Lo mfazi wayenentloni ngokubonisa i-cellulite kwiifoto zakhe ze-Honeymoon

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UMarie Claire Umbhali wemihlathi uCallie Thorpe uthi ebenengxaki yembonakalo yomzimba ubomi bakhe bonke. Kodwa oko akuzange kumthintele ekubeni azive emhle kwaye ezithembile ngoxa wayekwiholide yomtshato nomyeni wakhe omtsha eMexico.

"Ndaziva ndimnandi ngeholide," uneminyaka eyi-28 uxelele ABANTU. "Nanini na ndingekho, ndihlala ndiziva ndithembele kakhulu. Ndiziva ndinjalo xa ndisenza into abantu abacinga ukuba andinakuyenza, njengokukhwela i-paddle boarding, i-kayaking, ukukhwela ibhayisekile kunye nokuhlola iilwandle kunye ne-cenotes. Abantu bacinga ngenxa yokuba Ndityebe kakhulu kwaye akukho ndlela ndinokwenza ngayo ezo zinto. "

Ngelixa ukonwabela zonke iintlobo zemisebenzi yaselunxwemeni, u-Thorpe ngokwendalo wathumela imifanekiso yakhe emininzi kwisuti yokuqubha kwimidiya yoluntu. Khange acinge kabini malunga ne-cellulite yendalo kunye neyesiqhelo eyayibonakala kwiifoto, kodwa abanye abantu abazondayo kwi-intanethi bagqiba kwelokuba bamhlazise.

"Amagqabantshintshi aqale ukuza emva kokuba ndifake ifoto yam ndikhwele ibhayisekile kwi-bikini yam ngosuku ndiphumile eTulum," utshilo. "Ndandinempendulo entle, kodwa njengakuyo yonke into, ndafumana abambalwa ababi bandibiza ngamagama. [Amagqabantshintshi athi] 'Ndiqhubeke nokuhamba ngebhayisikile, emva koko andizukutyeba kakhulu' kwaye 'Gcina iminenga.' Izinto ezibuhlungu, ngokwenene. " (Funda: Abasebenzi baseLululemon batyholwa ngokuba ngumzimba uhlaze lo mfazi emva kokuba ephulukene neeponti ezingama-80)

Kuyaqondakala ukuba, la mazwi anenzondo ayenempembelelo enkulu kwi-Thorpe, kodwa hayi de washiya iholide yakhe yasemva komtshato.

Omnye uthe wenza amagqabantshintshi ngam ndifuna igrisi ukuze ndingene kwilokhwe yam yomtshato kwaye oko kwandicaphukisa kakhulu, utshilo. "Ndicinga ukuba yayiyingqokelela yokudinwa emva kokuhamba ngenqwelomoya yeeyure ezili-10, kwaye yenye yezinto zokuqala endazibonayo xa ndibuyela ekhayeni lethu kunye. Ndaqalisa ukukhala, ndaza ndacinga nje, 'Iya kuyeka nini le nto. ? ' kwaye 'Kutheni kufanelekile ukuba ndinikwe oku kuba ndisabelana ngemifanekiso yam ndonwabela ubomi bam kwi-intanethi njengaye wonke umntu?' "

Ngokuyinxenye, uThorpe ukholelwa ukuba ngenxa yokulandela kwakhe imidiya yoluntu enkulu, abantu bacinga ukuba banelungelo lokuthetha nantoni na abayifunayo.

Kukho le ngcinga yokuba ukuba ubeka kwi-Intanethi ukuba ungumdlalo olungileyo wokuphathwa gadalala, kwaye ndicinga ukuba ayamkelekanga, utshilo. "Akukho mntu ufanele ukuhlekwa ngenxa yobukhulu bakhe. Bayeke abantu baphile ubomi babo njengoko bebona kufanelekile."

Ngombulelo, kuwo onke amagqabantshintshi angalunganga, uThorpe ufumene izinto ezininzi ezintle kubalandeli abamkhuselayo kwaye bemncoma ngokuwola umzimba wakhe njengoko unjalo.

Kwaye khumbula, ukuphela kosuku, ubuhle lulusu olunzulu kuphela kwaye uThrpe unomyalezo kwabo basokolayo: "Khumbula ukuba umzimba wakho uyinto nje encinci yokuba ungubani. Unobubele kangakanani, ukuthanda kangakanani Kubalulekile ukuba namandla akho, womelele kwaye ukrelekrele kwakho, ndicinga ukuba sibeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kuthi, kwaye ububele yeyona nto iphambili ekufumaneni uthando lomzimba.

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