UAmanda Kloots uphefumlele njani abanye phakathi kukaNick Cordero's I-COVID-19 Idabi

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Ukuba ubulandela idabi likaNick Cordero kunye ne-COVID-19, uyazi ukuba lifikelele esiphelweni esilusizi ngeCawe kusasa. UCordero wasweleka kwiZiko loNyango leCedars-Sinai eLos Angeles, apho wayelaliswe esibhedlele ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezingama-90.

Umfazi kaCordero, umqeqeshi womzimba u-Amanda Kloots, wabelane ngezi ndaba kwi-Instagram. "Umyeni wam endimthandayo usweleke ngale ntsasa," wabhala kwi-caption yefoto yeCordero. "Wayengqongwe luthando lusapho lwakhe, ecula kwaye ethandaza njengoko wayehamba ngobunono kulo mhlaba. Andikholelwa kwaye ndibuhlungu kuyo yonke indawo. Intliziyo yam yaphukile njengoko ndingakwazi ukucinga ubomi bethu ngaphandle kwakhe." (Idibeneyo: UAmanda Kloots wabelana ngeRhafu ebuhlungu kuMyeni wakhe oMva kwexesha, uNick Cordero, osweleke eCoronavirus)

Kuwo wonke umlo kaCordero, uKloots wabelane ngohlaziyo lwemeko rhoqo kwi-Instagram yakhe. Uqale watyhila ukuba wayegula yinto eyafunyaniswa njengenyumoniya nge-1 ka-Epreli, kwaye uCordero wangeniswa kwi-coma wafakwa kwisixhobo sokuphefumla. Kwiintsuku ezininzi kamva, iziphumo zakhe zovavanyo ze-COVID-19 zabuya zilungile, nangona ekuqaleni wayevavanye ukuba akanayo kabini. Oogqirha bakaCordero benze ungenelelo oluninzi ekuphenduleni kuthotho lweengxaki, kubandakanya nokucutha umlenze wasekunene kaCordero. UKloots uxele ukuba uCordero uvukile ebukhomeni ngoMeyi 12, kodwa impilo yakhe yehla de ekugqibeleni akazange asinde kubunzima bokugula kwakhe.

Ngaphandle kokudlula koko bekufanele ukuba ngamava abuhlungu, uKloots wayenethoni ethembekileyo nethemba kuyo yonke imisebenzi yakhe. Ukhuthaze amawaka abantu ongabaziyo kwi-intanethi ukuba bathandazele uCordero okanye bacule kwaye badanise kunye naye kwingoma kaCordero ethi "Phila Ubomi Bakho" ngeveki ye-Instagram Lives. Iphepha leGofundme lokuxhasa iKloots, iCordero, kunye no-Elvis wabo ononyaka omnye ubudala baphakamise ngaphezulu kwesigidi esinye seedola. (Eyeleleneyo: Ndiyibetha njani iCoronavirus ngelixa ndisilwa noMhlaza weMetastatic okwesihlandlo sesibini)

UKloots wachaza imbono yakhe kuhlaziyo emva kokuba uCordero evukile kwisiqaqa sakhe. Ubhale wathi: “Abantu banokundijonga ngathi ndiyaphambana. "Banokucinga ukuba andiyiqondi kakuhle imeko yakhe kuba ndiyancuma kwaye ndicula kwigumbi lakhe yonke imihla. Andizukuzibamba kwaye ndizive ndikhathazekile ngenxa yam okanye ngaye. Ayisiyiyo le nto uNick afuna ukuba ndiyenze. ukwenza. Ayingobuntu bam obo."

Nokuba ukucinga okuhle akunakutshintsha imeko enzima, kunjalo unako ube nefuthe elihle kwimpilo yakho. "Ukucinga okuqinisekileyo kunokuba nefuthe kwimpilo yengqondo," utshilo uHeather Monroe, L.C.S.W., ugqirha wezengqondo kunye noonontlalontle wezonyango onelayisensi eNewport Institute, iziko lemicimbi yezempilo yengqondo. "Xa sinesimo sengqondo esihle, sinokumelana ngcono neemeko ezinzima, sinceda ukunciphisa iimvakalelo zoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Izakhono zokujamelana ngcono ekugqibeleni zikhuthaza ukomelela kwaye zisincede sikwazi ukumelana noxinzelelo oluzayo." Ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto. "Uphando lubonakalisile ukuba ukucinga okuhle kuluncedo olungaphaya kwempilo yengqondo-kunokuba nezibonelelo zempilo yomzimba ngokunjalo," utshilo uMonroe. "Ukongeza ekunciphiseni iimvakalelo zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, ukucinga okuqinisekileyo kunokukhuthaza ukunganyangeki kwezinye izifo, ukunciphisa ixesha lokuphilisa, kunye nokuphucula impilo yentliziyo."

I-Caveat: oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka unyanzele iingcinga ezilungileyo 24/7 kwaye uzama ukungcwaba okubi. "Kukho into efana 'nobunewunewu obuyityhefu,' esisenzo sokuzibonakalisa ukuba ukwimeko yokonwaba, nethemba kuzo zonke iimeko, okanye ukunyanzeliswa okuhle," utshilo uMonroe. "Ukujonga okuhle akuthethi ukuba uzityeshele iingxaki zobomi okanye uzivalele kwiimvakalelo ezingakhiyo, kodwa endaweni yoko sondela kwezo meko zingathandekiyo ngendlela enemveliso ngakumbi."

Ukuba uyamazi umntu othethayo malunga nokuzingqonga ngee-vibes ezintle, banokuya kwinto ethile. "Iimvakalelo zinokosulela kakhulu. Ixesha elininzi elichithwe ngokutya iindaba ezilungileyo okanye ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomntu ocinga ngokufanelekileyo kunokubumba imbono yomnye umntu ngendlela efanelekileyo," kusho uMonroe. "Abantu abanethemba bahlala benesizathu esikhuthazayo, esikhuthazayo kunye nefuthe nakwabanye." Oko kubonakala kuyimeko yeKloots. Abantu abaninzi bathumele malunga nendlela ukulunga kwakhe kulo lonke uhambo lwezempilo lukaCordero kubakhuthaze ukuba basebenze kwimizabalazo yabo ye-COVID kunye nokunye.

"Bendilandela @amandakloots okwethutyana ngoku- kodwa ngakumbi emva kokuba umyeni wakhe efunyaniswe ene-COVID, emva kokuba utatomkhulu wam eswelekile kwi-COVID," utshilo u-@hannabananahealth kwiposti ye-Instagram. "Ukuzithemba kwakhe kunye nokukhanya kwakhe nakumaxesha amnyama kwandikhuthaza ngaphaya kwenkolelo. Ndandihlala ndikhangela i-Instagram yam yonke imihla ndikhangela uhlaziyo lukaNick, nangona bendingazi namnye kubo ndiqonda ngandlela thile, kwaye ndibambe zombini nabo kakhulu." (Inxulumene: Le ndlela yokuCinga ngokuNako inokwenza ukuNamathela kwimikhwa esempilweni kube lula kakhulu)

Umsebenzisi we-Instagram @angybby ubhale iposti malunga nokuba kutheni abo balandela ibali likaCordero banokuziva bephefumlelwe ukuba bahlale benethemba ngexesha lomzabalazo wabo, kunye nendlela elimchaphazele ngayo naye. “Bendingamazi uNick Cordero ngokobuqu, kodwa, njengabaninzi, ndimzilela namhlanje,” ubhale watsho. "Kwakulula kum ukuba ndithabathe umlo wehlabathi nentsholongwane kweli bali linomdla. Indlela oososayensi kwihlabathi liphela abalwa ngayo nentsholongwane enkulu, oogqirha baseCedars Sinai babelwela lo mfana ubomi. ..ukuba banokugcina uNick umhlaba angayinqanda intsholongwane. "

Kwiposti yakhe, ebebambene nombono wento esinokuyisusa kule meko ilusizi: “Ngenxa yokuba [iiKloots] nangona iinkxwaleko ezingenakucingelwa, zisibonise ukuba kunjani ukuhlala sinethemba kwaye usasaze uthando nokucinga kakuhle,” ubhale watsho. "Ngenxa yokuba usapho lwakhe lusibonise indlela yokuhlangana kunye nokuxhasana ngamaxesha apho kulula kakhulu ukudinwa kunye nokuzikhusela. Kuba ukuba amakhulu amawaka ethu alandela ibali labo athatha isigqibo sokuba nobubele omnye komnye ngembeko yabo sinokuthi nje yenza la maxesha amnyama kwindawo engcono. "

UKloots ucule "Phila uBomi bakho" okokugqibela kwi-Instagram Live izolo. Kodwa ibali lakhe lokuhlala linethemba kwaye linethemba kude kube sekupheleni lishiye uphawu ngokucacileyo.

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