Iibhloko eziBalaseleyo zokuThathwa kwabantwana ngo-2020

Umxholo

• Umsindo ngokuchasene neMinivan
• Ukuvuma koMzali oLungelayo
• ILavender Luz
• Izimvu eziMnyama Amaphupha amnandi
• Ukukrazula iiJean kunye neeBifocals
• Ukwamkela uMama oMnyama
• Ukwamkelwa komntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho kunye nokuNgaphaya
• Ibhlog yobomi eyamkelweyo
• Ukwamkelwa komntu wonke ebomini
• Iswekile emhlophe Iswekile emdaka
• ILigia Cushman

Ukwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakhe kunokuba yindlela yeemvakalelo kwaye kubonakala ngathi ayinakuphela. Kodwa kubazali abayilandelayo, ukufikelela kuloo njongo ngowona mnqweno wabo mkhulu. Ewe kunjalo, bakuba belapho, kusafuneka bajongane nayo yonke imiceli mngeni yokuba ngumzali ngokwamkelwa.

Kungenxa yoko le nto i-Healthline iqulunqa uluhlu lweyona bhlog yolwamkelo ilungileyo minyaka le, ibalaselisa iibhlog ezinomdla zokwabelana ngento eziyifundileyo apha endleleni, ukufundisa kunye nokukhuthaza abanye abanokuthi bacinge ngokwamkelwa okanye sele behamba ngaloo ndlela ngokwabo.

Umsindo ngokuchasene neMinivan

Njengomtshato kunye nonyango losapho, uKristen - {textend} umama osemva kweRage Against the Minivan - {textend} unento okanye ezimbini zokuthetha malunga nokuba ngumzali kunye namandla osapho okwamkela. Ungumama kubantwana abane ngokuzalwa kunye nokwamkelwa ngokwakhe, kwaye akoyiki ukugquma izihloko ezinxulumene nokwamkelwa ngokobuhlanga nokwamkelwa kwabantwana. Ibhlog yakhe yeyokuba iintsapho zijonge ukufunda malunga nemiceli mngeni enokubakho (kunye nembuyekezo) yokwamkelwa komntwana, kunye nezo sele zilungile kwisithuba sokuba ngumzali ngokwamkelwa.

Ukuvuma koMzali oLungelayo

UMike noKristen Berry basebenza njengabazali abakhulisa abantwana kangangeminyaka eli-9, bekhathalela abantwana abangama-23 ngelo xesha, kwaye ekugqibeleni babamkela abasi-8 babo bantwana. Ngoku ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, ibhlog yabo yeyomntu ofuna ulwazi, ingcebiso, okanye inkuthazo ejikeleze ukhathalelo lomntwana kunye nokwamkelwa. Banencwadi nganye ebhaliweyo ngesihloko, babamba i-podcast yokwamkelwa, kwaye iiposti zabo zebhlog zigcwele ukunyaniseka kunye noburharha.

ILavender Luz

U-Lori Holden, umbhali wencwadi ethi "Indlela evulekileyo yokuvula ukukhulisa abantwana," lilizwi emva kukaLavender Luz. Usebenzisa esi sithuba ukuqaqambisa ubucukubhede bokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye abantu ngokusemthethweni, egxila kumabali abaliswa ngawo onke amalungu e-triad. Indawo yakhe ilungile kuye nakubani na ofuna ukufunda ngamava abantwana abamkelweyo kunye noomama bokuzalwa, kunye nabo bafuna ulwazi ngendlela yokuhamba ngendlela ekhuselekileyo.

Izimvu eziMnyama Amaphupha amnandi

Ukuba ucinga ukwamkela abazali bakho bokuzalwa, yile bhlog yakho. Uya kufumana ulwazi, iingcebiso kunye namabali ngohambo oza kuluqala. Izimvu eziMnyama zibhala ngamava. Wayengumntwana oMnyama owamkelwa kusapho olumhlophe olukumgangatho ophakathi ngexesha le-1960. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amane kamva, enomntwana wakhe webhayoloji kwaye efuna ukufunda ngelifa abelana ngalo, waya kukhangela umama wakhe wokuzalwa. Uza kufunda ngazo zonke izinto ezijijekileyo nohambo lwakhe, kokubini ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni. Uya kufumana ugqozi, uburharha kunye nolwazi oluluncedo malunga nokhangelo lwakho.

Ukukrazula iiJean kunye neeBifocals

UJill Robbins ngumama ngokuzalwa kunye nokwamkelwa kwamanye amazwe osebenzisa ibhlog yakhe ukubonisa ukuba ubomi bunokuba njani emva kokuthatha umtsi. Esi sithuba sabantu abafuna ukunyaniseka malunga nenkqubo yokwamkelwa kunye nazo zonke iziqwenga ezinzima ezihamba nayo. Kodwa ikwafakwa kwindlela yokuphila emnandi kunye neeposti zokuhamba zoomama abadinga okungaphezulu kunonxibelelwano lokwamkelwa ukuba bathandane nebhlog.

Ukwamkela uMama oMnyama

Le bhlog ibalisa ngohambo lomama omnye oMnyama oqeqeshiweyo ohlala eWashington, D.C., owayeneminyaka engama-40 ubudala wamkela intombi ephakathi. Ubhala ngovuyo kunye nemiceli mngeni yokwamkelwa, kunye nobomi nentombi yakhe uHope. Uqale ibhlog emva kokufumana amazwi ambalwa abantu abanemibala kwiindawo ezamkelekileyo kwi-Intanethi, ethatha isigqibo sokubalisela ibali lakhe ukuze abanye baxhamle. Intombi yakhe ikwabhala ikholamu, iphendula imibuzo malunga nokuba kunjani ukuba ngumntu osemtsha owayekhulisa umntwana, ngoku ungumntu owamkelekileyo kwaye umdala.

Ukwamkelwa komntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho kunye nokuNgaphaya

Njengearhente yokubeka engenzi nzuzo, abantu emva koKwamkelwa kunye nokuNgaphaya baye babona onke amacala okwamkelwa. Ibhlog yabo yeyabantu abafuna ulwazi kunye nezixhobo. Inika iimbono zokumkelwa kunye nezithuba zootatomkhulu kunye noomakhulu nootatomkhulu. Ukukhonza eKansas naseMissouri kwimizamo yabo yokubeka, bakwabonelela ngemisebenzi yasekuhlaleni, eyonwabisayo yosapho kunye nabantwana.

Ibhlog yobomi eyamkelweyo

Ubomi obamkelweyo yibhlog ka-Angela Tucker malunga nokwamkelwa ngokobuhlanga, okuxelwe kwimbono yomntu owamkelayo. Uya kufumana iingcebiso, ukuqonda kunye namabali malunga neentsapho ezibandakanyayo. UAngela wamkelwa njengosana oluNtsundu kwintsapho yabamhlophe esixekweni apho iipesenti ezi-1 zabemi zazinguMnyama. Kodwa uAngela, elangazelela ukufumana ilifa lakhe elimnyama, waqala ukukhangela abazali bakhe abamzalayo eneminyaka engama-21 ubudala. Wabhala uhambo lwakhe kwifilimu yokuValwa ngo-2013. Ufumene umama wakhe wokuzalwa kwaye ubhala malunga nobunzima kunye nokonwaba kolo lwalamano kwibhlog yakhe. Uya kufumana amabali ka-Angela malunga namava akhe njengomntu owamkelekileyo.

Ukwamkelwa komntu wonke ebomini

Ukwamkelwa kobomi bonke yiarhente yokubekwa ethi izame ukuthetha nabo bobabini oomama kunye nabaza kuba ngabazali abaza kukhulisa abantwana ngokusebenzisa ibhlog yabo. Esi sisithuba sakhe nabani na onemibuzo malunga nokuba ingaba ukwamkelwa komntwana kubukeka njani kubo. Kukho amabali obuqu, izixhobo, kunye neeprofayili zosapho zabazali bokuzalwa ekufuneka bejongile.

Iswekile emhlophe Iswekile emdaka

URachel kunye nomyeni wakhe bagqiba kwelokuba baqhubeke nokwamkelwa emva kokuba befumene ukuba unesifo seswekile. Namhlanje, bangabazali kubantwana abane, konke ngokwasekhaya, ngokobuhlanga, nangokubamkela ngokuvulekileyo. NjengomKristu, uRachel uzabalazela ukusondela kumxholo wokwamkelwa ngokusebenzisa iilensi zokholo lwakhe, esenza le bhlog yakhe ibalaseleyo kuye nabani na onethemba lokwenza okufanayo.

ILigia Cushman

Njengengcali yokwamkelwa komntwana waseAfro-Latina kumtshato wobuhlanga kunye nomntwana owamkelweyo ngeentlanga ezahlukeneyo, uLigia sisithethi esinamava sabantwana abamkelweyo kunye neentsapho ezahlukeneyo. Ngamava eminyaka eli-16 njengonontlalontle, uLigia ngoku wongamela ukukhuliswa kwabantwana abatsha eTampa, eFlorida. Kwibhlog yakhe nakwizenzo zokuthetha kwilizwe liphela, wabelana ngamava obomi bakhe malunga nemiceli mngeni ejongene nosapho lobuhlanga kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Kwibhlog yakhe, ujongana nezihloko ezivelayo ngoku eziqala ukuxoxwa kwizangqa zokwamkelwa, ezinje ngokuba iinkcubeko kunye nobuhlanga zichaphazela njani ukwamkelwa.

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