Kutheni Ukwabelana ngeZibhalo zakhe kungathumela ulwalamano lwakho

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Ukuba umhla wakho "Kwenzeka ntoni?" Umbhalo ucinga ukuba ucinga i-WTF, awuwedwa.

Kwimeko yenqaku: ukukhula okuthandwayo kwe-HeTexted.com, iwebhusayithi apho unokufaka khona umfanekiso wescreen sakho kwaye uvumele amagqabantshintshi ukuba alinganise oko akuthethayo ngokwenene kwakuthetha. Isiza okwangoku siqhayisa ngaphezulu kwe-1.2 yezigidi kutyelelo olukhethekileyo lwenyanga, kunye nencwadi yeqabane eliza kupapashwa kungekudala, Ubhale umyalezo: Isikhokelo sokuGqibela sokuDibana kwiXesha leDijithali, Isikhokelo sokuzinceda esilungiselelwe ukunceda abafazi abangatshatanga ukuba bahambe kwilizwe eliya liba nzima kwiintliziyo ze-Instagram, ukuthanda kuka-Facebook, kunye nemibhalo ezaliswe yi-emoji.

Ngelixa indawo ekuncedayo ukuba ujonge kwilizwe lokuthandana ngokwamanani livakala ngokuqaqamba, sisazibuza, ngawuphi umda kwimida yokujonga ngaphezulu? Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngamanye amaxesha ukukhangela uluvo lwesibini ukumisela umhla wakho we-jour, kodwa bayalumkisa ukuba ukuthembela kakhulu kwiimpembelelo zangaphandle kungonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho.

Wonke umntu onikezela ngezimvo zakhe kubudlelwane bakho uza ngokwendlela yakhe kwaye uza nempahla yakhe, utshilo uJordan Harbinger, ingcali kwezobudlelwane kunye nomnini weThe Art of Charm. Emntwini uthatha umhlobo wakho osenyongweni iglasi-engenanto ngaphandle kwembewu yetyuwa kuba uyazi ukuba uza kuphuka kakubi. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba ungenalo nofifi apho abagqabazi abangaziwayo bavela khona, unganika izimvo zabo ubunzima obukhulu xa kufikwa kwiingcebiso zabo kubomi bakho bokuthandana. [Twitha le nyaniso!]

Kwaye nokuba wonke umntu ophawulayo uthi isicatshulwa osilayishile sivakala simnandi, sisenokuba yingxaki, utshilo uHarbinger. Okukhona uthetha kwaye uhlalutya indoda oyibonayo, kokukhona uya kucinga ngaye njengesiqhelo. Ukuba uchitha imvakwemini umenzela umbulelo kubo bonke "ungumyeni wakho wexesha elizayo!’ izimvo ozifumeneyo, ngoko unokuphoxeka xa umfumana esenza ngathi…umfo oqhelekileyo oye walibala ukuba ungumntu otya imifuno (nangona wamxelela ukuba ngomhla wakho wokugqibela) aze akubuze ukuba ufuna ukwahlula ipleyiti yamaphiko enkukhu.

Okokugqibela, lonke elo xesha ulichithe ucinga ngeetekisi zakhe linciphisa ixesha lokunxibelelana naye. Yiyo loo nto iingcali zivuma ukuba kungcono uye ngqo kumthombo ukuba ubhidekile. "Ukutsiba izigqibo ufika nje uswele, uziphindezela, okanye uphambene," utshilo uJay Cataldo, umqeqeshi wokuthandana kunye nolwalamano kwisiXeko saseNew York. Kodwa ukuba awuqinisekanga, mbuze ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni na.

Umzekelo, yithi uqhele ukuthumela umyalezo rhoqo kwiiyure ezimbalwa kodwa ngequbuliso uye waphuma kwi-radar usuku lonke. Endaweni yokucinga, yithi into enje, "Xa ungaphendulanga kwizicatshulwa zam izolo, indenze ndaziva ngathi ndiyakukhathaza. Ngaba leyo yindlela oziva ngayo, okanye ukhe wagxothwa?"

Kunokwenzeka ukuba, wayengazi ukuba ngumcimbi, utshilo uCataldo. "Oku kuninika nobabini ithuba lokwabelana nolindelo lwenu kwaye nazane ngcono." [Tweet le ngcebiso!]

Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha isicatshulwa siyamangalisa kakhulu, sicela uluvo lwangaphandle. Kwimeko enjalo, sebenzisa umyalezo wakhe we-head-scratcher njenge-nudge yokumthumelela inqaku elicela ixesha lobuso ngobuso kwixesha elizayo elingekude.

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