UAnna Victoria ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba ukuphakamisa iintsimbi akukwenzi ube ngaphantsi kobufazi

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Imvakalelo yokuqina ye-Instagram u-Anna Victoria unokwaziwa ngokusebenza kwakhe ngokubulala izikhokelo zomzimba kunye nezitya zokuthoba umlomo. Kodwa kukungagungqi kwakhe kwimidiya yoluntu egcina izigidi zakhe zabalandeli zibuyele ngaphezulu. Ngelixa ebekhe wavula malunga nesisu sakhe kwaye wafaka iifoto zokuqina, uVictoria kutshanje uveze ukuba wayekhe woyika ukuphakamisa iintsimbi ezinzima.

"Kwakukho ixesha endandisoyika ukujonga 'njengendoda,' wabhala ku-Instagram ecaleni kweefoto zakhe ezisecaleni." Yup, ndiyavuma. Bendicinga ukuba ukuphakamisa iintsimbi kuya kundenza ndiphulukane nobufazi bam. ”

Kodwa emva kweminyaka yokusebenza nzima kunye nokufumana eyona ndawo iphambili kwindawo yokomelela komzimba, uVictoria uqaphele ukuba ukuphosa isinyithi esinzulu akunampembelelo kwaphela. "Isizathu sokuba ndicinge ngaloo ndlela kungenxa yokuba andazi ... andazi KANJANI ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukufumana izihlunu," utshilo. "Bendingazi ukuba ukufumana izihlunu yinto ethatha iinyanga kunye neminyaka. Bendingazi nokuba iyaXHAMISA kwaye ikunika ukuzithemba kwiindawo zobomi bakho ezigqitha emzimbeni." (Idibeneyo: Izibonelelo ezi-8 zezeMpilo zokuPhakamisa ubunzima)

Ngoku, uVictoria ukhuthaza abalandeli bakhe ukuba bayeke ukuzikhathaza ngokuchitha ixesha elithile kwigumbi lobunzima. Ubudala obutsha, manenekazi, ubhale watsho. "Uyayichaza imigangatho yakho yobuhle. KUFUNEKA uthathe isigqibo malunga nendlela ofuna ukuyilolonga umzimba wakho nendlela ofuna ukubonakala ngayo. Nokuba ilungile, iyabhitya, iyarhabaxa, okanye zonke ezi zinto zingasentla. Vumela ukomelela komzimba wakho zikunike amandla." (Eyeleleneyo: Iinguqu ezili-15 eziya kukuphefumlela ukuba uqalise ukuphakamisa iintsimbi)

Oko akuthethi ukuba ukuphakamisa iintsimbi yinto yomntu wonke, utsho. Nokuba ungazikhethela ntoni ukuzilolonga, uVictoria ukhumbuza abalandeli bakhe ukuba ukuphatha kakuhle umzimba wakho kunye nokubonisa imbeko yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. (Eyeleleneyo: UAnna Victoria unomyalezo kuye nabani na othi "Ukhetha" uMzimba wakhe ukujonga indlela ethile)

“Musa ukujonga umzimba wakho wangoku okanye umzimba wakho wangaphambili njengento ethiyekileyo, ube neentloni okanye ungahlambi ngothando,” ubhale watsho. "YONKE imizimba ifanelwe ukuzithanda!! Sidlula kwizigaba ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo ebomini kwaye ngokunjalo nemizimba yethu. Akukho ndawo ngexesha umzimba wakho uya kuba ngaphantsi. Ukuzithanda ngokwenene kukuqonda oko kwaye unganyanzeli iimfuno zenyama ukuze ukuze uzibonise uthando nobubele, unyaka wonke.

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