UTeyana Taylor utyhile elona candelo linzima ekubuyiseni kwakhe emva kokuba kususwe amaqhuma amabele

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UTeyana Taylor kutsha nje utyhile ukuba ususiwe amaqhuma amabele- kwaye inkqubo yokubuyisela kwakungekho lula.

Ngexesha lesiqendu sangoLwesithathu sikaTaylor kunye nomyeni u-Iman Shumpert's real series, Simthande uTeyana kunye noIiman, imvumi eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala yenza utyando olungxamisekileyo eMiami emva kokufumana amaqhuma emabeleni akhe. I-biopsy kwizicubu zakhe zebele ezishinyeneyo zagqiba kwelokuba uTaylor, ngombulelo, wayephilile, kodwa wayesakuvuyela ukwenza utyando ukuze afumane uxolo lwengqondo.

"Ndifuna ukuba oku kube lixesha lokugqibela endidlula kulo. Umhlaza uqhuba usapho lwam, ke yinto eyoyikisayo kum naku-Iman," utshilo kwisiqendu sangoLwesithathu.

UTaylor, owayetshate nomntu owayeyinkwenkwezi ye-NBA uShumpert ukusukela ngo-2016, kwafuneka ukuba alale esibhedlele iveki ngelixa wayechacha kwinkqubo "enzima". Ukuba kude nabantwana ababini besi sibini, iintombi uJunie, 5, kunye noRue oneenyanga ezili-11 ubudala, “kwakunzima” kumthonyama waseNew York. (Eyeleleneyo: Iindlela zokuZikhathalela uTeyana Taylor uthembele ekuzigcineni epholile phakathi kwesiphithiphithi)

"Ngokuqinisekileyo ndonwabile kuba ndibakhumbula kakhulu abantwana bam, ndimkhumbula kakhulu u-Iman," utshilo malunga nabathandekayo bakhe abase-Atlanta kwisiqendu sangoLwesithathu. "Inokuba lelona xesha lide kakhulu endilihambileyo kubo. Eyona nto iphambili kum kukukhawuleza ndibuyele ekhaya, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba kufuneka ndihoye into endiyidingayo ukuyihoya."

UTaylor uphinde wakhumbula isiqendu sangoLwesithathu ukuba umbuzo wakhe wokuqala wawusithi, "Ndiza kukwazi nini ukubabamba abantwana bam kwakhona?" Impendulo yayingeyiyo enye uTaylor afuna ukuyiva njengoko oogqirha bakhe bacebisa ukuba angakuphakamisi okanye abambe abantwana bakhe iiveki ezintandathu. Oogqirha bakaTaylor bacebise ukuba aphephe ukuthabatha nokubamba iintombi zakhe iiveki ezintandathu.

"URue akayiqondi into eyenzekayo," watsho uTaylor ngexesha lesiqendu. "Unje, 'Ndithathe! Molo! Wenza ntoni?'" UTaylor uthe naye akavumelekanga ukunika "ukuwolana ngokuqinileyo," wongeza, "Andazi nokuba ndiza kuhlala ezintandathu iiveki." (Eyeleleneyo: Kufuneka-Uzazi Iinyani malunga noMhlaza wamabele)

Okwangoku, uTaylor wonwabile ngokuba afumene utyando ukuqinisekisa ukuba uzakubakhona kwaye usempilweni kwiintsana zakhe ixesha elide. “Ndamkela sonke isilonda somzimba, yonke into eza ne-mommy-hood,” utshilo ngexesha lesiqendu sangoLwesithathu. "Kodwa utshintsho ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwengqondo, ngokweemvakalelo, luyaphambana. Njengomama, ngokwenene singabafazi abakhulu."

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