Izizathu ezi-8 zokuba kufuneka ube nokuFlingwa kwehlobo

Umxholo

• Zisimahla zeDrama
• Unomhla oSimayo kuyo yonke into
• Ukuphoswa kukwenza izinto ongazenzi ngesiqhelo
• Luxinzelelo oluphantsi
• Liyeza eligqibeleleyo loKwahlukana
• Ubudlelwane bakho obulandelayo buya kuba ngcono kubo
• Kukho into eNtuthuzayo malunga noMhla wokuphela
• Inokuba Yiyo Yenyani
• Uphengululo lwe

Ihlobo ekugqibeleni lilapha kwakhona, kwaye ukuba awutshatanga, ithemba lokuthintela ukuntywila ehlotyeni limnandi nangakumbi kuneehemines ezikhulayo, iikhofu zekhephu, kunye neentsuku ezinamavila zokutya ii-tacos elunxwemeni. Nokuba usaqhayisa ngeSikhumbuzo seveki yeSikhumbuzo okanye ukurhawuzelela ukwenza uninzi lweeLwesihlanu zokuqala zasehlotyeni zexesha lonyaka, nazi iindlela ezisibhozo zokuhamba ngokugqibeleleyo okuya kwenza ihlobo lakho libe ngcono kakhulu.

Zisimahla zeDrama

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Ngaphambi kokuba uqalise i-fling, qiniseka ukuba nobabini kwiphepha elinye ngokubhekisele kulindelo lwenu. Kungenxa yokuba ungaliboni ikamva nalo mntu emva kokuba iitanline zakho ziphelile akuthethi ukuba baziva befana, kwaye ngokufanayo. Nje ukuba loo ngxoxo iphume endleleni, nangona kunjalo, qiniseka ukuba uneyona ntetho ibaluleke kakhulu onokuyilindela ukuba ube nayo.

Unomhla oSimayo kuyo yonke into

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Emva kobusika obude ngaphakathi, ukufika kweentsuku zokuqala zehlobo kuthetha ukuba wonke umntu ujonge ukuphuma ngaphandle nangayiphi na indlela. Njengoko izimemo ziqala ukungena kwindawo yokosa inyama, ukuhamba elwandle, ukusela emini epakini, okanye ikonsathi yasimahla yasimahla, kumnandi ukuba unokhetho lokuzisa umntu odlala nantoni na.

Ukuphoswa kukwenza izinto ongazenzi ngesiqhelo

Ingcinga

Ukuba uyinto efana nam, udla ngokuthandana nabantu abanomdla ofanayo, imilinganiselo, kunye nokungcamla kwizinto ezifana neencwadi nomculo. Kodwa ngeenjongo zexesha lasehlotyeni, akukho mfuneko yokuba uvavanye lo mntu usebenzisa imigangatho efanayo oyisebenzisayo kubudlelwane obunzulu, nto leyo ikushiya ukhululekile ukuba ungene etyotyombeni nomntu ophuma ngokupheleleyo kwindlu yakho yamavili. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba unomdla kumntu onokuthi ungaze ucinge ngokuthandana, cinga ngehlobo njengepasile yasimahla.

Luxinzelelo oluphantsi

Ingcinga

Umgaqo oqhelekileyo wee-flings zasehlotyeni kukuba ubomi bakho ngaphandle kwalo mntu kufuneka buhlale bufana. Inqaku elipheleleyo le-fling, emva kwayo yonke into, kukuba ufumana imali kwizinto zokuzonwabisa kwaye akufanele ujongane nayo nayiphi na imithwalo enokuhamba kunye nobudlelwane bokwenyani. Oko kuthetha ukunamathela kwizicwangciso zakho esele zikho, ukwenza ixesha lokuxhoma kunye nabahlobo, kwaye ngokubanzi ungabuyiseli ubomi bakho kwakhona ukuze ubambe. Ngapha koko, i-fling yakho kufuneka ilunge ngokugqibeleleyo.

Liyeza eligqibeleleyo loKwahlukana

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Ukuba ungena ehlotyeni kutsha uqhawulo-mtshato, ngaxa lithile unokuziva ngathi wonke umntu ehlabathini ubonakala eyinxalenye yesibini. Ewe, kusenokuhenda ukuba “ungqube” ngobundlongondlongo kwesi sibini siqhutywa ngumsindo kumnyhadala womculo ukuze ukwazi ukugalela ibhiya yakho kuso. Kodwa kutheni, xa unokuba utyalo-mali loo mandla kwezinye izinto ezingenantambo, isini sehlobo? I-fling isebenza njengento enkulu yokuma kuloo maxesha xa ufuna ukuhlala kuzo zonke iindawo ezilungileyo zobudlelwane ngelixa ngaxeshanye ususa ingqondo yakho embi.

Ubudlelwane bakho obulandelayo buya kuba ngcono kubo

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Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lifutshane kangakanani ixesha lakho kunye, umntu ngamnye omtsha othandana naye uya kukuxelela kancinci malunga nokuba ungubani okanye awukhangeli kwiqabane elinzulu. Nokuba awuzami ukuguqula ukuphosa kwakho kube yinto ebaluleke ngakumbi (ekungafanelanga ukuba ube yiyo, ngaphandle kokuba nobabini niyixubushe ngolu hlobo olunokwenzeka), baya kuba ngumthombo we-intel exabisekileyo njengoko inxulumene neyakho. ukuthandana ubomi ngokubanzi.

Kukho into eNtuthuzayo malunga noMhla wokuphela

Ingcinga

Umhla wokuphela kobudlelwane obumiselwe kwangaphambili yenye yezo zimvo zisebenza ngcono kwindalo iphela kunokuba kunjalo kubudlelwane / kubomi bokwenyani. Kodwa xa ungena kubudlelwane owaziyo bobabini kwasekuqaleni ukuba buza kuphela, oko kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uchithe ixesha eninalo kunye kwizinto ezintle, izinto zokwenza inkumbulo, oku kulapha Izinto zangoku.

Inokuba Yiyo Yenyani

Ingcinga

Ewe, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba nobabini nikwiphepha elinye malunga nobume bobudlelwane benu. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba nobabini nivumelana ukuba ukuphaphazela kwenu kokwexeshana ekuqaleni akuthethi ukuba kufuneka nivale ngokupheleleyo ucango lwekamva kunye xa iimvakalelo zenu zitshintsha. Awunakwazi-into eqala njengokuphapha inokuba kufanelekile ukuphinda ujongwe ekupheleni kwehlobo xa ungenako ukucinga ubomi bakho basemva koSuku lomSebenzi ngaphandle kwabo.

Eli nqaku lavela okokuqala kwiNgxelo yoMhla kwaye yaphinda yashicilelwa apha ngemvume.

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