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U-Ashley Graham uthatha umzuzwana ukuba axabise bonke oomama abaphaya ababambe i-fort ngexesha le-coronavirus (COVID-19) bhubhane.

Kwividiyo yakutshanje ekwabelwana ngayo njengenxalenye yothotho lwe-Instagram #takeabreak series, imodeli eneminyaka eyi-32 uxelele abalandeli bakhe ukuba uchithe iiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ehlukanise nosapho, kubandakanya nomama wakhe.

“Bendicinga ngoko andifundise kona kunye noko ndiza kufundisa unyana wam,” watsho uGraham ngaphambi kokudwelisa izifundo ezithandathu ezibalulekileyo azifundiswe ngumama wakhe eziye zamnceda ukuba abe ngulo mntu anguye namhlanje.

Ukuqala, uGraham wathi umama wakhe umfundisile ukuba akhokele ngomzekelo. "Indlela obukhokelela ngayo ebomini bakho ithetha okungaphezulu kunaleyo uyixelela abantwana bakho," wabelane ngale vidiyo. "Ukuba ubaxelela ukuba balunge kwabanye, bangcono bona unobubele kwabanye."

KuGraham, owona mzekelo ubalulekileyo owamiselwa ngumama kukuba akazange awugxeke umzimba wakhe, watsho. "Endaweni yoko wamkela 'iimpazamo' zakhe kwaye akazange azichaze njengeziphene, uqhubeke watsho. "Wathetha ngemilenze yakhe eyomeleleyo, iingalo zakhe ezomeleleyo, kwaye wandenza ukuba ndiyixabise imilenze yam eyomeleleyo kunye neengalo zam ezinamandla, kude kube namhlanje."

I-ICYDK, bekukho ixesha kwikhondo likaGraham apho wayefuna ukuyeka ukumodela ngenxa yezimvo ezimbi awayezifumana ngomzimba wakhe. Kwi-intanethi ye-2017 kunye V Magazine, umfuziselo uxelele uTracee Ellis Ross ukuba ngumama wakhe owamqinisekisa ukuba abambelele kwaye alwele amaphupha akhe. (Eyeleleneyo: U-Ashley Graham uthi wayeziva ngathi "ngumntu wangaphandle" kwiLizwe leModeli)

"Ndandinomsindo kwaye ndaxelela umama ukuba ndiza ekhaya," watsho uGraham ngelo xesha, ebhekisa kwiintsuku zakhe zokuqala kwiSixeko saseNew York. "Kwaye wandixelela," Hayi, awukho, kuba undixelele ukuba yile nto ubuyifuna kwaye ndiyazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuba uyenze le nto, ayinamsebenzi nokuba ucinga ntoni ngomzimba wakho, kuba umzimba wakho ifanele ukutshintsha ubomi bomntu.' Kude kube namhla oku kuhlala nam kuba ndilapha namhlanje kwaye ndiziva ngathi kulungile ukuba ne-cellulite. " (Idibeneyo: Ukuxhobisa iMantra Ashley Graham isebenzisa ukuziva ngathi yiBadass)

Namhlanje, uyamazi uGraham njengomntu ongazithembanga nje kuphela, kodwa ofundileyo ukungahoyi izimvo zabantu, kwaye oko kuyinxalenye yesimo sakhe esosulelayo-esinye isifundo esibalulekileyo umama wakhe amfundise sona, utshilo.

Ukuqhubeka kwividiyo yakhe, uGraham wabelane ukuba umama wakhe umfundisile ukufumana ulonwabo nakweyiphi na imeko- isifundo esithe sanceda kakhulu phakathi kwesifo secoronavirus, ucacisile uGraham. Naxa uGraham eziva exhalabile, uzama ngandlela zonke ukuba "ahlale enethemba kwaye ezolile" ngonyana wakhe u-Isaac, "kuba ezo ndlebe zisamamele," utshilo.

U-Graham uvulelekile malunga namandla okuqinisekisa ngokuqinisekileyo ebomini bakhe ngaphambili, ekwabelana ngokubaluleka kokwenza ukuthanda wena kunye noxabiso. (BTW, isayensi ithi ukucinga okulungileyo kuyasebenza ngokwenene; kunokukunceda ukuba unamathele kwimikhwa enempilo.)

Emva koko, uGraham wazukisa umama wakhe ngokumfundisa ngexabiso lokuziphatha kakuhle (ukuzilazila kuyinto enkulu hayi, wongeze) kunye nokubaluleka kokubuyisela. Imodeli ikwaphawule ukuba ukuxhasa umntu okanye isizathu osikhathaleleyo akufuneki sibandakanye isisa semveli okanye ivolontiya. Ngapha koko, kwezi ntsuku, kunokuba lula kakhulu kunoko, ucacisile uGraham.

“Okwangoku, ukubuyisela kunokuthetha nje ukuhlala ekhaya kwabo bangakwaziyo,” utshilo, ebhekisa ekungeneni ekuhlaleni ngexesha lobhubhani we-coronavirus, kunye nenyaniso yokuba abasebenzi abayimfuneko abanabo ubunewunewu bokuhlala ekhaya. (UGraham ngomnye wabantu abadumileyo abathathe inxaxheba kwi #IStayHomeFor umngeni kwi-Instagram ukunceda ukuthintela ukusasazeka kwe-coronavirus.)

Isifundo sokugqibela uGraham uthe wasifunda kumama wakhe: umbulelo. "Umama wayesoloko endifundisa ukuba ndijonge kwaye ndibulele into esinayo hayi le singenayo," utshilo uGraham kwividiyo yakhe. "Kwaye oko kunokuthetha nantoni na efana nokuba nombulelo kwimpilo yakho okanye ukuvalelwa yedwa ujikelezwe ngabantu obathandayo." (Izibonelelo zombulelo zisemthethweni- nantsi indlela yokufumana okuninzi kwinkqubo yakho yombulelo.)

Kumxholo weposti yakhe yevidiyo, uGraham wabelane ngesinye isikhumbuzo sokuqhubeka nokuziqhelanisa nokungena eluntwini-kungekhona nje njengendlela yokunceda ukucothisa ukusasazeka kwe-COVID-19, kodwa njengendlela yokuvakalisa umbulelo "kwabo basebenza ngokungadinwa ukugcina. siyahamba, "kubandakanya abasebenzi ababalulekileyo njengabasebenzi bezempilo, abasebenzi bevenkile yokutya, abathuthi beeposi, kunye nokunye okuninzi.

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