UTiffany Haddish wathetha ngokungathandabuzekiyo malunga noloyiko lokuba ngumama njengomfazi omnyama

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Ukuba kukho nabani na osebenzisa ixesha lakhe ekuvaleni abantu ngokunemveliso, nguTiffany Haddish. Kwincoko yamva nje kaYouTube Live kunye nenkanyezi ye-NBA uCarmelo Anthony, uHaddish uveze ukuba ebesebenza kwiinkqubo zikamabonwakude ezintsha, ezilolonga (ngokucacileyo unokwenza “ukwahlulahlula ngoku”), ukwenza isitiya, ukupheka, kwaye ude acinge ngombono ojolise kuluntu. Ivenkile yokutya kwivenkile yoluntu yaseBIPOC.

UHaddish ebesebenzisa ixesha lakhe lokuphumla ukuthatha inxaxheba kuqhankqalazo lweMicimbi yoBomi obuMnyama, kubandakanya nomsitho wamva nje oxhasa amalungelo abamnyama okuhambisa eHollywood. Ekhumbula amava akhe kuqhankqalazo oluya ku-Anthony, uHaddish wathi wathetha nesihlwele ngala mini malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba Mnyama eMelika, ukuba yena nosapho lwakhe bachaphazeleke njani kubundlobongela, kunye neenkxalabo anazo malunga nokuba ngumama. njengomfazi omnyama. (Idibeneyo: Ubuhlanga bunokuyichaphazela njani impilo yakho yengqondo)

"Andingomntu woyikayo, kodwa ndibukele abahlobo bekhula bebulawa ngamapolisa," uxelele u-Anthony. “Njengomntu oNtsundu, siyazingelwa, yaye bendisoloko ndivakalelwa ngolo hlobo. Siyazingelwa kwaye sixheliwe, kwaye bafumana le layisensi yokusibulala, kwaye ayilunganga loo nto. ”

Xa abantu bebuze uHaddish malunga nokuba uza kuba nabantwana, wavuma ku-Anthony ukuba uhlala "esenza izizathu" zokuphepha ukuthetha inyani enzima malunga noloyiko lwakhe. "Ndiyakuzonda ukuzala umntu ofana nam kwaye ke ndiyazi ukuba baya kuzingelwa okanye babulawe," wabelane. “Kutheni ndingamfaka umntu ngaloo nto? Abantu abamhlophe akufuneki bacinge ngaloo nto.” (Related: Iindlela ezili-11 zabasetyhini abaMnyama abanokukhusela impilo yabo yengqondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nokubeleka)

Nokuba uHaddish ngenye imini uthatha isigqibo sokuba nabantwana, akukho mathandabuzo ukuba uyayenza eyakhe indima yokuxhasa abantwana kwiindawo ezingafumani nkonzo. Umdlali weqonga ngumseki weShe Ready Foundation, umbutho onceda abantwana abakhuliswe ngabanye abantu ukuba bafumane izibonelelo nenkxaso abayidingayo ngenkxaso-mali, iisutikheyisi, ingcebiso, kunye neengcebiso.

UHaddish uxelele uAnthony ukuba ubuntwana bakhe ekunyamekeleni abantwana abamkhuthazayo bamkhuthaza ukuba enze isiseko. “Xa ndandineminyaka eli-13 ubudala, ndandihamba-hamba kakhulu, kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha behamba, babendenza ndibeke zonke iimpahla zam kwiingxowa zenkunkuma. Kwaye lonto indenze ndaziva ngathi yinkunkuma, utshilo. “Ekugqibeleni, omnye umntu wandinika isutikheyisi, yaye oko kwandenza ndaziva ndahlukile. Kwaye ndaye ndacinga xa ndandineminyaka eyi-13, 'Ukuba ndingaze ndifumane naluphi na uhlobo lwamandla, ndizakuzama ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho bantwana bazive ngathi yinkunkuma.' Ke, ndinamandla amancinci, kwaye ndiqalise isiseko sam. (Inxulumene: Ukufikeleleka kunye neNkxaso yeMithombo yezeMpilo yeNgqondo yaBamnyama Womxn)

Equkumbela incoko yakhe no-Anthony, uHaddish wabelana ngomyalezo oxhobisayo kubafazi abancinci abaMnyama: “Yazisa [kwaye] ungoyiki ukubandakanyeka kwindawo yakho,” utshilo. “Phila ubomi bakho obungcono, yiba ngoyena mntu ulungileyo, yiba wena.”

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