Sithetha ntoni isisu esezantsi ekukhulelweni?

Umxholo

• 1. Ukomelela kwezihlunu kunye nemisipha
• 2. Ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili
• 3. Ukusondela kumhla wokusiwa
• 4. Indawo akuyo umntwana
• 5. Ukutyeba

Isisu esezantsi ekukhulelweni sixhaphake kakhulu kwikota yesithathu, njengesiphumo sokwanda kobungakanani bosana. Kwiimeko ezininzi, isisu esisezantsi ngexesha lokukhulelwa siqhelekile kwaye sinokunxulumana nezinto ezinje ngokubuthathaka kwezihlunu kunye nemisipha yesisu, ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ubunzima bomfazi okhulelweyo okanye ukusondela kumzuzu wokuhambisa, umzekelo.

Kukwakho neentsomi zokuba ukumila kwesisu kunokuba luphawu lokuba umntwana uyinkwenkwe okanye uyintombazana, nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba umntu okhulelweyo azi ukuba akukho budlelwane phakathi kobude besisu kunye nesini umntwana.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba owasetyhini uziva exhalabile malunga nobume besisu sakhe, kuya kufuneka aye kugqirha wababhinqileyo, ukujonga ukuba ngaba yonke into ilungile kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Yazi nokuba yintoni enokuba sisisu esinzima ngexesha lokukhulelwa.

Ezinye zezona zinto zixhaphakileyo kwisisu esisezantsi kunokuba:

1. Ukomelela kwezihlunu kunye nemisipha

Isisu esisezantsi ekukhulelweni sinokunxulumana namandla emisipha kunye nemisipha exhasa isibeleko esikhulayo. Abanye abantu basetyhini banokuba buthathaka okanye izihlunu zesisu ezibuthathaka, ezibangela ukuba isisu sikhule sifutshane ngenxa yokunqongophala kwenkxaso.

2. Ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili

Ukuba owasetyhini ukhulelwe ngaphambili, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuba nesisu esisezantsi kwisisu sesibini okanye sesithathu. Kungenxa yokuba, ngexesha lokukhulelwa, izihlunu kunye nemisipha zibuthathaka, ukuphulukana namandla okukhulelwa kamva ukubamba umntwana kubude obufanayo.

3. Ukusondela kumhla wokusiwa

Isisu esisezantsi sinokuhambelana nokuma komntwana. Njengoko ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, ngakumbi kwiintsuku ezikhokelela ekuhanjisweni, umntwana unokuhamba ezantsi ukuze alingane nendawo ye-pelvic, ebangela ukuba isisu sibe sezantsi.

4. Indawo akuyo umntwana

Isisu esisezantsi sinokuhambelana nendawo yomntwana, enokufumaneka kwindawo esecaleni.

Ukongeza, kwezinye iimeko, isisu esisezantsi sinokuhambelana nomntwana. Ukuphakama okungaphantsi kokuqhelekileyo kumazantsi esibeleko kunokuthetha ukuba usana alukhuli ngokwesiqhelo okanye akukho kulwelo laneleyo kwisingxobo samanzi.

5. Ukutyeba

Abanye abantu basetyhini abakhulelweyo abafumana ubunzima obukhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa banokubona isisu esisezantsi kunesiqhelo. Ukongeza, kokukhona ubunzima bomntwana bukhulu, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba isisu esi siya kuba sezantsi.

Yazi ukuba ungatya ntoni ukuthintela ukutyeba ngexesha lokukhulelwa.