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Inyani: Ukutshata kuthetha ukuba abantu abaninzi baya "kuthanda" wena-ubuncinci ngaphezulu. Akukho nto injengokubonisa uphawu olutsha lwe-bling ukuzisa wonke umntu ovela kumzala wakho wesithathu kwintombazana ohleli ecaleni kwayo kwiklasi ye-bio ngaphandle kwemithi nakwifidi yakho. Kodwa ukuthumela i-generic ye-Instagram shot yesandla sakho esandula ukuhonjiswa ngasekhohlo ayisiyiyo ngqo-kwaye ayisiyiyo kwaphela ubungqina bothando phakathi kwakho kunye nomnye obalulekileyo. "Isibhengezo sobuchule senza kuphela ulonwabo oluza kubakho nosapho kunye nezihlobo zenu nobabini," ucacisa watsho uRosanna Casper, umseki weqela lomtshato kwiwebhusayithi yomtshato Idojour.com. Ke ngelixa uthumela ifoto ye-mani yakho eyenzekileyo ukubonisa ukubetha kwakho okanye ukulayisha "uthe ewe ifoto" kulungile, ezi zibhengezo zilungile-ziyothusa.

Thumela Ikhadi Elidala

Ukuthumela iposikhadi eyothusayo-ewe, ngeposi, kunye nesitampu-kusapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo yindlela ecingayo yokubenza bazive bekwi-loop kwaye ibandakanywe kwiindaba zakho ezinkulu. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa kufuneka ulinde iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba abantu bafumanise ikunika wena kunye nesithandwa sakho esitsha kraca iintsuku ezimbalwa ukonwabela ubomi obuzimeleyo-ngaphandle kokuba nentsimi engapheliyo "nini umtshato?" imibuzo.

Yenza iBlog yesiko

Kwi-introducing.us, unokwenza ukugcina imihla, izimemo, okanye izibhengezo nje. Ukwenza kunye nokuthumela ikhonkco kwiqela elikhethiweyo labantu-kunokuba yonke i-Instagram feed yakho-ayenzi ukuba bazive bewongekile ukuba bakhethwe ukufumana iindaba, kodwa ukwenza indawo kukunika indawo yokwabelana ngomxholo wobudlelwane bakho kunye nesindululo , Kunokuba ubonise umfanekiso womsesane wakho.

Yonwaba Ngayo

Ukupela "ufake umsesane kuyo" kwibhodi yeScrabble okanye ukwenza ipowusta ehlekisayo ngobuso bakho kunye Kuza kungekudala: Mnu noNkosikazi X isihloko sisasaza iindaba ngendlela epholileyo, enobuchule. (Psst: I-Pinterest ineetoni zeengcinga zokwenza izibhengezo ezipholileyo zothethathethwano-njengoko unokuchitha ixesha elithile phaya kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo, ungaqala ngoku!) Awuthethanga? Nazi ezinye i-11 ezinye izihlandlo ezifanelwe iRing Sparkly.

Bamba ilixa elonwabileyo

Mema bonke abahlobo bakho ukuba badibane ebharini emva komsebenzi kwaye wenze isibhengezo kumntu phaya. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukubona impendulo ngendlela yomntu ingcono kunokufumana itoni yezaziso ze-Insta, kodwa ngequbuliso, unabafoti abangama-20 kunye nabadlali abancinci kwisandla sakho nakwimizuzwana yomzobo wakho kunye kungekudala. -kube umyeni ejonge blissfully psyched ukuba kunye indlela Inyanisekile kunomfanekiso othathwe ngumntu ongamaziyo kwimizuzwana emva kokuba uthe ewe.

Mgcine emfanekisweni

Ukuba ufuna wonke umntu azi ngokukhawuleza, yiya-kodwa qiniseka ukuba unomfanekiso wakho kunye naye, hayi wena kunye nokubetha. Ngokuqinisekisa ukuba kukho konke ukudutyulwa kothethathethwano, uyenza kucace kubo bonke abahlobo bakho (kwaye, kulungile, frenemies) ukuba nangona umsesane umangalisa ngokupheleleyo, inyathelo elilandelayo kubudlelwane sesona sizathu sokuba ungakwazi ' t lugcine ebusweni bakho olo ncumo.

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