Iingcebiso ngoqeqesho lwendlu yangasese

Ukufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini bomntwana wakho. Uyakuyenza lula inkqubo kuye wonke umntu ukuba ulinda de umntwana abe ukulungele ngaphambi kokuzama uloliwe wangasese. Ithamo lomonde kunye nokuhlekisa nako kuyanceda.

Uninzi lwabantwana luqala ukubonisa imiqondiso yokuba bakulungele ukuqeqeshwa kwindlu yangasese phakathi kweminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwi-30 yeenyanga. Phambi kweenyanga ezili-18, uninzi lwabantwana alunakukwazi ukulawula ngokupheleleyo izihlunu zesinyi kunye nezihlunu zamathumbu. Umntwana wakho uya kukwazisa ngendlela yakhe ukuba bakulungele ukuqala uqeqesho lwangasese. Abantwana bakulungele xa:

• Bonisa umdla kwindlu yangasese okanye ekunxibeni ibhulukhwe yangaphantsi
• Vakalisa ngamazwi okanye amabinzana ukuba bafuna ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela
• Cebisa ukuba i-diaper imanzi okanye imdaka
• Zive ungonwabanga ukuba i-diaper iya kungcola kwaye uzame ukuyisusa ngaphandle koncedo
• Hlala womile ubuncinci iiyure ezi-2 emini
• Banokuhlisa ezabo iibhulukhwe kwaye babuye nazo
• Unokuqonda kwaye ulandele imiyalelo esisiseko

Ngumbono olungileyo ukukhetha ixesha xa ungenazo ezinye iziganeko eziphambili ezicwangcisiweyo, ezinjengeholide, intshukumo enkulu, okanye iprojekthi yomsebenzi eza kufuna ixesha elongezelelweyo kuwe.

Musa ukutyhala umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba umntwana wakho uziva uxinzelelo kuloliwe onamanzi ngaphambi kokuba alungele, kungathatha ixesha elide ukuba afunde. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaluchasa uqeqesho, oko kuthetha ukuba abakakulungeli okwangoku. Ke buya umva kwaye ulinde iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuzama kwakhona.

Ukuqala uqeqesho lwamanzi kuya kufuneka:

• Thenga isitulo esinamanzi oqeqesho kunye nesihlalo esinamanzi-ungadinga ngaphezulu kwesinye ukuba uneendawo zokuhlambela okanye iindawo zokudlala kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo endlu.
• Beka isitulo se potty kufutshane nendawo yokudlala yomntwana wakho ukuze abone kwaye ayichukumise.
• Misela inkqubo. Kanye ngemini, cela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale embizeni enxibe ngokupheleleyo. Ungaze ubanyanzele ukuba bahlale kuyo, kwaye bayeke baphume xa befuna.
• Nje ukuba bakhululeke ukuhlala esihlalweni, hlala phezu kwawo ngaphandle kwamanabukeni neebhulukhwe. Babonise indlela yokuwisa ezantsi ibhulukhwe ngaphambi kokungena embizeni.
• Abantwana bafunda ngokubukela abanye. Vumela umntwana wakho akubukele okanye abantakwabo basebenzise indlu yangasese kwaye babenze bafunde ukuyigungxula.
• Nceda umntwana wakho akwazi ukuthetha ngendlu yangasese esebenzisa amagama alula anjenge "poop" kunye "pee."

Nje ukuba umntwana wakho akhululeke ukuhlala esihlalweni esinamanzi ngaphandle kwee-diapers, ungaqala ukubabonisa indlela yokuyisebenzisa.

• Beka isitulo kwi-diaper yabo kwisitulo esinamanzi.
• Ngaba mababukele ngelixa uhambisa isitulo ukusuka kwisitulo esinamanzi ukuya kwindlu yangasese.
• Baye bahlambe indlu yangasese kwaye ubukele njengoko igungxula. Oku kuyabanceda bafunde ukuba indlu yangasese kulapho kuya khona poop.
• Qaphela xa umntwana wakho ebonisa ukuba angadinga ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Thatha umntwana wakho embizeni ngokukhawuleza kwaye umdumise umntwana wakho ngokukuxelela.
• Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ayeke le bayenzayo aze aye embizeni xa eziva ngathi kufuneka aye kwindlu yangasese.
• Hlala nomntwana wakho xa ehleli embizeni. Ukufunda incwadi okanye ukuthetha nabo kunokubanceda baphumle.
• Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba azisule emva kokupasa isitulo. Fundisa amantombazana ukusula ngaphambili ukuya ngasemva ukunceda ukuthintela ilindle ukuba lisondele kwilungu lobufazi.
• Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uhlamba izandla zakhe kakuhle ngalo lonke ixesha emva kokusebenzisa indlu yangasese.
• Mncome umntwana wakho ngalo lonke ixesha esiya kwindlu yangasese, nokuba konke abakwenzayo kukuhlala apho. Injongo yakho kukubanceda badibanise iimvakalelo zokuya kwindlu yangasese ngokuya kwindlu yangasese kwaye uyisebenzise.
• Nje ukuba umntwana wakho afunde ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese rhoqo, unokufuna ukusebenzisa iblukhwe yoqeqesho lokutsala. Ngale ndlela umntwana wakho angangena kwaye aphume kubo ngaphandle koncedo.

Uninzi lwabantwana luthatha malunga neenyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6 ukufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Amantombazana ahlala efunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngokukhawuleza kunamakhwenkwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bahlala kwi-diapers kude kube malunga neminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-3 ubudala.

Nokuba sele umile emini, uninzi lwabantwana ludinga ixesha elininzi ukuze bakwazi ukulala ubusuku bonke ngaphandle kokumanzisa ibhedi. Eli linqanaba lokugqibela kuqeqesho lwendlu yangasese. Ngumbono olungileyo ukufumana iphedi yomatrasi engqina ngamanzi ngelixa umntwana wakho efunda ulawulo lwasebusuku.

Lindela ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba neengozi njengoko efunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese. Yinxalenye yenkqubo nje. Ngamanye amaxesha, nasemva koqeqesho, iingozi zinokwenzeka nasemini.

Xa ezi ziganeko zisenzeka kubalulekile ukuba:

• Hlala uphole.
• Coca kwaye ukhumbuze ngobumnene umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise indlu yangasese kwixesha elizayo. Ungaze umngxolise umntwana wakho.
• Mqinisekise umntwana wakho ukuba uyacaphuka.

Ukuthintela imicimbi enjalo unga:

• Buza umntwana wakho amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuba ufuna ukuya ngasese. Uninzi lwabantwana kufuneka luhambe malunga neyure okanye emva kwesidlo okanye emva kokusela amanzi amaninzi.
• Fumana iimpahla zangaphantsi ezifunxa umntwana wakho ukuba uneengozi rhoqo.

Fowunela ugqirha ukuba umntwana wakho:

• Uqeqeshwe ngaphambili kodwa uneengozi ezininzi ngoku
• Ayisebenzisi indlu yangasese nasemva kweminyaka emi-4 ubudala
• Unentlungu xa uchama okanye ilindle
• Rhoqo inemicimbi yokumanzisa-oku kunokuba luphawu losulelo lomchamo

Uqeqesho lweepotty

IAmerican Academy yePediatrics iwebhusayithi. Ukwenza isicwangciso soqeqesho lwendlu yangasese. www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/toilet-training/pages/Creating-a-Toilet-Training-Plan.aspx. Ukuhlaziywa ngoNovemba 2, 2009. Kufumaneka ngoJanuwari 29, 2021.

IAmerican Academy yePediatrics iwebhusayithi. Uqeqesho lwezindlu zangasese kunye nomntwana omdala. www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/toilet-training/Pages/Toilet-Training-and-the-Older-Child.aspx. Ukuhlaziywa ngoNovemba 2, 2009. Kufumaneka ngoJanuwari 29, 2021.

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