Ukubaluleka koLuntu loMhlaza weSifuba

Xa kwafunyaniswa ukuba ndinomhlaza webele wenqanaba 2A HER2 ngo-2009, ndaya kwikhompyuter yam ukuze ndizifundise ngale meko.

Emva kokuba ndifundile ukuba esi sifo siyanyangeka, imibuzo yam yokukhangela itshintshile ekubeni ndizibuze ukuba ndingasinda na, ndinyange njani.

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Iibhloko ze-Intanethi kunye neeforamu zezona ziluncedo ekuphenduleni le mibuzo. Ibhlog yokuqala endiyifumeneyo yenzekile yabhalwa ngumfazi onesifo sam. Ndiwafundile amazwi akhe ukusuka ekuqaleni kuye esiphelweni. Ndamfumana enomtsalane kakhulu. Ndothuka kakhulu ndakufumanisa ukuba umhlaza wakhe sele ugqibile kwaye sele eswelekile. Umyeni wakhe wabhala iposti kwibhlog yakhe ngamazwi akhe okugqibela.

Ukuqala kwam unyango, ndaqala ibhlog yam - {textend} Kodwa Gqirha, Ndiyayicaphukela iPinki!

Ndifuna ibhlog yam isebenze njengebhakoni yethemba kubafazi abanesifo sam. Ndandifuna ukuba kube malunga nokusinda. Ndiqale ukubhala yonke into endigqithe kuyo - {textend} ndisebenzisa iinkcukacha kunye noburharha kangangoko ndinako. Ndifuna ukuba abanye abantu basetyhini bazi ukuba ndinokuyilawula, nabo banako.

Ngandlela thile, igama lisasazeka ngokukhawuleza malunga nebhlog yam. Inkxaso endiyifumeneyo yokwabelana ngebali lam kwi-Intanethi ibaluleke kakhulu kum. Kude kube namhla, ndibabambile abo bantu entliziyweni yam.

Ndifumene inkxaso evela kwabanye abantu basetyhini kwi-cancarcancer.org. Uninzi lwabafazi abakuloo ndawo bayinxalenye yeqela lam likaFacebook ngoku.

Baninzi abantu basetyhini abanomhlaza wamabele abakwaziyo ukuphila ubomi obude, obunempilo.

Fumana abanye abahamba ngale nto uhlangabezana nayo. Esi sifo sinokubamba ngamandla kwiimvakalelo zakho. Ukunxibelelana nabanye ababhinqileyo ababelane ngamava kunokukunceda ushiye iimvakalelo zoloyiko kunye nesizungu ngasemva kwaye uqhubeke ngobomi bakho.

Ngo-2011, kwiinyanga nje ezintlanu emva kokuba unyango lwam luphelile, ndafumanisa ukuba umhlaza wam ubusele kwisibindi. Kwaye kamva, imiphunga yam.

Ngokukhawuleza, ibhlog yam yasuka ekubeni libali malunga nokuhlala komhlaza kwinqanaba le-2, ukuya kufunda ngokuphila ngokuxilongwa okungapheliyo. Ngoku, bendiyinxalenye yoluntu olwahlukileyo- {textend} uluntu lwe-metastatic.

Inkxaso ye-Intanethi endiyifumeneyo kolu luntu lutsha yathetha umhlaba kum. Aba bafazi babengengobahlobo bam nje, kodwa babengabacebisi bam. Bandincedile ukuhamba ilizwe elitsha endandiphoswe kulo. Umhlaba ozele yichemo kunye nokungaqiniseki. Ihlabathi lokungazi ukuba umhlaza wam ungathatha na.

Abahlobo bam ababini, uSandy noVickie, bandifundisa ukuba ndiphile kude kube ngoku andisakwazi. Bobabini bapasile ngoku.

USandy waphila iminyaka esithoba nomhlaza wakhe. Waye ligorha lam. Siza kuthetha nge-intanethi yonke imihla sisifo sethu kunye nendlela esikhathazeke ngayo kukushiya abantu esibathandayo. Singathetha ngabantwana bethu nathi - {textend} abantwana bakhe bayalingana nobam.

UVicki wayekwangumama, nangona abantwana bakhe bebancinci kunam. Wahlala iminyaka emine kuphela nesifo sakhe, kodwa wenza ifuthe kuluntu lwethu. Umoya wakhe ongenakoyiswa kunye namandla enza umbono ongapheliyo. Akasoze alibaleke.

Uluntu lwabasetyhini abaphila nomhlaza webele we-metastatic lukhulu kwaye luyasebenza. Uninzi lwabafazi bangabameli besifo, njengam.

Ngebhlog yam, ndiyakwazi ukubonisa abanye abantu basetyhini ukuba ungaphila ubomi obanelisayo nokuba unomhlaza wamabele. Ndine-metastatic iminyaka esixhenxe. Ndikunyango lwe-IV iminyaka esithoba. Ndiye ndaxolelwa iminyaka emibini ngoku, kwaye ukuskena kwam okokugqibela akubonakalisanga zimpawu zesi sifo.

Kukho amaxesha apho ndidiniwe kunyango, kwaye andiziva mnandi, kodwa ndisathumela kwiphepha lam likaFacebook okanye kwibhlog. Ndikwenza oku kuba ndifuna abantu basetyhini babone ukuba ubomi obude bunokwenzeka. Kungenxa yokuba unale ngxaki, oko akuthethi ukuba ukufa kukufuphi.

Ndifuna ukuba abafazi bazi ukuba ukuba nomhlaza webele we-metastatic kuthetha ukuba uya kuba kunyango ubomi bakho bonke. Ndijongeka ndiphilile kwaye ndinazo zonke iinwele zam, kodwa kusafuneka ndifumane infusions rhoqo ukunceda ukuthintela umhlaza ekubuyeni.

Ngelixa iindawo ezikwi-Intanethi ziyindlela ebalaseleyo yokunxibelelana nabanye, kuhlala kungumbono omuhle ukudibana nomntu ngokwakho. Ukuthetha noSusan kwaba yintsikelelo. Sasinomtshato okhawulezileyo. Sobabini siphila ngokwazi indlela obuxabiseke ngayo ubomi nokuba zibaluleke kangakanani izinto ezincinci. Ngelixa ngaphezulu sinokubonakala sahlukile, nzulu ezantsi ukufana kwethu kuyabetha. Ndiza kuhlala ndiluxabisa unxibelelwano lwethu, kwaye ubudlelwane endinabo kunye nabo bonke abanye abafazi abamangalisayo endibaziyo nesi sifo.

Sukuyithatha kancinci into onayo ngoku. Kwaye, sukucinga ukuba uza kuhamba lolu hambo wedwa. Akunyanzelekanga. Nokuba uhlala esixekweni okanye kwidolophu encinci, kukho iindawo zokufumana inkxaso.

Ngenye imini unganethuba lokukhokela umntu osandula ukufumanisa ukuba unesifo- {textend} kwaye uyakumnceda ngaphandle kombuzo. Ngokwenene, singudade wokwenene.