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Umxholo

• Andikaze Ndiyithande
• Imibhalo esuka kwi-Ex yakho
• Imigaqo iphinda yaqwalaselwa
• Uqhawulo-mtshato
• Inzululwazi yoBudlelwane
• UkwahlukanaText
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Ngamanye amaxesha, iintsomi zothando zimuncu. Uthetha izinto ongazithethiyo, ukhula ekude, kwaye ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza njengoko konke kwaqala, umtya obambe ibhondi yakho kunye unokuqhawula. Ugh.

Ukwahlukana kuyenzeka. Ukuya wonke umntu. Kodwa xa ubomi bukunika ukwahlukana, silapha ukukunika ezinye iisayithi ukukunceda ukuba ulungelelanise ukungcola okwakushiyeke ex wakhe. Nazi izixhobo ezimbalwa zokukukhokela ngobuhlanya-ekufumaneni imali kwizipho ezindala ukufumana ingcebiso ngokuqhubeka. (Qiniseka ukuba uyazigcina ezi zinto zi-5 ziMikhwa eseMpilweni yokuKwenza ngokuQhekeka.)

Andikaze Ndiyithande

Zange Ndiyithande

Uyazi ukuba itikiti lenqwelomoya awuzange ulisebenzisele uhambo lwakho lokuya eHawaii? Kuthekani ngamacici akunike wona owenze ngathi uyamthanda, kodwa ebemhle "meh"? Thengisa 'em! Ungaze Uyithande Nayiphi na indawo ukuba le pawn ikhuphe izinto zakho zokwahlula-hlula, uthenge ezinye izinto zokwahlukana kwabasetyhini, kwaye wabelane ngolonwabo lwakho-zange-emva kwamabali. Ngokusisiseko, yindawo nje elungileyo-kwaye yokonwabisa ukufunda emva kokuba uyibize ngokuyeka. Sonke sihamba ngayo! Kutheni ungenzi okungcono kuyo (kwaye mhlawumbi ufumane intlama)?

Imibhalo esuka kwi-Ex yakho

Izicatshulwa ezivela kwi-Ex yakho

Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu wakho wakudala uya kukuthumela kwinqanaba elithile-mhlawumbi emva kokophula intliziyo yakho. Aba ngabantu abathandekayo abathi, ngokuhlekisayo, bafumana ilizwi lokugqibela. Kwi "Iitekisi ezivela kwi-Ex yakho," jonga zonke i-zinger kunye ne-ex uthetha eya kukwenza uzive ungaphantsi wedwa "Kutheni ndithandana naloo mfana?" isebe. Ungangenisa eyakho-nangona kunjalo, asizukuhlala apha kwaye cebisa ukuba ... sicinga?

Imigaqo iphinda yaqwalaselwa

Iphinde Yajongwa kwakhona iMithetho

Xa sele ukulungele ukubuyela phaya phaya, ufuna ukwazi ukuba wenzeni xa umntu wakho wangaphambili ezama ukubamba isiseko, okanye nje ngokubanzi ufuna umbono oyindoda kwinto engahambanga kakuhle, u-Andrew weMithetho eVuselelweyo angangumfo wakho. Uhlobo olufana nothando olunzima lomzalwana, le bhlog yomntu ongaziwayo engathandabuzekiyo iyindawo yokuma enye yokusongela ubuchopho bakho malunga nento eyenzekileyo kunye nendlela yokuqhubela phambili-kwaye iphuhlise inkolo elandelayo. (Ngoku unencwadi kwimisebenzi.) Zilungiselele: akasoloko enxibelelanisa isiluleko sakhe ngeswekile eninzi. Oko kwathethileyo, uninzi lokuqonda kuka-Andrew-ngakumbi izithuba malunga nokwahlukana nokuqhekeka-ziqinile. Jonga izithuba zakhe zokwahlukana kuqala (besimthanda "Msike") emva koko ungene apho. (Kwaye ukuba ukulungele ukubuyela kumdlalo wokuthandana, khuphela enye yezi zixhobo ezi-5 zokuDibana ngokuTsha eziTshintsha indawo yeNgcaciso.)

Uqhawulo-mtshato

Uqhawulo-mtshato

Umsunguli weSiza uSarah, onemvelaphi kubaphathi abangoqeqesho, uye waqhekeka kakhulu-kwaye waqonda ukuba, kwiminyaka engama-38, ebengazukubangcono ekuphatheni ukuwa. Eqinisekile ukuba angayila "uqeqesho" lwabasetyhini abajongana nokwahlukana, wavelisa inkqubo yokujongana nokwahlukana, okuqulathwe ngaphakathi Incwadi yokwahlukana koMfazi oSmart-eyayiyimveliso yeminyaka emibini echithwe kuphando ngeendlela ezisebenzayo zokumelana neSiphelo.Ukongeza, Ibhlog yeBrockup Bitch ineetoni zokuqonda kwiingxaki zasemva kokwaphuka (kutheni engayi kukushiya wedwa?) Kumabali okwahlukana ngokubanzi (njenge, ahem, ukuziphindezela).

Inzululwazi yoBudlelwane

Inzululwazi yobuDlelwane

Ngamanye amaxesha, ufuna nje inkcazo yesayensi malunga nokuba yintoni engalunganga kunye nendlela yokuqonda amadoda. Iinyaniso ezinzima ezibandayo, akunjalo? INzululwazi yoBudlelwane ingumthombo omkhulu kuphando olunxulumene nothando lwamva nje. Ukuqhutywa ziingcali ebaleni, abathi ngokwenene bancede ukufundisisa inyama kunye neziphumo zophando ukumisela ukuba kuthetha ntoni kuwe, abasunguli baqalise iprojekthi njengendawo yokuchasana nazo zonke iingcebiso zokuthandana kwi-intanethi ngaphandle kobunzima obukhulu bokuzixhasa. Ngubani olunge ngakumbi ukukhetha idatha ngokwenene ingcebiso kunomntu ofunda ubudlelwane ubomi? Jonga onke amanqaku malunga nokuqhekeka kwezi Ph.Ds eziqaqambileyo. Unokufunda nje ukuba ungahlala njani ungumhlobo nomntu wakho wangaphambili, okanye kutheni ukwahlukana kwakho kwamva nje kukwenze wabuza yonke into ngobomi bakho. Ukuqhubela phambili konke malunga nokucaca kunye nokuqonda, ewe?

UkwahlukanaText

UkwahlukanaText

Masithi, imeko enzima kakhulu, ngekhe wohlukane naye. Okanye mhlawumbi akafanelanga inkcazo yobuso ngobuso. Kuphela wena uyazi, akunjalo? Ewe, ndiqinisekile ukuba unqwenela ukuba bekukho iapp. Ngokwendalo, kukho: UkwahlukanaText. Manenekazi, ngemibuzo embalwa ephendulweyo kunye nokucofa iminwe embalwa, ungathumela isicatshulwa esigqibeleleyo sokwahlukana ukwenza umsebenzi omdaka kuwe. Ngaba oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kuphume ikopi, indlela ethile yolwimi-esidleleni yokuqhekeka, kunye nokuhlekisa nje? Ngokuqinisekileyo. (UJimmy Fallon waze wathetha ngayo, bafana.) Nangona kunjalo, sibheja ngenye imini unokufumana ukusetyenziswa kwayo ... Ngokunokwenzeka ngoku. (Funda itekhnoloji efanelekileyo ngezi ngcebiso ezili-10 zokuBhala kunye neeNgcebiso zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi kwabo babodwa beTech-Savvy.)

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