Yeyiphi eyona minyaka ilungileyo yokukhulelwa?

Umxholo

• Kwiminyaka yakho yama-20
• Kwiminyaka engama-30
• Kwiminyaka engama-40
• Ukhetho lokuchuma
• Ukuqanda amaqanda akho
• Ukuchuma kwamadoda
• Ungalufumana nini uncedo
• Yise kude

Ushwankathelo

Ngombulelo kuthintelo lokuthintela ukukhulelwa kunye nokufumaneka ngokubanzi kwetekhnoloji yokuzala, izibini namhlanje zinolawulo ngakumbi xa zifuna ukuqala usapho lwazo kunangaphambili.

Ukulinda ukuqala usapho kunokwenzeka, nangona kunokuba nzima ukuba ukhulelwe.

Ukuchuma kuyancipha ngokweminyaka, kwaye ukuba nomntwana kamva ebomini kunokunyusa umngcipheko wokukhulelwa.

Oko kwathiwa, akukho "minyaka ilungileyo" yokukhulelwa. Isigqibo sokuqala usapho kufuneka sisekwe kwizinto ezininzi- kubandakanya iminyaka yakho kunye nokulungela kwakho ukuba ngumzali.

Ngenxa yokuba ungaphezulu kweminyaka engama-30 okanye engama-40 oko akuthethi ukuba awunakuba nosana olusempilweni.

Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nokukhulelwa kwinqanaba ngalinye lobomi bakho.

Kwiminyaka yakho yama-20

Abasetyhini bazele kakhulu kwaye baneminyaka engama-20.

Eli lixesha apho unelona nani liphezulu lamaqanda asemgangathweni afumanekayo kwaye umngcipheko wakho wokukhulelwa uphantsi.

Kwiminyaka engama-25 ubudala, amathuba okuba ukhulelwe emva kweenyanga ezintathu zokuzama aphantsi nje.

Kwiminyaka engama-30

Ukuchuma kuya kuqala ukwehla xa uneminyaka engama-32. Emva kweminyaka engama-35, oko kuncipha kuyakhawuleza.

Abasetyhini bazalwa nawo onke amaqanda abaya kuba nawo- malunga nesigidi esinye sabo. Inani lamaqanda liyehla ngokuthe chu ngokuhamba kwexesha.

Kwiminyaka engama-37, kuqikelelwa ukuba uyakuba namaqanda angama-25,000 ashiyekileyo.

Ngeminyaka engama-35, amathuba okuba ukhulelwe emva kweenyanga ezintathu zokuzama.

Umngcipheko wokukhulelwa kwesisu kunye nokungaqheleki kofuzo nako kuqala ukukhula emva kweminyaka engama-35. Unokujamelana nobunzima ngakumbi ekukhulelweni kwakho okanye ngexesha lokuzala usana kamva ebomini.

Ngenxa yoku, ugqirha wakho unokucebisa ngokuvavanywa okongeziweyo kunye nokuvavanywa kwakho kunye nosana lwakho.

Kwiminyaka engama-40

Kukho ukwehla okukhulu kumandla omfazi wokukhulelwa ngokwemvelo kwi-40s yakhe. Kwiminyaka engama-40, amathuba okuba ukhulelwe emva kweenyanga ezintathu zokuzama ukujikeleza.

Ixesha elingaphezulu, ubungakanani kunye nomgangatho wamaqanda akho uyehla. Amaqanda amadala anokuba neengxaki ze-chromosome, ezonyusa amathuba okuba nomntwana onesiphene sokuzalwa.

Uninzi lwabasetyhini kwi-40s yabo banokukhulelwa okusempilweni kunye nosana, kodwa umngcipheko unyuka ngokubonakalayo ngeli xesha. Ezi ngozi zibandakanya:

• Ukuhanjiswa kwecandelo le-C
• ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha
• ubunzima bokuzalwa obuphantsi
• iziphene zokuzalwa
• ukuzalwa komntwana oswelekileyo

Iimeko zonyango, ezinjengesifo seswekile kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi, zixhaphake kakhulu kwabasetyhini emva kweminyaka engama-35.

Emva kweminyaka engama-40, ugqirha wakho angenza uvavanyo olongezelelweyo kunye nokubeka iliso ukujonga iingxaki ezinokwenzeka.

Ukhetho lokuchuma

Ukuba ungaphezulu kweminyaka engama-35 kwaye uzama ukukhulelwa ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezi-6, unokuba ujongene nemicimbi yokuzala. Ugqirha wakho okanye ingcali yenzala inokukunceda ubone ukuba kutheni ungakhulelwanga okwangoku kwaye ucebise ngamanyathelo alandelayo okuzama ukukhulelwa.

Iitekhnoloji zokuzala zokuncedisa (i-ART) zinokukunceda ukuba ukhulelwe, kodwa azinako ngokupheleleyo ukwenza ukwehla okunxulumene nobudala ekuchumeni kwakho.

Oogqirha banyanga imiba yokuchuma kwabasetyhini ngeziyobisi ezikhuthaza ukuveliswa kweqanda, kunye neendlela ezinje nge-vitro fertilization (IVF).

Kodwa iingxaki zokufumana ukukhulelwa ngempumelelo kwezi ndlela ziyehla njengoko uneminyaka yobudala.

Olunye ukhetho kukusebenzisa iqanda lomnikeli esempilweni. Iqanda lidityaniswa nedlozi leqabane lakho lize ligqithiselwe kwisibeleko sakho.

Ukuqanda amaqanda akho

Ukuba awukakulungeli ukuba nosapho kodwa uyazi ukuba uya kuyifuna kwixesha elizayo, unokufuna ukuthathela iqanda amaqanda ngexesha lakho lokuzala.

Okokuqala, uya kuthatha amahomoni ukukhuthaza imveliso yeqanda. Emva koko amaqanda aya kulandwa kwaye aqanduselwe. Bangakwazi ukuhlala benqabile iminyaka eliqela.

Xa sele ukulungele ukuwasebenzisa, amaqanda aya kunyibilika aze atofwe ngesidoda ukuze achumise. Iimbumba ezivelisiweyo ziya kuthi emva koko zifakwe kwisibeleko sakho.

Ukuqanda amaqanda akho akuyi kuqinisekisa ukukhulelwa. Ukuzalelwa - nokuba unamaqanda amancinci - kunzima ngakumbi xa sele ukwiminyaka yama-30 nama-40. Kodwa inokuqinisekisa ukuba amaqanda asempilweni ayafumaneka kuwe xa sele ukulungele.

Ukuchuma kwamadoda

Ukuchuma kwendoda nako kuyehla ngobudala. Kodwa le nkqubo yenzeka kamva, ihlala iqala kwiminyaka engama-40.

Emva kwelo xesha, amadoda anomthamo wobudoda osezantsi kunye nokubala kwesidoda. Isidoda abanaso asidadi ngokunjalo.

Iiseli zesidoda sendoda esele ikhulile nako kunokwenzeka ukuba zibe nokuchaphazeleka kofuzo kunolo lomntu mncinci.

Indoda endala indala, iya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba ikhulelwe iqabane layo. Kwaye iqabane lakhe lilungele ukuphunza, nokuba ungakanani na.

Oku akuthethi ukuba indoda ayinakuba ngutata wabantwana abakuma-40s nangaphaya. Kodwa kunokuba nzima kancinci kunokuba kwakunjalo ngaphambili ebomini bakhe.

Izibonelelo zokuba nabantwana kamva | Izibonelelo

Ukongeza ekunikeni ixesha lokujonga ikhondo lomsebenzi kunye nolwalamano, ukulinda ukukhulelwa kunezinye izibonelelo kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Uphononongo luka-2016 lufumanise ukuba oomama abadala banomonde ngakumbi kwaye bathambekele ekukhaleni kwaye bohlwaye abantwana babo kancinci. Nabantwana babo baneengxaki zentlalontle, iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi.

Uphando lufumanise ukuba abantwana abazalwa ngoomama abadala basempilweni kwaye baphela befunda ngcono kunabo bafunda nabo koomama abancinci.

Ukulinda ukukhulelwa kunokukunceda uphile ixesha elide. Olunye uphononongo luka-2016 lwafumanisa ukuba amathuba okuphila ukuya kwi-90 ayephakame kakhulu kubafazi ababambezela ukuba nabantwana.

Akukho bungqina bokuba ukulibaziseka ukuzala ngokuthe ngqo kubangela nayiphi na kwezi ziphumo. Kungenzeka ukuba ezinye izinto koomama abadala ngaphandle kweminyaka yabo banokuba badlale indima. Kodwa ezi ziphumo zibonisa ukuba kukho izibonelelo ezithile zokulinda.

Ungalufumana nini uncedo

Ukuba ubuzama ukukhulelwa kodwa awunalo ithamsanqa, lixesha lokuba ubone ingcali yenzala.

Nantsi ixesha lokujonga ugqirha:

• kwisithuba sonyaka wokuzama ukuba ungaphantsi kweminyaka engama-35
• kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuba ungaphezulu kweminyaka engama-35

Amaqabane anezifo zemfuza ezaziwayo okanye abo banokuphuphuma kwesisu kaninzi kufuneka bajonge nogqirha wabo okanye ingcali yenzala.

Yise kude

Iminyaka edlulayo inokwenza kube nzima ngakumbi ukukhulelwa. Ukanti kusenokwenzeka ukuba ube nosana olusempilweni xa ukwiminyaka engama-30 okanye engama-40.

Ekugqibeleni, elona xesha lilungileyo lokukhulelwa kuxa uziva ulungile kuwe. Asinto ingenangqondo ukulinda de uzive uzithembile ngakumbi kwikhondo lakho lomsebenzi nakwezemali ukuqala ukwakha usapho lwakho.

Ukuba ukhetha ukulinda, unokufuna ukukhangela kugqirha wakho okanye ingcali yenzala ukuze uqiniseke ukuba akukho micimbi yezempilo eya kuma endleleni yakho xa sele ukulungele.