Umntwana onomdla okanye ocaphuka msinya

Abantwana abancinci abangakwaziyo ukuthetha okwangoku baya kukwazisa xa kukho into engalunganga ngokwenza izinto ngokungxola okanye ngokucaphuka. Ukuba umntwana wakho uxakekile kunesiqhelo, kunokuba luphawu lokuba kukho into engalunganga.

Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana babe nengxubakaxaka okanye bakhale ngamanye amaxesha. Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni abantwana bexakekile:

• Ukungabikho kobuthongo
• Indlala
• Ukukhathazeka
• Yilwa nomntakwenu
• Ukuba shushu kakhulu okanye kubanda kakhulu

Umntwana wakho unokukhathazeka ngento ethile. Zibuze ukuba ngaba kukho uxinzelelo, ukudabuka, okanye umsindo ekhaya lakho. Abantwana abancinci banolwazelelelo kuxinzelelo ekhaya, nakwimo yabazali babo okanye yabakhathaleli.

Umntwana okhalayo ixesha elingaphezulu kweeyure ezi-3 ngosuku unokuba nesifo. Funda ngeendlela onokunceda ngazo umntwana wakho nge-colic.

Izifo ezininzi eziqhelekileyo zobuntwana zinokubangela ukuba umntwana axokozele. Uninzi lwezifo lunyangwa ngokulula. Ziquka:

• Usulelo lwendlebe
• Ukukhathazeka okanye izinyo
• Ingqele okanye umkhuhlane
• Usulelo lwesinyi
• Intlungu yesisu okanye umkhuhlane wesisu
• Intloko ebuhlungu
• Ukuqunjelwa
• Intshulube
• Iindlela ezimbi zokulala

Nangona ingaqhelekanga, ukukhathazeka komntwana wakho kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuqala weengxaki ezinzulu, njenge:

• Isifo seswekile, isifuba, i-anemia (ubalo lwegazi olusezantsi), okanye enye ingxaki yezempilo
• Usulelo olubi, njengosulelo emiphungeni, kwizintso, okanye kwingqondo
• Ukwenzakala entloko ongakubonanga kusenzeka
• Iingxaki zokuva okanye zokuthetha
• I-Autism okanye ukukhula kwengqondo okungaqhelekanga (ukuba ukungakhathali akuhambi kwaye kuya kusiba nzima)
• Uxinzelelo okanye ezinye iingxaki zempilo yengqondo
• Intlungu, enjengentloko okanye isisu esibuhlungu

Thobisa umntwana wakho ngendlela oqhele ukwenza ngayo. Zama ukunyikimisa, ukufunqula, ukuthetha, okanye ukwenza izinto umntwana wakho azifumane zithomalalisile.

Ukujongana nezinye izinto ezinokubangela ukungqubana:

• Iindlela ezimbi zokulala
• Ingxolo okanye ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho (kakhulu okanye kuncinci kunokuba yingxaki)
• Uxinzelelo ekhaya
• Ishedyuli yemihla ngemihla engaqhelekanga

Sebenzisa izakhono zakho zokuba ngumzali, kuya kufuneka ube nakho ukuthomalalisa umntwana wakho kwaye wenze izinto zibengcono. Ukufumana umntwana wakho rhoqo ukutya, ukulala, kunye neshedyuli yemihla ngemihla kunokunceda.

Njengomzali, uyazi indlela eqhelekileyo yokuziphatha komntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomsindo ngakumbi kunesiqhelo kwaye akanakuthuthuzeleka, nxibelelana nomboneleli wezempilo womntwana wakho.

Bukela kwaye unike ingxelo ngezinye iimpawu, ezinje:

• Intlungu yesisu
• Ukulila kuyaqhubeka
• Ukuphefumla ngokukhawuleza
• Ifiva
• Ukutya okungafanelekanga
• Ukubetha kwentliziyo
• Irhashalala
• Ukugabha okanye urhudo
• Ukubila

Umboneleli womntwana wakho uya kusebenza nawe ukuze afunde ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho enomsindo. Ngexesha lotyelelo lwe-ofisi, umboneleli uya:

• Buza imibuzo kwaye uthathe imbali
• Hlola umntwana wakho
• Uvavanyo lweelebhu zoku-odola, ukuba ziyafuneka

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