Indlela yokuthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuhlamba umntwana wakho nini

Umxholo

• Ixesha
• Iimeko ezizodwa
• Umngcipheko ophezulu
• Ukuphindaphinda
• Inkcubeko okanye iNkolo
• Ukuphumla kwebhedi
• Ukubhalisa
• Imiboniso elandelayo yokukhulelwa
• Ukuthatha

Sibandakanya iimveliso esicinga ukuba ziluncedo kubafundi bethu. Ukuba uthenga amakhonkco kweli phepha, sinokufumana ikhomishini encinci. Nantsi inkqubo yethu.

Nje ukuba ugqithele kukothuka kokuqala kokufumana uvavanyo lokukhulelwa oluqinisekileyo, uya kuqala ukuzinza kwingcinga yokuba ngumzali.

Njengoko ukuqeshwa kukagqirha kunye ne-ultrasound kuza kwaye kuhamba, konke kuya kuqala ukuziva kuyinyani. Kungekudala, uza kuzisa umntwana ekhaya.

Iintsana azidingi zinto zininzi kwiintsuku zokuqala, kodwa zininzi izinto ezinokwenza ubomi nosana olusanda kuzalwa lube lula kakhulu. Ukubhalisela izipho oza kuzifumana kwishawari yakho kunokuwunciphisa umthwalo wemali.

Nantsi indlela yokuthatha isigqibo xa kufanele ukuba uhlambe umntwana wakho.

Ixesha

Umhla wokuhlamba umntwana wakho sisigqibo somntu. Abanye abatshatileyo banokungafuni ukuhlamba de kube semva kokuzalwa komntwana. Abanye bakhetha ukuba nayo ngoko nangoko.

Thatha naziphi na izithethe zobuqu, zonqulo, okanye zenkcubeko ekuqwalaseleni ngaphambi kokubeka umhla. Oko kuthethiweyo, uninzi lweeshawari lubanjwa kwiinyanga ezimbini zokugqibela zokukhulelwa.

Kutheni le nto ixesha lisebenza kakuhle? Kwelinye, uphume kwelona candelo likhulu lokukhulelwa kwakho kwikota yesithathu. Oko kuthetha ukuba ithuba lokukhulelwa kwesisu lincitshiswe kakhulu.

Ukwazi isini somntwana, esifunyanwa kwi-ultrasound phakathi kweveki ye-18 neye-20, kubalulekile. Inokuba nefuthe kwizigqibo zakho zobhaliso.

Iimeko ezizodwa

Ngelixa uninzi lwezibini zicwangcisa ishawa kamva xa ukhulelwe, kukho iimeko ezininzi onokuthi uhlangane nazo ezinokuthi zityhale ishawa yakho yamsana kwangoko okanye kamva.

Umngcipheko ophezulu

Ngaba usengozini yokusebenza ngaphambi kwexesha? Ngaba unayo nayiphi na imiba ekukhulelweni kwakho ebonisa ukuba ungabekwa ekuphumleni kombhede okanye ube neminye imiqobo? Ukuba kunjalo, unokufuna ukucwangcisa ishawa yakho yangaphambi kwexesha, okanye ulinde de emva kokufika komntwana wakho.

Ukuphindaphinda

Ukuba unamawele okanye ezinye ukuphindaphinda, unokuhambisa kwangoko kunomhla wakho omiselweyo. Abasetyhini abathwele amawele banamathuba amathandathu okuba banikezele ngeempazamo ngaphambi kweveki yama-37 kunabafazi abaphethe umntwana omnye.

Inkcubeko okanye iNkolo

Abanye abantu basetyhini banokuba neentloni zokuhlamba ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe ngaphandle kwenkcubeko okanye inkcubeko. Umzekelo, umthetho wamaJuda awuthinteli izibini ekubeni zihlambe iintsana. Kodwa ezinye izibini ezingamaJuda zikuthatha njengemeko yokuthenga izixhobo zabantwana, iimpahla, okanye ukuhombisa indawo yokugcina abantwana ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe.

Ukuphumla kwebhedi

Ukuba ubekwe ebhedini ekuphumleni ekhaya okanye esibhedlele, imeko yakho yeshawari inokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Usenokuba nakho ukubeka phantsi kwaye ubeke iinyawo zakho phezulu ngelixa unabahlobo abasondeleyo kunye nosapho beze ekhayeni lakho. Awukabhalisi okwangoku? Iivenkile ezininzi zibonelela ngobhaliso olubonakalayo apho ungakhangela khona kwaye ungeze izinto kwigumbi lakho lokuhlala.

Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, unako ukuhlamba nanini na naphina. Nokuba ezona zicwangciso zibalaseleyo ngamanye amaxesha zifuna ukulungiswa ngenxa yeemeko ezingalindelekanga. Kukho iiwebhusayithi ezinje ngeWeb Baby Shower ezikunceda ukuba ubambe ishawa ebonakalayo kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho kwihlabathi liphela.

Ukubhalisa

Unokukhetha ukubhalisela ishawa yakho yomntwana kwivenkile yendawo okanye kwi-Intanethi. Jonga kwiAmazon uluhlu lwezinto ezili-100 ezaziwa kakhulu ukubhalisela.

Zama ukungangeni kuzo zonke izinto ezongeziweyo. Endaweni yoko, bambelela kwiziseko. Ukuba ucwangcisa ukuba nabantwana abaninzi, unokufuna ukuya kwimixholo engathathi hlangothi ngokwesini kwezinye zezinto ezinkulu zetikiti ezinjengezihambahamba, izihlalo zeemoto, ibhedi yokulala, kunye nokunye.

Zama ukwenza irejista yakho malunga nosapho lwakho kunye nendlela ophila ngayo. Into esebenzayo kwezinye iintsapho inokungasebenzi kwabanye. Ukuba awufumani yonke into kuluhlu lwakho, unokufuna ukulinda de emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe ukuze ubone ukuba uyayifuna na. Ukusuka apho, unokujonga kwiivenkile ezithengisayo kunye nokuthengiswa kweyadi kwezinto ezisetyenzisiweyo.

Imiboniso elandelayo yokukhulelwa

Ngaba kufuneka uhlambe umzimba ukuba kukukhulelwa kwakho okwesibini okanye okwesithathu? Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo okanye engalunganga kulo mbuzo. Intsapho yakho, abahlobo, kunye nabantu osebenza nabo banokuqhubeka kwaye bakucwangcisele ishawa. Ngokubhekisele ekucwangciseni ngokwakho, unokufuna ukuqaphela ukuba ufuna lukhulu ukuqala ngalo.

Ukuba unexesha elibalulekileyo phakathi kokukhulelwa kwakho, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho izinto onokuzifuna. Iigiya ezifana nezihlalo zeemoto kunye neekreyibhi zinokuwohloka kwaye ziphelelwe lixesha. Ngaphambi kokutsala yonke into kwindawo yokugcina, jonga ukukhumbula kunye nemimiselo yangoku yokhuseleko. Gcina uluhlu lwezinto oza kuzithenga ezintsha.

Ukuba ungathanda ukuhlamba umntwana ukubhiyozela inqwaba yakho entsha yovuyo, cwangcisa indibano encinci. Cinga "ngokufafaza" xa kuthelekiswa nepati enkulu. Ukufafaza ishawa elula apho iindwendwe zinokuzisa khona izinto ezimbalwa eziyimfuneko (amanabukeni, iibhotile, kunye nokunye) kwaye ziguqule ngakumbi ukugxila kokongeza usapho.

Ukuthatha

Ishawa yabantwana yindlela efanelekileyo yokubhiyozela umntwana wakho oza kubakho. Inokunciphisa umthwalo wezezimali wazo zonke ezo zinto "kufuneka-ube nazo" izinto zomntwana.

Sukuxakaniseka kakhulu ekucwangciseni nasekulungiseleleni ipati enkulu emva kwexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho. Ekugqibeleni, umntwana wakho akadingi zinto zininzi kangaka. Zikhathalele kwaye wonwabele usuku lwakho olukhethekileyo.

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