I-Erotica yomsindo: Kutheni abantu abaninzi bephulaphule kwi-Porn
Umxholo
ULaura, umbalisi we "Hot Vinyasa 1," ibali onokulimamela kwiqonga laseDipsea, liyamangalisa. Uxinzelelo ngumsebenzi, uyazazi malunga nokufika kade kwiklasi yeyoga, kwaye utyhafiswa ngumqeqeshi wakhe omtsha, uMark, owakhiwe njengeHemsworth kwaye uzimisele ngokulungiswa kwezandla.
"Ngaba oku ukusondela kuye wonke umntu?" Uyazibuza uLaura, uneentloni.
Phambi kokuba ibali lemizuzu eli-15 liphele, ikhephu lifumana uLaura noMark bodwa kwigumbi lekhandlela. Ayothusi into yokuba iimpahla zabo ze-yoga zibile phambi kukaShavasana.
Ngaba ufuna ukuva ngakumbi? Unethamsanqa. Kuninzi kakhulu apho i "Hot Vinyasa" ivele khona. Sisekuvuseleleni iphonografi yeaudio, kunye nenqwaba yamabali e-sexy audiyo, kunye negama elithethiweyo, iifilimu zesini ezichaziweyo, kunye neepodcast ze-NSFW.
Imifanekiso engamanyala yesintu ayinciphisi kuthandwa-nokuba isondele. Kunyaka ophelileyo, undwendwelo lwe-porn juggernaut ye-Pornhub ifikelele kwi-33.5 yezigidigidi. Kodwa abantu bafumana uyolo ngokukhetha izinto ezingabonwayo ezishiya ngabom okuninzi ngakumbi kwingcinga.
Impilo yesondo
IDipsea yindawo yamabali asekwe ngabafazi ebonisa "amabali e-sexy audiyo aseta imeko kwaye axhokonxe umbono wakho," ngokwewebhusayithi yabo.
Iqonga libonelela ngeengcebiso zokufumana okuninzi kumava akho okumamela inkanuko: Cwangcisa i-ménage moi. Engqondweni ubeke umhla. Guqula umboniso wangaphambili ube lixesha lokonwaba. KuGina Gutierrez, umseki kunye ne-CEO yaseDipsea, konke malunga nokukhuthaza "intlalontle yesondo."
“Impilo entle yesondo ibandakanya ukuziva ulungisiwe emzimbeni wakho, kunye nokukwazi ukufumana ulwalamano oluqinisekileyo nesiqu sakho kunye namaqabane. Kwaye kuthetha ukuziva ukhuselekile ekuphononongeni nasekuvakaliseni iimfuno kunye neminqweno kabani, ”ucacisa uGutierrez.
Umsebenzi we-Dipsea kukubonelela ngomxholo wefomathi emfutshane enokunceda abasebenzisi ukuba baphakamise ubudlelwane kunye namaqabane abo, bavule ukuzithemba ngakumbi kunye nokuhlakulela impilo-ntle.
"Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuzonwabisa kukwayindlela yokuvula uvakalelo olunzulu lokuphila kunye namandla, ahambelana kakhulu neendlela ezifana nokucamngca okanye ukwenza imithambo." Mhlawumbi oko kuchaza ukuba kutheni uthotho lwe- "Hot Vinyasa" - ewe, kukho ibali elingaphaya kwelinye - laziwa kakhulu eDipsea.
Ukumamela kwi
Ukungabikho kwegalelo elibonakalayo kunika ingqondo ngakumbi into ayenzayo, utshilo uCarol Queen, uGood Vibrations osebenza ngesini kunye nombhali-mbhali wencwadi ethi "Isondo kunye neNcwadi yokuNwabisa: Isikhokelo seZinto eziShukumisayo kuLwesini oluKhulu kuwo wonke umntu."
"Asiphenduli nje kuphela kwizinto ezingasonwabisiyo, sinikwa indawo ekhululekileyo yokucinga abalinganiswa kwaye sizifaka kwindawo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo," utshilo.
Abanye abantu bafumana amava abizwa (ASMR), apho izandi zifana nokusebeza, ukutshibilika, ukubetha, kunye nokuhlafuna kudala ukurhawuzelela, ukungcangcazela kwe-scalp sensation echazwe njenge "brain-gasm."
Iividiyo ze-ASMR zinceda abanye abantu ukuba baphumle, bakhuphe uxinzelelo, okanye balale. Isifundo sokucinga ngengqondo sicebisa ukuba inokuba kungenxa yokuba ikhanyisa imimandla enxulumene nokuzazi kunye nokuzibandakanya kwezentlalo.
Kukho ne-ASMR ye-porn, edibanisa izinto ezibangela isandi kunye nevidiyo okanye ividiyo yeentlobano zesini. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyonto yokujika wonke umntu. Kweminye, izandi ze-ASMR zibangela ukucaphuka noxinzelelo. Abanye bakhetha isini sabo, kulungile, isandi njengokwabelana ngesondo.
UBrianne McGuire ngumseki we-podcast yoNxibelelwano ngezeSondo, apho abaphulaphuli bamenywa ukuba baphulaphule iimeko ezahlukeneyo ezicacileyo ezinje ngesondo lomlomo, ukongamela kunye nokuphulula amaphambili. Ezinye iziqendu zibonisa abantu bethetha ngokungagungqiyo ngobomi babo ngokwesondo.
Olona thando lwabo ludliwanondlebe kunye namadoda amabini kunye nabasetyhini kubudlelwane obuphindaphindeneyo obubandakanya ubukhoboka bezintambo.
Nangona bevela "kuzo zonke iindlela zokuphila," abalandeli bakaMcGuire banandipha ukuphulaphula ngesizathu esifanayo - ukuvusa, ubume obusondeleyo bokurekhoda. "Abanye baye bachaza 'njengomntu wesithathu owabelana ngesondo ngomnxeba' okanye njengokufihlwa kwigumbi lokulala lomnye umntu, utshilo uMcGuire.
"Ndifuna ukutshintsha incoko malunga nesondo," uyachaza. "Ngaphandle kokufikelela kwethu kumajelo eendaba ezesondo, abantu abaninzi baseneentloni, bayoyika, kwaye bayathandabuza ukuthetha ngeminqweno yabo, imida kunye namava abo."
Ukuva ngokuchasene nokubona
"Kukho ubungqina bokuba abantu bavuseleleka ngakumbi ngokwesondo ngokukhuthaza ngakumbi," ucacisa uNicole Prause, PhD, isazi ngemithambo-luvo eLos Angeles esenza uphando ngokuziphatha kwabantu ngokwesondo. "Umzekelo, i-audio eerotica [inokuthi] ivuse ngakumbi kunengcinga yesondo yodwa, kwaye iifilimu zesondo zivusa inkanuko kune-audio eerotica."
Umnqweno kaDipsea wokubaliswa kwamabali enkcubeko owenziwe liZiko laseKinsey elibonisa ukuba abantu basetyhini basebenzisa "ukubiyela ngengqondo" - imeko ye-aka yokuguqula okanye ukuphupha -ukuvulwa.
Imifanekiso engamanyala ngokwesiko, nokuba ikhululekile kwaye ifumaneka nge-24/7, ayenzeli wonke umntu.
UCaroline Spiegel, udade oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala we-CEO ye-Snapchat u-Evan Spiegel, usandula ukumilisela indawo engamanyala ebizwa ngokuba yiQuinn.
Kudliwanondlebe kunye neTechCrunch, uSpiegel uchaze ukuba unengxaki yokungasebenzi kakuhle ngokwesondo ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwindlela yokutya kunye nenkolelo yakhe yokuba iphonografi yongeza uxinzelelo lomfanekiso womzimba. Akayedwa ekuziva elahliwe endaweni yokuvula.
"Ndivile kubafazi abaninzi ukuba iintlobo zomzimba ezingamanyala zibenza bazive bengenathemba lokuba nabani na uya kuze acinge ukuba bayathandana," utshilo u-Queen. Baziva ngathi amadoda ayithelekisa neenkwenkwezi ezingamanyala. Kukwakho nabasetyhini abangenakucinga ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abakwiskrini ngokwenene banexesha elihle. "
Ezinye izikhalazo eziqhelekileyo uKumkanikazi esiva kukukhanya okungalunganga, abalinganiswa ababhaliweyo ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukuvalwa kwamanina, ukudubula okugqithisileyo. Ngaba singayimisa nengxelo yokuhanjiswa kwePizza Guy, esele ikhona?
Ezingqondweni zethu kuphela, kuyabonakala ukuba, ngokwenene siziinkosi zemimandla yethu. Kwaye kunye ne-porno yeaudiyo, sinokwenza izinto zethu ezibonakalayo ezihambelana nezinto esizithandayo kunye nezinto esizithandayo, nokuba zahluke njani.
Ukufikelela
Kweminye, iphonografi engabonakaliyo ayikho malunga nokukhetha- imalunga nokufikelela.
Kwi-2016, i-Pornhub yasungula udidi "lweVidiyo echaziweyo" enika inkcazo yeaudiyo yesenzo eskrinini kubantu abaphulukene nombono. Kukho ngoku "iModi yokuNgaboni kakuhle" enefonti eyandisiweyo, umbala owenziwe ngokwezifiso, kunye neendlela ezimfutshane.
"Ukufikeleleka yinto esijolise kuyo ngokukodwa," ucacisa uCorey Price, usekela-mongameli we-Pornhub. "Sifuna abantu bakwazi ukuhamba kwiqonga lethu ngaphandle komthungo kwaye bafumane ulonwabo kubantu abadala kulo lonke uzuko lwalo. Sisoloko sikhangela iindlela zokwenza ukuba ...
Ukubukwa kwezi ndidi kudlulile kokulindelweyo.
"Ngoku siyakwazi ukuzixhasa malunga ne-1.3 yezigidigidi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela abaphila nolunye uhlobo lokungaboni kakuhle," utsho u-Price.
Yise kude
Ubumnandi yinxalenye yendalo yokuzibandakanya kunye nokuvuselela inkanuko, utshilo uKumkanikazi. "Abanyangi abaninzi ngesondo benza imali yabo ukukhuthaza abathengi ukuba bacinge okanye basebenze neentloni ezinokuncanyathiselwa koku nakwezinye izinto zesini."
Kungabibiza kancinci, ungasathethi ke ngokonwaba ngakumbi, ukumamela into ekujikisa.
Kukho nolonwabo oluyimfihlo lokukwazi ukonwabela i-porn audiyo ngasese ngelixa esidlangalaleni, uMcGuire wakhomba. "Ngubani onokukrokrela ukuba [umntu] uza ngeendlebe zabakhweli okanye istereo emotweni yomntu oxineke endleleni?"
UStephanie Booth ngumbhali osekwe ePortland, e-Oregon, onamabali akhe avele kwiindawo ezinje ngeReal Simple, O, Psychology Namhlanje, iWashington Post, kunye neSalon. Xa engabhali, angathanda ukuhamba intaba okanye kwiklasi yeyoga, kodwa ukusela ikofu kulungile, nako.
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