Isebenza njani iTucking kwaye ikhuselekile?

Umxholo

• Isigama secandelo lomzimba
• Ungayenza njani
• Izixhobo
• Ukutsala iimvavanyo
• Ukukhusela ngetape
• Ngaphandle kwetape
• Ungayikhupha njani
• Izilungiso kunye nokuhamba
• Ubungakanani betucking kunye nepenisi
• Ngaba ikhuselekile?
• Yise kude

Yintoni i-tucking?

Ukuntywila kuchazwa yiNkqubo yoLwazi lwezeMpilo eTransgender njengeendlela umntu anokuyifihla ngayo incanca kunye novavanyo, njengokuhambisa incanca kunye nesirhashalala phakathi kweempundu, okanye ukuhambisa iimvavanyo ziye kungena kwimijelo ye-inguinal. Imijelo ye-inguinal yenza indawo yomzimba apho iimvavanyo zihlala khona ngaphambi kokuzalwa.

Ukuntywila kungasetyenziswa ngabantu abachonga njenge:

• Abafazi abadlulayo
• Utshintsho femme
• ukungahambelani ngokwesini
• nonbinary
• iminyaka yobudala

Abanye abantu banokuphinda benze iinjongo zobuhle, ze-cosplay okanye zokutsala. Ukuntywila kuya kuvumela bonke aba bantu ukuba bafezekise inkangeleko egudileyo kwaye bafihle naliphi na ilungu langasese langaphandle.

Isigama secandelo lomzimba

Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ulwimi olubonisa ngokuchanekileyo isazisi somntu. Ngelixa amagama athi "umthondo," "itestes" kunye "namasende" esetyenziswa kweli nqaku ukubhekisa kumalungu omzimba, ayingabo bonke abantu abadlulayo okanye abantu abathandanayo abachonga ngala magama ukubhekisa emzimbeni wabo. Funda ngakumbi ngokuthetha nabantu abadlulayo okanye abangazisebenzisiyo.

Ungayenza njani

I-Tucking isenokungonwabisi kakuhle, kodwa ayifanelanga ukuba ibuhlungu. Musa ukunyanzelisa amalungu akho esini ukuba ahambe. Ukuba unengxaki okanye ufumana ukungakhululeki okuninzi, yeka. Thatha ikhefu, kwaye ubuye kamva.

Ziqhelise ukubamba amatyeli ambalwa xa ukhululekile kwaye kwindawo efanelekileyo ekhaya ngaphambi kokuba uphume. Oku kunokukunceda ukuba uphephe naluphi na uvalo okanye uxinzelelo esidlangalaleni ukuba lixesha lokuqala ukubetha.

Izixhobo

Inyathelo lokuqala lokucwangcisa ukuseta izinto ozifunayo. Oku kubandakanya:

• iteyiphu yezonyango
• isinxibo sangaphantsi esinqabileyo
• i-gaff, ukuba iyanqweneleka, yomaleko wesibini ukwenza umhlaba ocabaleleyo nogudileyo

I-gaff sisiqwenga selaphu esibonisa umzimba ongezantsi. Zihlala zenziwe nge-pantyhose esikiweyo, okanye zingathengwa kwi-intanethi okanye kwiivenkile ezilungiselela abantu be-LGBTQIA. I-Pantyhose inokufumaneka kwiivenkile ezininzi kunye nakwiivenkile kwaye izakuvumela ukuba ulungelelanise ubungakanani be-gaff kwiimfuno zakho.

Abanye abantu banokusebenzisa i-panty liner ngaphambi kokunxiba impahla yangaphantsi. I-panty liners inokufumaneka kwicandelo lokhathalelo lobufazi kwiikhemesti okanye ezivenkileni. Eli candelo lisoloko likufutshane necandelo locwangciso-ntsapho.

Ukutsala iimvavanyo

Emva kokuba uqokelele izinto zakho, ungaqala ngokufaka iimvavanyo. Iimvavanyo ziya kuthi tyibilika zibuyele phezulu kwimijelo ye-inguinal. Ungasebenzisa iminwe emibini okanye emithathu ukubakhokelela kumsele wabo ohambelana nawo. Musa ukukhawuleza eli nyathelo. Ukuba kukho nayiphi na intlungu okanye ukungonwabi, yima uzame kwakhona emva kwekhefu elifutshane.

Emva koko, unokufaka isirotari kunye neepenisi. Oku kunokwenziwa kwaye kukhuseleke kunye okanye ngaphandle kwetheyiphu.

Ukukhusela ngetape

Ukuba uza kusebenzisa itheyiphu, kuya kufuneka usebenzise iteyiphu yezonyango endaweni yetape okanye nayiphi na enye iteyipu. Kungenxa yokuba awufuni ukuba isincamathelisi sonakalise ulusu lwakho. Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukufumana iteyiphu yonyango kwikhemesti yakho yasekuhlaleni, okanye kwicandelo loncedo lokuqala lokutya kunye neevenkile zesebe.

Ukuba ucwangcisa ukusebenzisa itheyiphu, susa ngononophelo naluphi na unwele kwindawo ngaphambi kokufaka iteyiphu. Ngale ndlela uya kuthintela ukutsala iinwele xa ususa kamva. Ukususa iinwele kunokukunceda unqande iintlungu ezibangelwa yiteyiphu etsala iinwele njengoko uhamba-hamba.

Nje ukuba uvavanyo luqinisekiswe kwimijelo yamanzi, yithi ngco ngobunono isirhorho esijikeleze incanca kwaye ukhuseleke ngetape yezonyango. Gcina isandla esinye kwizitho zangasese ukugcina yonke into irhabaxa, kwaye ubambe amalungu akho obuni umva phakathi kwemilenze yakho neempundu. Ukugqiba inkqubo yokutsala ngokutsala isambatho sangaphantsi esifanelekileyo okanye i-gaffe.

Le ndlela iya kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela kuba uzakufuna ixesha elingakumbi lokususa itheyiphu kwaye uphinde ufake isicelo. Ukwaqhuba umngcipheko ophezulu wokucaphuka kolusu. Uncedo lweteyiphu kukuba i-tuck yakho iya kukhuseleka ngakumbi kwaye kunqabile ukuba ingenzeki.

Ngaphandle kwetape

Ukuntywila ngaphandle kwetheyiphu kusetyenziswa inkqubo efanayo, kodwa isenokungakhuselekanga njengetape. Nangona kunjalo, awubaleki umngcipheko ofanayo wokukhulisa okanye ukukrazula ulusu xa ususa itheyiphu kamva.

Qala ngokutsala isambatho sangaphantsi okanye i-gaff ukuya emadolweni okanye emathangeni. Oku kuya kunciphisa umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ngumlinganiso wakho ngexesha lokugqibela lokukhusela. Kuya kwenza kube lula ukukhusela yonke into ekhoyo. Ukuba eli nyathelo lithintela amandla akho okukhusela ngokukhuselekileyo amalungu akho esini kude ngokwaneleyo, ungatsiba. Gcina nje iimpahla zakho zangaphantsi okanye i-gaffe isondele kuwe ukuze ungahambeli ndawo kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba yonke into ikhuseleke.

Emva koko, khusela iimvavanyo kwimisele kwaye emva koko usongele iscrotum ngokungathi yi-penis. Gcina isandla esinye kwilungu elisongelweyo, kwaye usitsale umva phakathi kwemilenze yakho kunye neempundu. Ngesandla sakho sasimahla, tsala ingubo yangaphantsi okanye i-gaff kwaye ukhusele yonke into ngezandla zozibini. Nje ukuba uqiniseke ukuba yonke into ikhuselekile, ungayeka uhambe.

Ukuntywila ngaphandle kwetape kuvumela ukufikelela ngokulula nangokukhawulezileyo ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisa igumbi langasese ngelixa ujikeleza. Unokuba nengxaki yokufumana kwakhona kwi-snugness efanayo emva kokuzihlengahlengisa kwakhona, nangona kunjalo.

Ungayikhupha njani

Umonde nokhathalelo olufanayo olisebenzisayo xa usenza i-tuck kufuneka ulwenzile xa ungafakwanga. Ukuba usebenzise iteyiphu, coca iteyiphu kude kwisingxobo samatyhalarha, uze ubuyisele incanca kwindawo yayo yokuphumla. Ukuba itheyipu ayinakuphuma ngokulula kwaye ingenazintlungu zinkulu, faka ilaphu lokuhlamba elimanzi, okanye ufunxe indawo emanzini ashushu ukuze wophule ukunamathela. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona i-remover adhesive.

Ukuba awuzange usebenzise iteyiphu, sebenzisa izandla zakho ukukhokela ngobunono ipenisi yakho kunye nesirhashalala ukubuyela kwindawo yabo yoqobo, yokuphumla.

Izilungiso kunye nokuhamba

Ukuba uyavuka ngelixa ubamba, ngekhe ubonwe ngaphandle kokuba kukho umba ngetheyiphu yezonyango, i-gaff, okanye impahla yangaphantsi, okanye awuzange ukhuseleke ngokukhuselekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ulwakhiwo luqale. Kuya kufuneka ukuba uphinde uzilungiselele. Unokufumana ukungonwabi kunye nentlungu encinci.

Ubungakanani betucking kunye nepenisi

Ukuba unobubanzi obubanzi, i-tucking isenokukusebenzela. Kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha elincinci ukhusela i-tuck, nangona kunjalo. Kuya kufuneka uphinde usebenzise amanye amacwecwe etheyiphu yezonyango xa ukhusela isirhashalala kwilungu lobudoda, okanye umaleko wesibini wempahla yangaphantsi ukunceda ukufezekisa ubuninzi.

Lumka unganqumli ukujikeleza kwegazi kwimizamo yakho yokwenza iileya ezingaphezulu okanye umphezulu othambileyo.

Ngaba ikhuselekile?

Kukho uphando oluncinci olupapashiweyo malunga neziphumo zexesha elide zokwenza i-tucking. Eminye imingcipheko enokuthi yenzeke kukuxakaniseka komchamo, usulelo kunye nezikhalazo zamatyhalarha. Unokufumana ezinye zeempawu ezikhanyayo zokutyiwa sisisu. Ngalo lonke ixesha jonga naluphi na ulusu oluvulekileyo okanye olucaphukisayo ngaphambi nasemva kokungena ukuthintela usulelo.

I-Tucking ayiyi kubangela ukuba ube yinyumba. Unokuba nemicimbi yokuzala ukuba uyathanda kwaye uthatha unyango endaweni yehomoni, nangona kunjalo. Thetha nomboneleli wakho wezonyango malunga namanyathelo onokuwathatha ukuba unomdla wokuba nabantwana bebhayoloji kwixesha elizayo kwaye ukhathazekile malunga neengxaki ezivela kwi-tucking.

Ungakuphepha ukonakalisa izicwili kunye nesihlunu ngokungaze unyanzele okanye utsibe nzima nakweliphi na ilungu lobuni bakho ngelixa uzama ukubamba. Kuya kufuneka uthathe ikhefu ekubambeni ukukhusela uxinzelelo emzimbeni.

Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuxhamla okanye ingozi emzimbeni wakho ukusuka kwixesha elide, thetha nogqirha wakho okanye umboneleli wezonyango. Ukuba awunakho ukufikelela kwangoko kumboneleli wezonyango, nxibelelana neziko lendawo yezixhobo ze-transgender kwaye ubuze ukuba banaye umntu onokuthetha naye malunga nemingcipheko kunye nemibuzo.

Yise kude

Akukho uphando oluninzi malunga nokukhuselwa kunye nokusebenza kwe-tucking. Uninzi lolwazi luvela kwiiakhawunti zakho. Kufuneka uzive ukhululekile ukuthetha nogqirha wakho okanye omnye umboneleli wezonyango malunga nayiphi na inkxalabo onayo malunga nokuhamba. Unokutyelela neziko lasekuhlaleni le-transgender.

Ukuba akukho ziko loluntu le-transgender kwindawo yakho, zininzi izibonelelo ezikhoyo kwi-Intanethi ngokunjalo. Jonga imibutho egxile ekuboneleleni ngezixhobo kuluntu lwe-LGBTQIA.

U-Kaleb Dornheim ngumzabalazo osebenza kwi-NYC kwi-GMHC njengomququzeleli wezobulungisa bezesondo kunye nokuzala. Basebenzisa bona izimelabizo. Kutshanje baphumelele kwiDyunivesithi yaseAlbany kunye neenkosi zabo kwizifundo zabasetyhini, ezesini, kunye nezesondo, begxile kwimfundo yokufunda. U-Kaleb uchonga njengendlovukazi, engenzi nto, engahambelaniyo, egula ngengqondo, elilixhoba lobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo kunye nokuxhatshazwa, kunye namahlwempu. Bahlala neqabane labo kunye nekati kwaye baphupha ngokuhlangula iinkomo xa bengaphandle beqhankqalaza.