Baqala nini ukubona iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa?

Umxholo

• Ukubona komntwana wakho: Usana olusanda kuzalwa ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-4
• Ukubona komntwana wakho: iinyanga ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-8
• Ukubona komntwana wakho: iinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwezi-12
• Iimpawu zengxaki yamehlo nokubona kwiintsana
• Amanyathelo alandelayo

Ihlabathi yindawo entsha kwaye iyamangalisa umntwana omncinci. Zininzi izakhono ezitsha ezinokufundwa. Kwaye xa umntwana wakho eqala ukuthetha, ukuhlala, nokuhamba, baya kufunda nokuwasebenzisa ngokupheleleyo amehlo abo.

Ngelixa abantwana abasempilweni bezalwa bekwazi ukubona, abakavelisi amandla okujonga amehlo abo, bawahambise ngokuchanekileyo, okanye bawasebenzise kunye njengababini.

Ukuqhubekeka kolwazi olubonakalayo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuqonda ilizwe elisingqongileyo. Umbono kunye nengxaki yamehlo kwiintsana kungakhokelela kulibaziseko lokukhula, ke kubalulekile ukuba wazi amanyathelo athile njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye umbono wabo ukhula.

Ukubona komntwana wakho: Usana olusanda kuzalwa ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-4

Xa usana lwakho luzelwe, bajonge kuwe nakwihlabathi elibajikelezileyo ngamehlo amdaka. Bangakwazi ukugxila kakuhle kwizinto eziphakathi kwe-8 kunye ne-intshi ezili-10 kude nobuso babo. Lowo ngumgama nje olungileyo wokuba umntwana wakho abubone ubuso bakho njengoko ubarhola ezingalweni zakho.

Emva kobumnyama besibeleko sakho, umhlaba uyindawo eqaqambileyo nenomdla. Ekuqaleni, kuya kuba nzima ukuba umntwana wakho alandelele phakathi kwezinto ezahlukeneyo, okanye ade ahlukanise izinto. Kodwa oku akuyi kuhlala.

Kwiinyanga zokuqala zomntwana wakho, amehlo abo aya kuqala ukusebenza kunye ngakumbi ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa ukulungelelanisa kunokuba yinto ekhohlisayo, kwaye uya kuqaphela ukuba iliso elinye libonakala lizula, okanye amehlo omabini abonakala ngathi awele. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku kuqhelekile.

Ukuba uqhubeka uqaphele ukuba elinye iliso ngokukodwa libonakala lijonge ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle rhoqo, kufanelekile ukuba uthethe nodokotela wezilwanyana ngalo nto kutyelelo lwakho olulandelayo.

Unokuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula ngokulungelelanisa iliso lesandla, ngakumbi xa ujonga amehlo abo elanda into ehambayo kwaye izandla zabo ziyifikelela.

Nangona kungaziwa ukuba iintsana ziyakwazi njani ukwahlula imibala ekuzalweni, umbono wemibala kungenzeka ungakhuli ngokupheleleyo kweli nqanaba, kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuxhamla kwimibala eqaqambileyo kwizinto zabo zokudlala kunye neengubo.

Ngeeveki ezisi-8 ubudala, uninzi lweentsana lunokujonga ngokulula kubuso babazali.

Malunga neenyanga ezi-3, amehlo osana lwakho kufuneka alandele izinto ngeenxa zonke. Ukuba ujija into yokudlala enombala oqaqambileyo kufutshane nosana lwakho, kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukubona amehlo abo elandelela iintshukumo zawo nezandla zabo zifikelela ukuwubamba.

Yiba nomkhwa wokuthetha nosana lwakho kwaye ubonise izinto ozibonayo.

Ukubona komntwana wakho: iinyanga ezi-5 ukuya kwezi-8

Amehlo omntwana wakho aya kuqhubeka ephucula kakhulu kwezi nyanga. Baza kuqala ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezintsha, kubandakanya ukuqonda okunzulu. Obu buchule bokumisela ukuba ikufuphi okanye ikude kangakanani into isekwe kwizinto ezingqonge yona ayisiyiyo into enokwenziwa ngumntwana wakho ekuzalweni.

Ngokwesiqhelo, iliso lomntwana alisebenzi kakuhle ngokwaneleyo kude kube malunga neenyanga ezintlanu. Ngelo xesha, amehlo abo angenza umbono we-3-D wehlabathi abaza kuyidinga ukuqala ukubona izinto nzulu.

Ukuphuculwa kokunxibelelana kwamehlo ngesandla kunceda umntwana wakho abone into enomdla, ayichole, ayiguqule, kwaye ayiphengulule ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Umntwana wakho uya kuthanda ukujonga ubuso bakho, kodwa banokuba nomdla wokujonga iincwadi ezinezinto eziqhelekileyo.

Uninzi lweentsana luqala ukukhasa okanye ngolunye uhlobo zihambile malunga neenyanga ezisi-8 okanye njalo. Ukuhamba-hamba kunceda umntwana wakho aqhubeke nokuphucula ulungelelwaniso lwabo lomzimba kunye neliso.

Ngeli xesha, umbono wombala wosana lwakho nawo uya kuphucula. Thatha umntwana wakho uye naye kwiindawo ezintsha, ezinomdla, kwaye uqhubeke nokukhomba kunye nokulebula izinto ozibonayo kunye. Hlanganisa iselfowuni kwisibhedlele somntwana wakho, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba banexesha elininzi lokudlala ngokukhuselekileyo phantsi.

Ukubona komntwana wakho: iinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwezi-12

Ngexesha umntwana wakho enonyaka omnye ubudala, baya kuba bekwazi ukugweba imigama kakuhle. Obu bubuchule obuza kuluncedo xa behamba ngesofa okanye behamba kwigumbi lokuhlala ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye. Okwangoku, banokuphosa izinto ngokuchaneka, ke lumka!

Okwangoku, umntwana wakho unokubona izinto ngokucacileyo, kokubini kufutshane nakude. Banokujonga ngokukhawuleza nakwizinto ezihamba ngokukhawuleza. Bayakonwabela ukudlala imidlalo yokufihla-kunye-nokufuna izinto zokudlala, okanye ukukroba nawe. Qhubeka nokuqamba izinto xa uthetha nosana lwakho ukukhuthaza ukudibana kwamagama.

Iimpawu zengxaki yamehlo nokubona kwiintsana

Uninzi lweentsana luzalwa lunamehlo aphilileyo aya kukhula ngokufanelekileyo njengoko ekhula. Kodwa iingxaki zamehlo nezombono zinokwenzeka.

Ezi mpawu zinokubonisa ingxaki:

• ukukrazula okugqithisileyo
• iinkophe ezibomvu okanye ezikrwitshi
• elinye okanye omabini amehlo abonakala ejikeleza rhoqo
• uvakalelo olugqithisileyo ekukhanyeni
• umfundi obonakala emhlophe

Oku kunokuba luphawu lweengxaki ezinje:

• ivaliwe imibhobho
• usulelo lwamehlo
• ukulawula ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwemisipha
• uxinzelelo oluphezulu kwiliso
• umhlaza wamehlo

Ukuba uqaphela nayiphi na kwezi mpawu, tsalela ugqirha wakho.

Amanyathelo alandelayo

Ngelixa umntwana wakho enokukubona kwangoko emva kokuzalwa, baya kuchitha unyaka olandelayo bephucula umbono wabo kunye nokuqonda izakhono ezitsha.

Ungalukhuthaza olu phuhliso ngokuzibandakanya nosana lwakho kwaye wazi ngayo nayiphi na imiqondiso enokubonisa ingxaki. Thetha nogqirha wakho ukuba unomdla.

UJessica Timmons ubesoloko engumbhali ozimeleyo ukusukela ngo-2007. Uyabhala, ahlele, aze abonisane neqela elikhulu leeakhawunti ezizinzileyo kunye neprojekti yamathuba athile, ngalo lonke eli thuba ejongene nobomi obuxakekileyo babantwana bakhe abane kunye nomyeni wakhe ohlala ehlala abantu. Uyakuthanda ukuphakamisa iintsimbi, ii-latte ezintle, kunye nexesha losapho.