisavumelani. Wavuma ukulala ngesondo phantsi kwemigaqo yekhondom. Guqula loo magama, kwaye utshintshe ukuvuma kwakhe ukuqhubeka nesenzo. (Bona: Yintoni Imvume, Ngokwenene?)

Asinakukugxininisa oku ngokwaneleyo: Ukuthi "ewe" ukuba neentlobano zesini akuthethi ukuba uvume ngokuzenzekelayo kuzo zonke izinto ezenziwa ngokwesondo. Kwaye akuthethi ukuba omnye umntu unokutshintsha imiqathango, njengokukhupha ikhondom, ngaphandle kokulungela kwakho.

Kwaye inyani yokuba amadoda ayenza "ngokunyanzela" ibonisa ukuba yazi ayilunganga. Ngaphandle koko, kutheni ungabi nje ngaphambili malunga nayo? Icebiso: Kaloku ukuba negunya emfazini yinxalenye yento eyenza “ubusela” bube nomtsalane kwamanye amadoda. (Idibeneyo: Buyintoni ubudoda obunobungozi, kwaye kutheni buyingozi kangaka?)

Ngethamsanqa, kwi-2017, abenzi bomthetho baqala ukuthatha inyathelo. Ngo-Meyi ka-2017, iWisconsin, iNew York, kunye neCalifornia zonke zazisa amatyala azokuthintela ukuntywila — kodwa kwathatha kwade kwango-Okthobha u-2021 ukuba loo mthetho uyilwayo waseCalifornia wenziwe umthetho, kwaye nemithetho eyilwayo yaseNew York neyaseWisconsin kusafuneka ipasisiwe.

"Ukususwa kwekhondom engavumelekanga kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo njengokwaphulwa kwentembeko kunye nesidima," utshilo ummeli uCarolyn Maloney (eNew York) kwingxelo ngelo xesha. "Ndiyothuswa kukuba kufuneka siqhube le ncoko, ukuba iqabane ngesondo linyhashe ukuthenjwa kweqabane kunye nemvume yalo ngolu hlobo. Ubusela kukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo."

Ngelixa kubonakala ngathi i-U.S. Inendlela ethile yokuhamba ngaphambi kokuba ubusela bungagxothwa kwilizwe liphela, amazwe afana neJamani, iNew Zealand, kunye ne-UK sele bebona ubusela njengendlela yokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, I-BBC. Nantsi ithemba lokuba isigwebo saseCalifornia sibeka umzekelo kuwo onke amazwe ase-US.

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