Unonophelo oludlamkileyo-zinjani iintsuku zokugqibela

Ukuba umntu omthandayo uyafa, unokuba nemibuzo emininzi malunga nokulindela. Ukuphela komntu wonke wohambo lobomi kwahlukile. Abanye abantu bayalibala, ngelixa abanye bedlula ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imiqondiso eqhelekileyo yokuba isiphelo sikufuphi. Kunokuba luncedo ukwazi ukuba le miqondiso yinto yesiqhelo yokufa.

Unonophelo lonyango luyindlela yokunyamekela egxile ekunyangeni iintlungu kunye neempawu kunye nokuphucula umgangatho wobomi kubantu abanezigulo ezinzulu.

Ukunyamekela abagulayo kuluncedo kubantu abanezigulo ezinganyangekiyo kwaye abakufutshane nokufa. Injongo kukunika intuthuzelo noxolo endaweni yonyango. Unonophelo lwe-Hospice lubonelela:

• Inkxaso yesigulana kunye nosapho
• Uncedo kwisigulana kwiintlungu kunye neempawu
• Uncedo lwamalungu osapho kunye nabathandekayo abafuna ukuhlala kufutshane nesigulana esiswelekayo

Uninzi lwezigulana ezikwi-hospice zikwiinyanga ezi-6 zokugqibela zobomi.

Okwexeshana, imiqondiso yokuba ukufa kusondele inokudlula. Usapho kunye nabahlobo banokufuna uncedo ekuqondeni imiqondiso ethetha ukuba umntu usondele ekufeni.

Njengokuba umntu esondela ekufeni, uyakubona imiqondiso yokuba umzimba wabo uyavaleka. Oku kunokuhlala naphi na ukusuka kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ukuya kwiiveki ezimbalwa. Abanye abantu bahamba ngenkqubo bethule, ngelixa abanye benokuphazamiseka ngakumbi.

Umntu unoku:

• Unentlungu encinci
• Unengxaki yokuginya
• Yiba nombono omfiliba
• Unengxaki yokuva
• Ukungakwazi ukucinga okanye ukukhumbula ngokucacileyo
• Yitya okanye usele kancinci
• Ukuphulukana nolawulo lomchamo okanye ilindle
• Yiva okanye ubone into kwaye ucinge ukuba yenye into, okanye uve ukungaqondani
• Thetha nabantu abengekho egumbini okanye abangasaphiliyo
• Thetha ngokuthatha uhambo okanye ushiye
• Thetha kancinci
• Ukugquma
• Yiba nezandla ezipholileyo, iingalo, iinyawo, okanye imilenze
• Yiba nempumlo eblowu okanye engwevu, umlomo, iminwe, okanye iinzwane
• Lala ngakumbi
• Khohlela ngaphezulu
• Yiba nokuphefumla okuvakala kumanzi, mhlawumbi ngezandi zokubhuza
• Yiba notshintsho lokuphefumla: ukuphefumla kunokuma kancinci, emva koko kuqhubeke njengokuphefumla okuninzi okukhawulezayo, okunzulu
• Yeka ukuphendula ukuchukumisa okanye izandi, okanye ungene kwi-coma

Unokunceda ukwenza iintsuku zokugqibela zothandekayo zikhululeke ngakumbi ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Iinzame zakho ziya kunceda ukunciphisa uhambo lokugqibela lomntu omthandayo. Nazi iindlela zokunceda.

• Ukuba awuyiqondi into oyibonayo, cela ilungu leqela labagula kakhulu.
• Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntu angafuna ukubona olunye usapho kunye nabahlobo, mabatyelele, nditsho nabantwana, abambalwa ngexesha. Zama ukucwangcisa amaxesha apho umntu ethe qwa ngakumbi.
• Nceda umntu angene kwindawo efanelekileyo.
• Nika amayeza njengokuyalelwa ukunyanga iimpawu okanye ukhulule iintlungu.
• Ukuba umntu akaseli, manzi umlomo wakhe ngamaqhekeza omkhenkce okanye isiponji. Thambisa ioli yomlomo ukuze unciphise imilebe eyomileyo.
• Nika ingqalelo imiqondiso yokuba umntu ushushu kakhulu okanye uyabanda. Ukuba umntu ushushu, beka ilaphu elipholileyo nelimanzi ebunzi. Ukuba umntu uyabanda, sebenzisa iingubo ukufudumeza. Sukusebenzisa iiphedi zombane okanye iingubo, ezinokubangela ukutsha.
• Faka into yokuthambisa ukuthambisa ulusu olomileyo.
• Yenza imeko-bume epholileyo. Gcina ukukhanya okuthambileyo, kodwa kungakhanyi kakhulu. Ukuba umntu unombono omfiliba, ubumnyama bunokoyikisa. Dlala umculo othambileyo othandwa ngumntu lowo.
• Chukumisa umntu. Bambani izandla.
• Thetha ngokuzolileyo kuloo mntu. Nokuba awufumani mpendulo, basenokukuva.
• Bhala phantsi oko kuthethwa ngumntu. Oku kunokukunceda ekuthuthuzeleni kamva.
• Umntu makalele.

Biza ilungu leqela lokunyamekela abagulayo xa umntu omthandayo ebonisa iimpawu zentlungu okanye unxunguphalo.

Ukuphela kobomi-iintsuku zokugqibela; Isibhedlele - iintsuku zokugqibela

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