Iindlela ezi-4 ezingaqhelekanga xa uzelwe zichaphazela ubuntu bakho

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Ingaba ulizibulo, umntwana ophakathi, umntwana wentsapho, okanye umntwana kuphela, ngokungathandabuzekiyo uye wakuva i-clichés malunga nendlela isikhundla sakho sentsapho esichaphazela ngayo ubuntu bakho. Kwaye ngelixa ezinye zazo zingeyonyani (kuphela abantwana abasoloko benarcissists!), Inzululwazi ibonisa ukuba umyalelo wakho wokuzalwa kwintsapho yakho kunye nenyanga owazalwa ngayo unokuqikelela iimpawu ezithile. Apha, zine iindlela onokuchaphazeleka ngokungazi ngazo.

1. Iintsana zasentlakohlaza nasehlotyeni zilindeleke ukuba zibe nemibono eyakhayo. Uphando olwenziwe eJamani lufumanise ukuba ixesha lokuzalwa kwakho linokuchaphazela ubushushu bakho. Inkcazo: Inyanga inokuchaphazela ii-neurotransmitters ezithile, ezinokubonakala ngokuba mdala. Abaphandi abaqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ikhonkco likho, kodwa bajonge iimpawu zokumakisha ezinokuthi zichaphazele imeko.

2. Abantwana abazalelwe ebusika banokuba sesichengeni sokuphazamiseka kweemvakalelo zamaxesha onyaka. Isifundo sezilwanyana esivela kwiYunivesithi yaseVanderbilt sifumanise ukuba ukukhanya kukhombisa-okt. zide kangakanani iintsuku-xa uzalwa zinokuchaphazela isingqisho sakho sokujikeleza kamva ebomini. Iwotshi yakho yebhayoloji ilawula imood, kunye neempuku ezizelwe ebusika zazinempendulo efanayo yobuchopho kutshintsho lwexesha lonyaka njengabantu abanengxaki yokuphazamiseka, onokuthi uchaze unxibelelwano phakathi kwexesha lokuzalwa kunye nokuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo.

3. Abantwana bamazibulo badla ngogcino. Uphononongo lwase-Italiya lufumanise ukuba amazibulo athanda ngakumbi imeko ekhoyo kunabantwana abazelweyo, kwaye ke ngoko abe nemilinganiselo yogcino. Ngokwenyani abaphandi bevavanya ithiyori yangaphambili yokuba amazibulo afaka ngaphakathi amaxabiso abazali babo, kwaye ngelixa ithiyori yangqina ukuba ayichanekanga, bafunda ukuba abantwana abadala banamaxabiso alondolozayo ngokwabo.

4. Abantakwenu abancinane bazibeka emngciphekweni ngakumbi. Isifundo esenziwe kwiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia, eBerkeley kuvavanye ingcinga yokuba abantakwenu abancinci kunokwenzeka ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi eyingozi ngokujonga ukulandelelana kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo esemngciphekweni. Bafumanise ukuba “abantwana abaza kuzalwa kamva” babemalunga neepesenti ezingama-50 amathuba okuba bathathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo eyingozi kunabantakwabo bamazibulo. Iintsana ezisandula ukuzalwa zisengozini yokufumana amava avulekileyo kumava, kwaye imisebenzi "yokufuna imincili" efana nokujija i-gliding yinxalenye yolo xubusho.

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