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Kwiminyaka emithathu edlulileyo, ubomi bukaLauren Rose batshintsha ngonaphakade emva kokuba imoto yakhe yehla iinyawo ezingama-300 kumwonyo kwiHlabathi leSizwe lase-California eCarlifonia. Wayekunye nabahlobo abahlanu ngelo xesha, abambalwa kubo benzakele kakhulu-kodwa akukho namnye ombi njengoLauren.

“Ibindim ndedwa owakhutshelwa ngaphandle emotweni,” utshilo uRose Ubume. "Ndophule ndaza ndophuka umqolo, ndenza umonakalo ongapheliyo kumnqonqo wam, kwaye ndanesifo sokopha ngaphakathi kunye nomphunga ogqobileyo."

URose uthi akakhumbuli kakhulu ngobo busuku ngaphandle kwenkumbulo engacacanga yokuhanjiswa ngenqwelomoya. Into yokuqala endayixelelwayo emva kovavanyo esibhedlele yayikukuba ndonzakele kwaye andinakuphinda ndikwazi ukuhamba kwakhona, utshilo. "Ngelixa ndandinokuwaqonda la magama, ndandingenalo nofifi lokuba kwakuthetha ntoni kanye kanye. Ndandinamayeza anzima kangaka engqondweni yam, ndandicinga ukuba ndonzakele, kodwa ndiza kuphilisa ngokuhamba kwexesha." (Idibeneyo: Ukubandezeleka kwandifundisa njani ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuqhuba umgama omfutshane)

Ubunyani bemeko yakhe buqale ukuntywila ngelixa uRose echitha ngaphezulu kwenyanga esibhedlele. Wenziwa utyando kathathu: Eyokuqala efunekayo yokufaka imisimelelo yentsimbi emqolo ukunceda ukufakela umqolo wakhe kunye. Okwesibini yayikukukhupha amathambo aphukileyo kumqolo wakhe ukuze aphole kakuhle.

URose ucwangcise ukuchitha iinyanga ezine ezizayo kwiziko lokubuyisela kwimo yesiqhelo apho wayeza kusebenzela ekubuyiseleni amandla akhe ezihlunu. Kodwa kwinyanga nje yokuhlala kwakhe, wagula kakhulu ngenxa yokungahambelani neentsimbi. "Kanye njengokuba ndandisiya ndiqhela kumzimba wam omtsha, kwafuneka ndenziwe utyando lwesithathu ukuze kususwe imivalo yentsimbi emqolo, icocwe, iphinde ibuyiselwe, utshilo. (Idibeneyo: Ndiyi-Amputee kunye noMqeqeshi kodwa khange ndibeke unyawo kwi-Gym ndide ndibeneminyaka engama-36)

Ngesi sihlandlo, umzimba wakhe waqhelana nentsimbi, yaye ekugqibeleni uRose wakwazi ukunikela ingqalelo ekuchacheni kwakhe. Uthi: “Xa ndaxelelwa ukuba andisayi kuphinda ndihambe, andizange ndivume. "Ndandiyazi ukuba loo nto kanye oogqirha babefanele bandixelele ngenxa yokuba babengafuni ukundinika ithemba lobuxoki. Kodwa kunokuba ndicinge ngokwenzakala kwam njengesigwebo sobomi, ndandifuna ukusebenzisa ixesha lam kwi-rehab ukuze ndibe ngcono, kuba Intliziyo yam ibisazi ukuba ubomi bam bonke buzokusebenzela ukubuyela esiqhelweni kwakhona. "

Kwiminyaka emibini kamva, xa uRose waziva ngathi umzimba wakhe ufumene amandla emva kwengozi kunye nokwenzakala kotyando, waqala ukubeka yonke imizamo yakhe yokuma kwakhona ngaphandle koncedo. "Ndiyekile ukuya kunyango lomzimba kuba ibiza kakhulu kwaye ingandiniki iziphumo endizifunayo," utshilo. "Ndiyazi ukuba umzimba wam unako ukwenza okungakumbi, kodwa ndifuna ukufumana oko kusebenza kakuhle kum." (Idibeneyo: Lo mfazi uphumelele iMedali yeGolide kwiiParalympics emva kokuba ekwisimo sezityalo)

Ke, uRose wafumana ingcali yamathambo eyamkhuthaza ukuba aqale ukusebenzisa izihlangu zomlenze. "Ngokuwasebenzisa rhoqo kangangoko, ndiza kuba nakho ukugcina uxinano lwamathambo kwaye ndifunde ukugcina ulungelelwaniso lwam," utshilo.

Kutshanje, ubuyile ejimini okokuqala ukusukela kunyango lomzimba kwaye wabelana ngevidiyo yokuma kwakhe ngeenyawo zakhe ngoncedo oluncinci usebenzisa imilenze yakhe yokuqinisa. Wakwazi nokuthabatha amanyathelo ambalwa ngoncedo oluthile. Iposti yakhe yevidiyo, esele ihambile ngokujonga ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezi-3, sisikhumbuzo esisuka entliziyweni sokuba ungawuthathi umzimba wakho okanye into elula njengokushukuma.

Uthi: “Ekukhuleni kwam, ndandingumntwana okhutheleyo. "Esikolweni esiphakamileyo, ndaya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca imihla ngemihla kwaye ndandiyi-cheerleader iminyaka emithathu. Ngoku, ndilwela ukwenza into elula njengokuma-into endiyithathe ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi bam bonke. " (Idibeneyo: Ndifumene yiTrakhi ngelixa ndiSebenza-kwaye yaGuquka ngokuNgapheliyo indlela endijonga ngayo impilo)

"Ndiphulukene phantse nobukhulu bemisipha yam kwaye kuba andinandlela yakulawula imilenze yam, amandla okuziphakamisela endaweni yokuma onke avela kumzimba wam ongaphakathi kunye nangaphezulu," uyachaza. Yiyo loo nto kwezi ntsuku, echitha ubuncinci beentsuku ezimbini ejimini ngeveki, iyure ngexesha, egxininisa onke amandla akhe ekwakheni isifuba, iingalo, umqolo kunye nezihlunu zesisu. "Kufuneka usebenze ekwenzeni wonke umzimba wakho womelele ngaphambi kokuba ufike kwinqanaba lokuhamba kwakhona," utshilo.

Kukhuselekile ukuthi iinzame zakhe sele ziqalile ukuba neziqhamo. "Ndiyabulela ukuzilolonga, kungekuphela kokuba ndive ukuba umzimba wam womelela, kodwa okokuqala, ndiyaqala ukuziva unxibelelwano phakathi kwengqondo yam nemilenze yam," utshilo. "Kunzima ukucacisa kuba ayisiyiyo into onokuyibona ngokwenene, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ndihlala ndisebenza nzima kwaye ndizinyanzele, ndingayibuyisela imilenze yam." (Eyeleleneyo: Ukwenzakala kwam akuchazi ukuba ndilunge kangakanani na)

Ngokwabelana ngebali lakhe, uRose unethemba lokuba uyakukhuthaza abanye ukuba basixabise isipho sokushukuma. “Umthambo ngokwenene liyeza,” utsho. "Ukukwazi ukuhamba kwaye uphilile kuyintsikelelo enjalo. Ke ukuba kukho nantoni na ethathiweyo kumava am, kukuba ungalindi kude kuthathwe into ukuze uyixabise."

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