Ungalibuza njani iqabane lakho ngesondo esithe kratya (Ngaphandle kokulikhubekisa)

Umxholo

• Musa ukwenza izityholo
• Philisa ingqumbo
• Nxibelelana
• Yenza uBomi beMihla ngemihla ubuNcinci
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Iibidos ezingafaniyo ziyonwabisa akukho mntu. Abantu ababini bathandana ngokudibana ngothando ekwabelwana ngalo lukaNeil de Grasse Tyson kunye nentiyo yeerasintyisi. Ngaphandle kwenkathalo kwihlabathi, izinto ziya zishushu kwaye zinzima kunesilili saseTexas.

Kodwa njengoko ubudlelwane buguquka, i-dynamics iqala ukutshintsha. Iibhili, abantwana, utshintsho lwehomoni, uxinzelelo lomsebenzi, kunye nokukhupha inkunkuma konke kunokunetha kwiparade yakho ethandekayo. Ngenye imini, uvuka kwaye uqaphele elona nyathelo ulifumene kutshanje ngengozi lokungqubeka kumatshini wokuhlamba. (Idibeneyo: I-Libido ephantsi? Nantsi indlela yokunyusa iDrive Drive yakho.)

Ngelishwa, ubomi abuyiyo iphonografi enye enkulu. Abantu abaleki ujikeleze i-horny ngalo lonke ixesha. Ubomi besini obuphilileyo buthatha umsebenzi. Ubudlelwane yinto ephilayo yokuphefumla efuna ukhathalelo rhoqo.

Kwaye ayisiyiyo eyamadoda kuphela eyenza lonke ulwaluko, ngamanye amaxesha abasetyhini bazifumana befuna i-nookie rhoqo kunamaqabane abo. Ukusuka kumfazi okhe wakhona ngaphambili, ndingatsho ngokuqinileyo: iyadika.

Ke ucela njani ukuba ulalane ngesondo ungakhange ubabeke kwindawo yokuzikhusela? Ngokuqinisekileyo ayifani nale ndiyenzileyo, yeyiphi ngokukhwaza "yintoni ingxaki yakho?" Ngelixa ndiwangawangisa isithandwa sam esitsha, isigebenga sangaphantsi esikhulu. (P.S. Ezi Zezona Vibrators ziGqwesileyo zokuSebenzisa kunye noMlingane.)

Ndabonisana noCris Marie noSusan Clarke, ababhali bencwadiUbuhle bengxabano kwabatshatileyo Ukufumana ingcebiso enemveliso ngakumbi. Nantsi into endiyifundileyo.

Musa ukwenza izityholo

Njengoko kuvela, abantu abathandi ukuba nomnwe (okanye i-vibrator) ukhombe kubo. Ndicinga ukuba oko kuchaza ukuba kutheni ubuchule bam bungasebenzi. Ngokutsho kukaCrisMarie Campbell, ukuthetha izinto ezinjengokuthi "uyayikhathalela indlela ovakalelwa ngayo," "awuqalisi ngesondo ngokwaneleyo," okanye "yonke into oyifunayo ..." baya kubeka abantu ekukhuseleni.

Endaweni yeengxelo "wena", zama "mna" iingxelo. Umzekelo, "Ndifuna ukuzama ngakumbi kwisini sam kwaye ndifuna ukuba undijoyine." Okanye "Ndifuna ukuba, njengeqabane lam, ube nomdla kwindlela endivakalelwa ngayo ngobomi bethu bobulili. Andikwazi ukuxelela ukuba ukhona." Ukuxelela umlingane wakho ngento abayenzayo oyithandayo okanye indlela obathanda ngayo, unokubenza bazive benomdla ngakumbi kuwe.

Philisa ingqumbo

Ubomi besondo obusezantsi abusoloko bumalunga nee-libidos ezingahambelaniyo. Rhoqo, umntu omnye okanye bobabini babambe ingqumbo, ebenza bangabi namdla kwezokwabelana ngesondo. Ndakhe ndahlala nomntu ndinomngqungqo ongapheliyo wabahlobo abancinci abangena bephuma kwigumbi lethu. Phakathi kokuhlala becoca ubumdaka babo, ukutyiwa nokuselwa ngaphandle kwendlu nasekhaya, kunye neengxabano zethu malunga noko, umtsalane wam kumlingane wam wathatha i-nosedive enkulu. Kuya kufuneka ujongane neminye imicimbi yakho.

Nxibelelana

Ukuba ukwicala elibukhali, ukuthetha ngesini kunokuba nzima. Njengokuba sibona isondo kuyo yonke indawo kwinkcubeko yethu, ukuthetha ngayo isekuko kubantu abaninzi. Ukoyika ukwaliwa kungachaphazela amandla ethu okuthetha ngeemfuno zethu kunye neminqweno yethu nokuba sikwihlobo elide, nothando. Ukusebenza nezibini, uSusan Clarke uxela ukuba amadoda ahlala enexhala lokuba azakuthathwa "njengabuthathaka okanye agwetywe njengeziphene ukuba bazisa imicimbi enxulumene nokwabelana ngesondo namaqabane abo."

"Lo mba ukhulisiwe xa siqala ukuphonononga indlela abafazi abancinci abayiqonda ngayo imizimba yabo," batsho ababhali. "Xa ungazi ukuba iphi i-g-spot yakho okanye ukuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuchukumisa zikwenza uzive njani, awungekhe ubuze into oyifunayo."

Yenza uBomi beMihla ngemihla ubuNcinci

Usenokuba ucinga, Konke oku kuvakala kukuhle, kodwa ndifuna ukuzenzela! Iziqholo! Conco encinci kunciphisa ngaphezulu mambo! Okungakumbi kuphoswa etafileni yasekhitshini xa abantwana bengekho ekhaya!

Ukuthetha ngesondo akuyomfuneko ukuba ube ngumbulali obulalayo. Ukwabelana ngesondo akukhona nje into eyenziwa kanye. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neenkanuko kunokubandakanywa kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, utshilo uClarke. Yiba khona ngakumbi: yonwabela ijusi yequnube, danisa kwingoma yakho oyithandayo, yiya kwi-commando, khanyisa amakhandlela amaninzi, nxiba iziqholo-ufumana umbono. Ukuziva u-sexy rhoqo kunokunceda wena kunye neqabane lakho ukuba nidibane nezo mvakalelo zesondo-akukho mfuneko yokugubha i-vibrator.

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