UHilary Duff Uvula Ngesigqibo Sakhe Sokuyeka Ukuncancisa Emva kweenyanga ezintandathu

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Sikhathazekile Abancinci Inkwenkwezi uHilary Duff ngezizathu ezininzi. Edlule Ubume Intombazana yokugquma iyimodeli enesimo esihle somzimba engenangxaki yokuzigcina iyinyani kunye nabalandeli bayo. Imeko: ixesha awavula ngalo malunga nokubhiyozela ilungu lomzimba "wayengasoloko ethanda".

Kutshanje, ugqibe ekubeni avuleleke ngakumbi kubalandeli bakhe ngokwabelana ngesigqibo sakhe sokuyeka ukuncancisa intombi yakhe uBank kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Kwiposti yeemvakalelo, umdlali we-actress wathi ukuyeka lo mkhuba sisigqibo somntu ngamnye kwaye ukuba, xa ungumama, kulungile ukubeka iimfuno zakho kuqala.

“Ndingumama wabantwana ababini osebenzayo,” watsho uDuff. "Injongo yam yayikukufumana intombazana yam encinci iinyanga ezintandathu emva koko ndenze isigqibo sokuba mna (kunye naye kunjalo) ndifuna ukuqhubeka."

Wongeze ukuba ishedyuli yakhe yempambano yenze kwanzima nangakumbi kuye ukuba apompe. Ubhale wathi: “Ukumpompa amanzi emsebenzini kuyabheda.

Kwi-Duff, ukumpompa kwiseti ye- Abancinci ngokuqhelekileyo kwakuthetha ukuhlala esitulweni, kwinqwelo erhuqwayo, engqongwe ngabantu ngelixa besenza iinwele zakhe kunye ne-makeup.

"Nokuba bendinobunewunewu egumbini lam, ayithathwa njenge 'khefu' kuba kufuneka uhlale nkqo ukuze ubisi lungene ezibhotileni!" Ubhale. "Emva koko kufuneka ufumane indawo ethile yokucoca iibhotile kwaye ugcine ubisi lwakho lubanda."

Kwaye ke kwabakho umba wokuhambisa kwakhe ubisi kuyehla.

"Ubisi lwakho lwehla kakhulu xa uyeka ukondla rhoqo kwaye uphulukane nonxibelelwano kunye nokunxibelelana nosana lwakho," utshilo. "Ke bendisitya yonke ifenugreek yeebhokhwe ezimpundu ezisikelelweyo i-thistle fennel cookies / amathontsi / ukushukumisa / iipilisi endinokuzibeka izandla!

Ngelixa uhambo lwakhe lokuncancisa lwalulucelomngeni ngamanye amaxesha, u-Duff akazange abe nombulelo ngakumbi ngethuba lokondla intombi yakhe ixesha elide njengoko wayesenza.

“Ngako konke oku kukhalaza, ndifuna ukuthi ndiyonwabele (phantse) yonke imzuzu yokondla intombi yam,” ubhale watsho. “(I) ndizive ndinethamsanqa ukuba ndisondele kuye kwaye ndimnike isiqalo. Ndiyazi ukuba uninzi lwabasetyhini alunakho kwaye ngenxa yoko, ndinovelwano kwaye ndinombulelo kakhulu ukuba ndinako. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezimnandi. "

Kodwa kwafika kwinqanaba apho uDuff wayesazi ukuba kufuneka azibeke kuqala. Ubhale wathi, "bendizophula." Ngoxinzelelo lokwehlisa ubisi kunye nomntwana owayedikwa okanye angakhathali ngononophelo xa ndandifumaneka. Ndandibuhlungu kwaye ndikhathazekile kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndisilele ngalo lonke ixesha. "

UDuff ayinguye yedwa oziva ngale ndlela. Kunyaka ophelileyo, uSerena Williams wabelana ngendlela "awakhala kancinci ngayo" emva kokuba eyekile ukuncancisa intombi yakhe uAlexis Olympia. "Emzimbeni wam, [ukuncancisa] khange kusebenze, nokuba ndisebenze kangakanani, nokuba ndenze kangakanani; khange kundisebenzele, utshilo ngexesha lenkomfa yeendaba ngelo xesha.

Nkqu noKhloé Kardashian wayeziva ngathi olu qheliselo lwalungekho kuye. "Kwakunzima kum ukuba ndiyeke (ngokweemvakalelo) kodwa bekungasebenzi kumzimba wam. Ngokudabukisayo," wathumela i-tweeted kunyaka ophelileyo.

Ngelixa baninzi oomama ngaphandle apho abanangxaki yokuncancisa iinyanga, ukuba akunjalo iminyaka, ngokuqinisekileyo ayinguye wonke umntu. Ewe, kukho iitoni zezibonelelo zokuncancisa, kodwa abanye abantu basetyhini ngokwendalo abavelisi ubisi olwaneleyo, abanye abantwana abakwazi "ukubambelela," eminye imiba yezempilo inokuthintela ukwenziwa ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iba buhlungu kakhulu. (Idibeneyo: Ukuvuma kukaMfazi okubuhlungu malunga nokuncancisa #SoReal)

Enoba siyintoni na isizathu, ukukhetha ukungancancisi sisigqibo sobuqu—ekungekho mama afanele abe neentloni ukusenza. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba abantu abadumileyo babelane ngamava abo nabanye abantu basetyhini abanokuthi bazive benetyala ngesigqibo sabo sokuyeka ukuncancisa.

Kwabo bafazi, uDuff uthi: "(Sithe) ngandlel 'ithile sinamathele kwimvakalelo esinokuthi sihlale senza okungaphaya. Somelele njengesihogo siphumelele. Ndiyamangaliswa kuko konke esinokukwenza ngemini enye! Oko kuya kum, abahlobo bam bakamama, umama, okanye udadewethu! Ndandifuna ukwabelana ngoku kuba ukuthatha isigqibo sokuyeka i-BFing kwakuneemvakalelo kwaye kunzima."

Ekupheleni kosuku, ukuyeka ukuncancisa sisigqibo esaba luncedo koDuff nosana lwakhe — kwaye yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.

"Ndonwabile ukuthetha ukuba khange nditye okanye ndimpompe ngeentsuku ezintathu kwaye kuyaphambana ukuba ungaphuma ngokukhawuleza kangakanani kwelinye icala," ubhale watsho, ephelisa iposti yakhe. "Ndiziva ndiphilile kwaye ndonwabile kwaye ndikhululekile kwaye ndisisidenge kangangokuba ndade ndacinezela kakhulu kuyo. Iibhanki ziyachuma kwaye ndifumana ixesha elingakumbi kunye naye kwaye notata ufumana ukondla okuninzi! Kwaye umama ufumana ubuthongo obuncinci ngakumbi!"

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