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Kwihlabathi apho ukulahleka kwesisindo kuhlala kuyinjongo ephambili, ukubeka iipawundi ezimbalwa kunokuba ngumthombo wokuphoxeka kunye noxinzelelo-ayiyonyani le mpembelelo ku-Anelsa, osandula ukwabelana ngesizathu sokuba amkele ngentliziyo yakhe yonke ukutyeba kwakhe.

"Omnye wabalandeli bam wandibuza ukuba ndibuthandile na ubunzima endinabo ngoku okanye ubunzima endandinabo ngaphambili kwaye ngumbuzo endikhe ndawubuzwa ngaphambili," usandula ukubhala ku-Instagram ecaleni kweefoto zakhe ezintathu. (Inxulumene: I-11 yabasetyhini abaye bafumana ubunzima kwaye basempilweni kunangaphambili)

Kwifoto nganye, u-Anelsa ubonakala enobunzima obahlukileyo. Ngelixa uninzi lweefoto ezinje zizonke malunga notshintsho lomzimba, iposti ka-Anelsa iphonononga utshintsho lwengqondo. Kwi-caption, utyhile indlela alifumene ngayo ixabiso kwindawo nganye yohambo lwakhe. "Ndiwuthanda ngokwenyani umzimba wam ngendlela owawuyiyo ngaphambili kwaye yindlela eyiyo ngoku ngenxa yokuba ndiye ndawuqonda umzimba wam kuwo onke amanqanaba awo ahlukeneyo," ubhale watsho. "Kwandivumela ukuba ndizifundise kwaye ndenze ingqondo yam iphele kuwo onke amabakala ohambo lwam."

Olo hambo lukhokelele u-Anelsa apho akhoyo namhlanje-mhlawumbi iikhilogram ezimbalwa zinzima, kodwa ngakumbi ngokuhambelana nomzimba nengqondo yakhe. “Ukuba ndiza kukhetha enye, ndiyawuthanda umzimba wam ngoku kuba uhambo olukhokelela ekutyebeni kwam lundifundise lukhulu ngam,” ubhale watsho. "Indivumele ukuba ndigxile kumzimba wam ngokugqibeleleyo ngokuchasene nenkalo enye yayo eyayiyinkangeleko yam yangaphandle. Ikwandivumela ukuba ndibe sesichengeni kwaye ndibelane ngokuphandle nabanye kwaye ndijonge kwinqanaba elinzulu kunye nabasetyhini abafana nam abajonge imbonakalo yabo. ukuzuza ubunzima njengomzabalazo kunye nokoyiswa. " (Eyeleleneyo: Abasetyhini abaninzi bazama ukufumana ubunzima ngokutya kunye nokuzilolonga)

Oko akuthethi ukuba indlela ibilula. "Ungandivi kakubi, ndikhe ndanamava koloyiso ekupheleni kwam kodwa ndenze ukhetho olungaqinisekanga lokuhlala ndoyisiwe kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu onokufumana isibindi sokwenza njalo," ubhale watsho.

Ngokunyaniseka malunga nomzimba wakhe oguqukayo, u-Anelsa ufumene indawo yabafazi abaye bafumana "uloyiko olufanayo, umzabalazo, kunye noloyiso" oluza nokuzuza ubunzima, kodwa bakhethe ukufunda kulo, baqhubele phambili, kwaye baqhubeke ukuzama olona guqulelo lungcono lwabo. “Kungenxa yoko le nto ndiye ndatshintsha indlela yam yoqeqesho ukuze ndikubonise konke ukuba ukomelela kuyenzeka,” ubhale watsho. "Nangona ngamanye amaxesha ndisiya ejimini nje ngenxa yokuhlalisana kwabantu kwaye ndisebenzisa izixhobo endingenazo ekhayeni lam awudingi ubulungu bokuzivocavoca obubizayo ukuze uzibonakalise yonke imihla kwaye uziphucule."

Iposti ka-Anelsa sisikhumbuzo esihle sokuba ayizizo zonke iindlela zokuhamba komzimba ezifanayo, kwaye ayimigca. Kuza kubakho amahla ndinyuka kodwa ngumnqweno wokukhula kula mava enza umahluko.

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