Ukuphelisa iNtsomi yokuba iiVaginas zaseAsia ziQinisekile

Umxholo

• Ke masibeke intsomi ebhedini
• Uninzi lwabasetyhini baseAsia bahlangana okokuqala nolu luvo xa beqala ukulala namadoda
• Abanye abantu basetyhini baseAsia, nangona kunjalo, bafumanisa ukuba uhlobo lwengcinga luyingxaki ngakumbi kwaye alonwabisi.
• Kodwa intsomi yokufa ayithethi ukuba iziphumo ziyanyamalala kunye nayo

Akukho ntsomi iyingozi ngaphezu kokulindela ukuba nobufazi obuqinileyo.

Ukusuka kumabele angapheliyo ukuya kwimilenze egudileyo, engenaboya, ubufazi buhlala bunikwa ngokwesondo kwaye buphantsi kwemigangatho engeyiyo.

Inzululwazi ibonakalisile ukuba ezi zimvo zingenakwenzeka zinemiphumela eyonakalisayo kwiimvakalelo zabasetyhini zokuzixabisa. Nangona kunjalo, akukho namnye owonzakalisileyo, okanye ongafundiswanga, njengolindelo lokuba nobufazi obuqinileyo.

I-vaginas eziqinileyo zixabisiwe phantse kulo lonke uluntu kunye nenkcubeko eneengcambu zobuhlanga. Zithathwa njengezibonakalisa ubuntombi kunye nobunyulu, ngenxa yenkolelo yokuba abantu basetyhini bayipropathi, ukuba bahlale bengafakwanga ngaphandle kwabayeni babo.

Kodwa kwinqanaba le-baser, ubufazi obomeleleyo bukwabonwa njengophawu olunomdla kakhulu kubafazi be-cis ukuba babenalo ngenxa yokuba kuyonwabisa ngakumbi ukuba amadoda e-cis angene. Utyando lobufazi lobufazi, ukufumana "ukuthungwa kwendoda," kwanokubonakala ngathi kukuzilolonga kweKegel: Zonke ezi zinto zivela kwinkolelo yokuba ii-vaginas eziqinileyo zingamabhinqa angcono.

Kwaye le stereotype ibonakala ichaphazela ikakhulu abafazi baseAsia.

Umhlekisi u-Amy Schumer ukhe wazama ukuqhula: “Ayinamsebenzi into oyenzayo, manenekazi, wonke umfana uza kukushiya abe ngumfazi wase-Asiya… Kwaye bazisa njani ekhaya ukuze baphumelele? Owu, awona malini amancinanana kulo mdlalo. ”

Wamxelela ukuba ucinga ukuba amantombazana aseAsia ngawona abalaseleyo kuba ii-vaginas zabo ziqinile.

UGqirha Valinda Nwadike, MD kunye neengcali zokubelekisa nezifo zabasetyhini eCalifornia, eMaryland, uyayibona indlela olukhoyo ngayo olu luvo, kwaye ngentliziyo yonke akavumelani nalo mgaqo. “Ngokunyaniseka sukucinga ukuba [amabhinqa aseAsia aneelungu lobufazi ezincinci] ayinyani. Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingavumelani nolu luvo. Asenzi izigqibo malunga nobukhulu - asinazo ii-speculums zaseAsia. Oko ngokwako kungayichitha intsomi. Imele yalaliswa ngokupheleleyo. ”

Ke masibeke intsomi ebhedini

Akucaci ukuba le ntsomi yavela njani, kodwa uninzi lurhanela ukuba lusekelwe kubukoloniyali. I-Patricia Park, ye-Bitch Media, ilandelela oku kwabelana ngesondo emva kwemfazwe yaseKorea naseVietnam, xa i-United States yaseka umkhosi.

Amawakawaka amabhinqa aseAsia, kubandakanya nabaseThai nabasePhilippines, bathengiswa kwaye banyanzelwa ukuba benze ubuhenyu kunye namajoni amhlophe aseMelika. (Iziphumo ezibi zibonakala kakhulu eThailand, apho ukhenketho oluninzi lwezesondo lwaphuhliswa ukuhlawula amatyala.)

Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwamadoda amhlophe aqala ukudibana nabafazi baseAsia yayingumxholo woloyiso lomkhosi kunye nolawulo ngokwesondo.

KwiJenali yeAmerican Philosophical Association, uRobin Zheng ubeka inqaku lokuba le mbali ibumbe indlela abantu ababhencwa ngayo kubafazi baseAsia namhlanje. I-Hollywood stereotypes ubukhulu becala ipeyinta abafazi base-Asiya njengezesondo, ukusuka kwintombazana ethobekileyo-ekubandezelekeni ukuya e-China Doll nakwinenekazi elinenamba, bade bazale babe ngoomama bengwe. (Ithala lencwadi leKholeji yaseIthaca ligcina uluhlu oluhlaziyiweyo lokuboniswa kwabantu baseAsia kwiifilimu, bonisa indlela iindima ezinqunyelwe ngayo kwizixhaso zesondo, imigulukudu, okanye icinywe ngokupheleleyo.)

Kodwa enye indlela entsha apho uninzi lwezi stereotypes ziyaqhubeka nokuzingisa ngokucacileyo? Iphonografi, umhlaba okhawuleza ube ngowona mthombo uphambili wemfundo yezesondo kulutsha.

Indoda emhlophe eneminyaka engama-27 ubudala, eyacela ukuhlala ingaziwa, yabelana ngendlela le avenue yayilapho yafunda ngayo uluvo lokuba amabhinqa aseAsia anama-vaginas aqinileyo.

Uthi: "Iphonografi inegalelo elikhulu kolu luvo." "Zininzi izinto ezingamanyala, umzekelo, eziza kudibanisa abafazi baseAsia kunye namadoda aMnyama, bedlala loo migaqo yesini. Ke, ndicinga ukuba yinto yemvelo into eyendele emadodeni ezingqondweni zabo. ”

Uninzi lwabasetyhini baseAsia bahlangana okokuqala nolu luvo xa beqala ukulala namadoda.

Nangona kunjalo, le ntsomi ayijikeleziswa kuphela ngaphakathi kwesangqa samadoda. Nabafazi bayayiqhuba le stereotype.

UJenny Snyder, umfazi oneminyaka engama-27 ubudala wase-Asia naye ovela eLouisville, uthi umhlobo wakhe omhlophe ongumhlobo wambuza kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ukuba ubufazi bakhe bebusecaleni. USnyder ukhumbula ukuba: Uye wacinga nokuba ukuqhekeka kweempundu zam kuthe tyaba- njengesinye isidlele sempundu ngaphezulu kwesinye. ”

UMichelle Eigenheer, umfazi waseKorea onesiqingatha waseLouisville, eKentucky, ukhumbula amava apho ugqirha wakhe wezifo zamabhinqa - umfazi omhlophe - watshintshela kwisibhengezo esihlala sigcinelwe ulutsha phakathi kuviwo.

U-Eigenheer uthi: "Inokuba yayinento yokwenza nento yokuba ndandixinene kunokwahluka ngokwenyani kwendalo." “Kodwa indenze ndazibuza - ingaba yinto yokwenene le?”

Njengengcali ye-gynecologist, uGqirha Nwadike akazange akhe ahlangane nemfuneko yokutshintsha ii-speculums. Kungenzeka ukuba abanxibelelani nabantu abaninzi baseAsia. Kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani osekele kubemi babo, mhlawumbi abanalo ithuba lokubona oko kuphelisiwe, utshilo, emva kokubuzwa ukuba kutheni ecinga ukuba olu hlobo luqhubekekayo luyaqhubeka, nakwicandelo lezonyango. "Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba amadoda aMnyama anempawu ezithile, kwaye ayiyonyani leyo, kodwa umbono oqhubekayo uyaqhubeka."

Uninzi lwabasetyhini baseAsia bahlangana okokuqala nolu luvo xa beqala ukulala namadoda

UGrace Que, ibhinqa elineminyaka eli-19 laseTshayina laseMelika elivela eChicago, uthi wayiva le ngcamango “iphoswa ngapha nangapha ngabantu abambalwa kunye nakwinkcubeko yomculo wepop.”

Kodwa akazange azibonele ngokwakhe de aqale ukwabelana ngesondo.Amaqabane akhe angamadoda ayenokuphawula ngokuqina kwakhe ngokuthi amabinzana ecaleni kwemigca, "Owu thixo wam, uqinile."

UJennifer Osaki, umfazi waseJapan waseMelika oneminyaka engama-23 ubudala okhuliswe eLos Angeles, eCalifornia, wayenamava afanayo. Uye weva ngoqhelaniso oluvela kubantu afunda nabo ekholejini, kodwa akazange azibonele ngokwakhe de wathandana nomntu omhlophe unyaka wokugqibela.

Wamxelela ukuba ucinga ukuba amantombazana aseAsia ngawona abalaseleyo kuba ii-vaginas zabo ziqinile.

"Ndayihleka kakubi kuba ngalo mzuzu, ndabona ukuba yinto entle," utshilo u-Osaki.

Kwaye, ilebhile yokuba nelungu lobufazi eliqinileyo yaziwa ngokubanzi kwaye ibonwa njengento "elungileyo" ngabafazi abaninzi baseAsia ngokunjalo.

"Ukuba ubufazi obufanayo buyinto, ndiyathemba ukuba ndinayo," utsho uQue. "Ngokucacileyo isini sinokuxabiswa nangakumbi ngomnye umntu kunokuba besele kunjalo. Abahlobo bam abaninzi abalungileyo bahlala besithi ukuxinana kakhulu, kakhulu, kulungile kakhulu. ”

Njengokuchasana nelungu lobufazi eliqinileyo elixabisekileyo, ubufazi "obukhululekileyo" bunxulunyaniswa nabasetyhini "abangalunganga" - abasetyhini abanamaqabane amaninzi ezesondo.

UZoe Peyronnin, ibhinqa elineminyaka engama-21 lase-Asiya laseMelika nelikhulele eNew York, liyayivakalisa le meko. Ngelixa ephakamisa inkxalabo ngolu hlobo lwengcinga inokuba nakho ukuqhubela phambili ngesondo amabhinqa aseAsia, ekugqibeleni uqukumbela ngelithi, "Ngokwam, umbono wokuba nelungu lobufazi obungqingqwa uyathandeka, ubuncinci ngokwesondo."

Abanye abantu basetyhini baseAsia, nangona kunjalo, bafumanisa ukuba uhlobo lwengcinga luyingxaki ngakumbi kwaye alonwabisi.

"Ukuba unezihlunu eziqinileyo ezantsi phaya, iyamangalisa," utshilo uPhi Anh Nguyen, umfazi waseAsia waseMelika ovela eSan Francisco, California. “Ndicinga ukuba yinto ekufuneka sizingce ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukubopha olu phawu kubafazi baseAsia ukubenza banqweneleke ngakumbi ngokwesondo akuyona into esempilweni. Iyasichasa. ”

U-Eigenheer uthi uziva engakhululekanga ngokunzulu xa amadoda ekwi-Tinder eyisebenzisa njengomgca wabo wokuvula, okanye kungenjalo amphathe ngokwahlukileyo ngokusekwe kumbono obekiweyo malunga nokuqina kwakhe kwilungu lobufazi.

Uthi: "Bafuna nje ukunxibelelana nezinto ezintsha." "Kodwa eneneni, bondla kwinkqubo ekhohlakele ngokwenene kwabasetyhini. Le ntelekelelo isekelwe kwiingcinga ezininzi zobuhlanga abantu basetyhini abanazo. ”

Umnqweno wokuba nobufazi obomeleleyo buxhaphake kakhulu kwilizwe liphela-kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, kwihlabathi-lichaphazela abantu basetyhini kuyo yonke indawo.

"Kukho le mbono yokufuna ubufazi obuqinileyo," utshilo uGqirha Nwadike. Nangona ebengenazo izigulana zaseAsia ezenza izigqibo ngempilo ngokusekwe kule stereotype, uye waqubisana nezinye iintlanga ezenza isicelo esisekwe kwintsomi yelungu lobufazi elixineneyo. "Ndinabafazi boMbindi Mpuma beza kwenza ukuba ubufazi babo buqine, bafuna utyando lwezithambiso ngenxa yokuba bacelwe ngumyeni wabo."

Thelekisa iingcinga ezibonisa ubungqongqo lobufazi obuqinileyo base-Asiya kunye ne-stereotype yelungu lobufazi. Njengokuchasana nelungu lobufazi eliqinileyo elixabisekileyo, ubufazi "obukhululekileyo" bunxulunyaniswa nabasetyhini "abangalunganga" - abasetyhini abanamaqabane amaninzi ezesondo.

"Akukho bhinqa lifuna ukuba ngqindilili," utshilo u-Eigenheer. “Kubuhlungu! Yonke into entsha 'yelungu lobufazi elixineneyo' ikwintlungu yomfazi-uyolo lwendoda ngokuphulukana nobunzima bomfazi. "

Le ngcamango ihlala isetyenziselwa ukuhlazeka, njengokuba umfazi ongumKristu efanisa ubufazi bukaTaylor Swift kunye nesandwich yokwenza ham ukuba athethe. Kwaye intetho ethoba isidima ethi "ukuphosa inja eshushu ezantsi epasejini" ikwacebisa ukuba ubufazi babasetyhini bunwenwe emva kokulalana kakhulu.

Ingxaki, nangona kunjalo, kukuba le ntsomi yelungu lobufazi, kunye nezinye iintsomi zangasese, ayisekelwanga kwisayensi.

Inzululwazi ibonisa amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuba ukukhululeka kwilungu lobufazi akunanxibelelaniso konke konke nokuziphatha okubi. Akubangakho sifundo sithelekisa i-vaginas yabantu base-Asiya kwezinye iintlanga.

Abantu abaninzi endithethe nabo nabo bathi akubonakali ngathi kukho nasiphi na isiseko senzululwazi yolu luvo. "Abasetyhini beza ngazo zonke iimilo kunye nobukhulu," utshilo uNguyen.

Nangona kunjalo, ekubeni le ntsomi ubukhulu becala isekwe kumava obuqu, axhomekeke kakhulu, kuyakubakho abanye, njengelungu elimhlophe elineminyaka engama-27 ubudala, nelinyanzelisa ukuba lo mbono “ngokuqinisekileyo uyinyani.”

"Kumava am, ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba iyinyani amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuba abafazi baseAsia baye bathambisa ubufazi," utshilo. "Ndingathi bomelele kunabanye abafazi bezinye iintlanga."

Kwelinye icala, u-Eigenheer unamava obuqu acacisa okwahlukileyo.

"Kumava am, ayisiyonyani le," utshilo. “Akukho ndoda yakha yandixelela ukuba ubufazi bam bohlukile komnye umntu. Kwaye xa ndithetha nabanye abafazi baseAsia, ndicinga ukuba bangathetha into enye. ”

U-Irene Kim, oneminyaka engama-23 ubudala waseKorea waseMerika waseNew Jersey, uyavuma, egatya le ntetho. Uthi akunakwenzeka ukuba yinyani ebhodini kubo bonke abafazi baseAsia.

UKim uthi: "Awungekhe ubeke uphawu kubemi bonke benempawu ezichazayo." "Ukuba ayiyonyani kuwo onke amabhinqa aseAsia, ke akufuneki kuthethwe ngawo ngokungathi kunjalo."

Ngaphandle kokungasekelwanga kwinyani yesayensi, le stereotype yesondo ikwayingozi kuba igxininisa ukubaluleka kolonwabo lwamadoda ngokuxhamla kwintlungu yabasetyhini.

"Akukho bhinqa lifuna ukuba ngqindilili," utshilo u-Eigenheer. “Kubuhlungu! Yonke into entsha 'yelungu lobufazi elixineneyo' ikwintlungu yomfazi-uyolo lwendoda ngokuphulukana nobunzima bomfazi. "

Yiyo loo nto, ingamangalisi intsomi yokuba amabhinqa ase-Asiya ane-vaginas eziqinileyo anefuthe elibuhlungu kubafazi abangaphandle koluntu lwase-Asiya ngokunjalo. Izifundo ziya zisanda ukubonisa ukuba abantu basetyhini bafumana iintlungu (malunga neepesenti ezingama-30 e-United States) xa besabelana ngesondo ngokungena.

Into enomdla kukuba, bakhona abafazi baseAsia baseMelika-ngakumbi abo baneminyaka eli-18 ukuya kwengama-21 ubudala abahlala kwizixeko ezikhulu ezingaselunxwemeni-abangazange bakuva nokuva ngale ntsomi.

"Ngaba le yinto?" Ubuza uAshlyn Drake, umfazi oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala waseTshayina ovela eNew York. "Andizange ndive ngale nto ngaphambili."

Kodwa intsomi yokufa ayithethi ukuba iziphumo ziyanyamalala kunye nayo

Uphendlo olukhawulezileyo lukaGoogle "lomdyarho wobufazi obungqingqwa" lukwazisa nemisonto eliqela yokudibanisa le ntsomi. Ngelishwa, endaweni yokulahla umbono ngokupheleleyo, le misonto-ukusuka ku-2016-isebenzisa izifundo ezincinci nezingaphelelanga (ezijolise kwimidyarho emithathu kuphela kunye nokungahambelani nomchamo) ukuphinda ujonge iilensi kubafazi abamnyama endaweni yoko.

Akukho sizathu sesifundo esikhulu malunga nobuhlanga kunye ne-vaginas eyake yenziwa. "Kutheni le nto umntu efunda lo nto kwaye angayifeza ngayiphi injongo?" Utshilo uGqirha Nwadike. Ukhankanya ukuba zininzi kangakanani ezinye izalathi zobungakanani be-pelvic ngaphaya kobuhlanga, ezinje ngohlobo lomzimba, ubudala, kunye nokuzala. “Zininzi izinto eziguquguqukayo zokwenza ingxelo ebanzi. Ukuba ujonga ubungakanani, inye kuphela i-metric. Umntu ndimjonga njengothelekisekayo. ”

Umbuzo, ke, ayisiyiyo ukuba ngaba ayinyani amabhinqa aseAsia eneneni ane-vaginas eziqinileyo kunabafazi bezinye iintlanga.

Ukuba "noluhlanga luni" incoko iyaphazamisa kwaye iyanciphisa ukubaluleka kwabasetyhini njengabantu ngokwaneliseka ngokwesondo abanokukubonelela ngamadoda (amaxesha amaninzi ngokufumana ukonwaba nokonwaba kwabo).

Ngokukodwa xa kusekho uphononongo kunye neengxelo zabasetyhini abanesondo esomileyo ngenjongo yokukholisa amadoda.

Endaweni yoko - xa intsomi ngoku inamandla amakhulu okulimaza kunoncedo- umbuzo esifanele ukubuza wona ngowokuba, kutheni le nto “ukuqina” kwelungu lobufazi kubalulekile?

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