Oko Kuthethwa Ngokwenene Ukuba nohlobo loBuntu

Umxholo

• Zeziphi ezinye zeempawu zohlobo A lomntu?
• Yahluke ngantoni kuhlobo B lomntu?
• Zeziphi izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zokuba nobuntu bohlobo A?
• Iinkonzo
• Bendlela
• Iingcebiso ngokuhlala kakuhle udidi A lomntu

Ubuntu bunokwahlulwa ngeendlela ngeendlela. Mhlawumbi uthathe uvavanyo olusekwe kwenye yezi ndlela, ezinje nge-Myers-Briggs Type Indicator okanye i-Big Five inventory.

Ukwahlula ubuntu kuhlobo A kunye nohlobo B yenye yeendlela zokuchaza ubuntu obahlukeneyo, nangona olu luhlu lunokubonwa njengoluhlu oluninzi, kunye no-A kunye no-B kwiziphelo ezichaseneyo. Kuqhelekile ukuba nomxube wohlobo A nohlobo lweempawu B.

Ngokubanzi, abantu abanobuntu bohlobo A bahlala bebonakaliswa njengabakho:

• Iqhutywa
• usebenza nzima
• Ndizimisele ukuphumelela

Bahlala bekhawuleza kwaye bathathe isigqibo, ngokuthanda ukwenza izinto ezininzi. Banokufumana amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo. Oku kukhokelele kubaphandi kwiminyaka ye-1950 kunye neye-1960 ukuba bacebise ukuba abantu abanoluhlobo A lomntu babenesifo sentliziyo, nangona oku kamva kwachithwa.

Zeziphi ezinye zeempawu zohlobo A lomntu?

Akukho nkcazo eqinileyo yokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba nohlobo A lomntu, kwaye iimpawu zingahluka kancinci kumntu kumntu.

Ngokubanzi, ukuba unoluhlobo A lomntu, unga:

• Utyekelo lokwenza izinto ezininzi
• khuphisana
• banamabhongo amaninzi
• zicwangciswe kakuhle
• ukungathandi ukuchitha ixesha
• Uziva ungenamonde okanye ucaphukile xa ulibazisekile
• chitha ixesha lakho elininzi ugxile emsebenzini
• jolisa kakhulu kwiinjongo zakho
• ukubanethuba lokufumana uxinzelelo xa ujongene nokulibaziseka okanye eminye imiceli mngeni echaphazela impumelelo

Ukuba nohlobo lomntu ongu-A kuhlala kuthetha ukuba ufumana ixesha lakho lixabiseke kakhulu. Abantu banokukuchaza njengenkuthazo, ukungabi namonde, okanye zombini. Iingcinga zakho kunye neenkqubo zangaphakathi zinokuthi zigxile kwimibono ephathekayo nakwimisebenzi yangoko ekhoyo.

Ukuziva ungxamisekile emsebenzini kungakhokelela ekubeni uzame ukujongana nezinto ezininzi ngexesha elinye, rhoqo ngaphandle kwekhefu. Usenokuba notyekelo lokuzigxeka, ngakumbi ukuba kuye kwafuneka ushiye into engenziwanga okanye uzive ungakhange wenze umsebenzi olungileyo.

Yahluke ngantoni kuhlobo B lomntu?

Uhlobo lwe-B lomntu ngumlingani wohlobo A lomntu. Kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba ezi ntlobo zibonisa ngakumbi ukubonwa. Uninzi lwabantu luwa ndaweni ithile phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini zigqithileyo.

Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo B bathambekele ekuyekeleleni ngakumbi. Abanye banokuchaza abantu abanobu buntu njengabakhululekileyo okanye abahamba lula.

Ukuba unobuntu bohlobo B, unga:

• chitha ixesha elininzi kwizinto zokuyila okanye kwingcinga yefilosofi
• Ndiziva ndingxamile xa ndigqiba ii-asayinimenti okanye zomsebenzi okanye zesikolo
• ungaziva uxinezelekile xa ungakwazi ukufikelela kuyo yonke into kuluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza

Ukuba nohlobo B lomntu akuthethi ukuba ungaze uzive uxinezelekile. Kodwa usenokuthi xa ungazifezekisi iinjongo zakho ngokuthelekisa abantu abanoluhlobo A lomntu. Unokufumana kulula ukulawula uxinzelelo.

Zeziphi izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zokuba nobuntu bohlobo A?

Ubuntu yinxalenye yento ekwenza ukuba unguye. Akukho mntu "olungileyo" okanye "ombi". Ukuba nohlobo lwe-A yobuntu iza neseti yayo yeendlela ezilungileyo nezingalunganga.

Iinkonzo

Uhlobo lokuziphatha lwe-A lunokuba luncedo, ngakumbi emsebenzini. Ukuba uthe ngqo kwaye wenza isigqibo ngomnqweno onamandla kunye nokukwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho, uya kwenza kakuhle kwiindima zobunkokeli.

Xa ujongene nomceli mngeni, unokukhetha ukuthatha amanyathelo akhawulezileyo endaweni yokuxoxa iiyure. Unokufumana kulula ukutyhalela phambili xa imeko inzima. Ezi mpawu zingabaluleka kakhulu kokubini emsebenzini nasekhaya.

Bendlela

Uhlobo A lokuziphatha ngamanye amaxesha lunxulunyaniswa noxinzelelo. Kunokuvakala kuyindalo ukwenza iiprojekthi ezininzi ngexesha, kodwa oku kungakhokelela kuxinzelelo, nokuba ukhetha ukuqhubeka kakhulu ngexesha elinye.

Olunye uhlobo A lweempawu, ezinje ngotyekelo lokuqhubeka usebenza de yonke into yenziwe, yongeza kolu xinzelelo.

Ngelixa uxinzelelo ngamanye amaxesha luncedo ekukutyhaleni kwimeko enzima, inokuchaphazela impilo yakho yomzimba kunye neemvakalelo ukuba ishiywe ingakhange ihlolwe.

Usenokuba notyekelo lokuba nomsindo omfutshane. Ukuba umntu okanye into ikucothisa, usenokuphendula ungabi namonde, ukuba nomsindo okanye ubutshaba. Oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki kubudlelwane bakho bobuqu kunye nobungcali.

Iingcebiso ngokuhlala kakuhle udidi A lomntu

Khumbula, ukuba nohlobo A lomntu akuyona into elungileyo okanye embi. Ukuba ucinga ukuba unohlobo lwe-A, akufuneki ukhathazeke ngokuzama ukuyitshintsha.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ujongana namanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo, kunokuba luncedo ukukhulisa iindlela zokulawula uxinzelelo, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala usabela kwiimeko zoxinzelelo ngomsindo, ukucaphuka, okanye ubutshaba.

Ukujongana noxinzelelo, cinga ukuzama ezinye zezi ngcebiso zilandelayo:

• Fumana iziphumo zakho. Wonke umntu uneengxaki zoxinzelelo ezahlukeneyo. Ukuchonga nje ngaphambi kokuba ibe ngumcimbi kunokukunceda ufumane iindlela zokubajikeleza okanye ukunciphisa ukubonwa kwakho kubo.
• Thatha ikhefu. Nokuba akunakwenzeka ukuthintela imeko yoxinzelelo ngokupheleleyo, unokuzinika ubuncinci imizuzu eli-15 yokuphefumla, ukuthetha nomhlobo, okanye ukonwabela ikomityi yeti okanye ikofu. Ukuzivumela ixesha elithile lokuziqokelela kunokukunceda ujongane nomceli mngeni ngakumbi.
• Yenza ixesha lokuzilolonga. Ukuthatha imizuzu eli-15 okanye engama-20 yonke imihla ngokwenza izinto ezifumana ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kunokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuphucula imeko yakho. Ukuhamba ngeenyawo okanye ukuhamba ngebhayisikile usiya endaweni yokuqhuba kunokukunceda uphephe ukugcwala kweeyure ngokungxama kwaye uqalise usuku lwakho ngamandla anyukayo.
• Ziqhelanise nokuzikhathalela. Kubalulekile ukuzikhathalela, ngakumbi xa uxinezelekile. Ukuzikhathalela kunokubandakanya ukutya ukutya okunesondlo, ukusebenza, nokulala ngokwaneleyo, kunye nokuthatha ixesha lokonwaba, ukuba wedwa, kunye nokuphumla.
• Funda iindlela ezintsha zokuphumla. Ukucamngca, umsebenzi wokuphefumla, iyoga, kunye neminye imisebenzi efanayo inokuhlisa ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwamahormoni kunye nokukunceda uzive uzolile.
• Thetha nonyango. Ukuba kunzima ukujongana noxinzelelo ngokwakho, ingcali yezempilo yengqondo eqeqeshiweyo inokukunceda ubone imithombo yoxinzelelo kwaye ikuxhase ekufundeni indlela yokujongana nayo.