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U-Nabela Noor wakhe i-Instagram kunye ne-YouTube emphaya yokwabelana ngesifundo sokwenza izimonyo kunye nokuphonononga iimveliso zobuhle. Kodwa abalandeli bakhe bamthanda kakhulu ukukhuthaza ukuzithemba komzimba kunye nokuzithemba.

Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, i-Bangladeshi-American influencer uye wathatha i-Instagram ukwabelana ngevidiyo yakhe ehleli ecaleni kwechibi, ebonisa ibhikini enqwenelekayo enesinqe esiphezulu. "Eli lixesha lam lokuqala UKUZE ndizithumele ngebhikini," ubhale watsho. "Eli linyathelo elikhulu kum kuhambo lwam lokuzithanda." (Eyeleleneyo: Le Blogger yenza iNqaku eliBold malunga nokuba kutheni i-Makeup-Shaming ihanahanisa kangaka)

“Ndithathe isigqibo sokuthumela ngevidiyo ukuze ubone le nto ingakhange ichukunyiswe, kunye nomzimba usebenza,” wongeze watsho. "Yolula amanqaku, iselululite kwaye yonke - iyintombazana eshushu ehlotyeni."

Ngelixa amawaka abasetyhini abelane ngothando lwabo kunye nenkxaso kuNoor, abantu abaninzi bahlazekile ngomzimba iblogger yobuhle kwicandelo lamagqabaza.

"Unobuncwane obunje ngomntu kodwa kufuneka wazi ukuba ungowaphi ekupheleni kosuku," wabhala enye itroll. "Ukuqhayisa umzimba wakho, ukubonisa nje ilizwe ukuba uzama ukuzithemba kangakanani, akukho nto iluncedo."

Olunye uhlazo olwakha umzimba lwalufundeka ngoluhlobo: "Ndiyaxolisa kodwa ngoku ndiziva ngathi uzama ukutsala abalandeli ngakumbi ngokufumana uvelwano egameni lohambo lwakho lokuzithanda." (Inxulumene: ICYDK, Ukuhlazisa umzimba yingxaki yamanye amazwe)

Ukuba ucinga lonto Kuyavakala kubi, uNoor wabelana ngeposi eyahlukileyo ukuba ufumana imiyalezo embi ngakumbi kwi-inbox yakhe phantse yonke imihla. Yile nto yenzekayo xa ucela umngeni kwinkqubo, utshilo uNoor kwividiyo yeselfie. "Kwaye ndizakuqhubeka ndisenza njalo."

Uye wakhuthaza abalandeli bakhe ukuba baswayiphe ukuze babone enye yee-DM ezinentiyo azifumanayo. I-skrini ibonisa umntu ongabizwanga ngegama oxelela uNoror ukuba "azibulale" kuba wonke umntu umthiyile "umzimba we-flabby." Umntu uphinde wathetha izinto ezinje: "Umntu angaba mbi kangakanani?" Ngelixa etyhola uNoor "ngokukhuthaza ukutyeba."

UNoor uye wasivulela isifuba malunga nokufumana izimvo zokuhlazisa umzimba ngaphambili. Ubukhulu becala, uthi ukhetha ukungabahoyi. Uthi: “Ndiye ndafunda ukuba abantu abenzakalisayo bathetha izinto ezibuhlungu. "Ndiye ndazi ngakumbi kwaye ndiyakwazi ukwahlula into yokuba le yabo intlungu kwaye ayinanto yakwenza nokuzixabisa kwam. "

Kodwa kwezi ntsuku, uyala ukuvumela imiyalezo ekhohlakeleyo ukuba ilahleke. Endaweni yokuba abize ezi troll zoyikekayo kwi-BS yabo.

"Andizukuxolisa ngomzimba wam," ubhale ecaleni kwevidiyo yakhe yeselfie. "Andizukuxolisa ngokukhuthaza ukuzithanda. Andizukuwufihla umzimba wam ude uhambelane nemigangatho yobuhle yoluntu. Amagama akho awuzukuwutshabalalisa umoya wam." (Idibeneyo: Indlela Ukuhlazisa Ngomzimba Ngomnye Umntu Ekugqibeleni Undifundise ukuyeka ukugweba amaBhunga amaTyhini)

Ngelixa intshukumo ekhuthaza umzimba ibinamandla kwaye ifikelela kude, uNoor ukhumbuze abalandeli bakhe ukuba usemninzi umsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe. Ubhale wathi: "Yile nto inje ukuba ngumfazi okhulisa ubungakanani kwi-Intanethi." "Lo ngumzekelo nje wamagqabantshintshi amabi endiwafumanayo DAYIS BASIS."

Ngokuma, uNoor wenza indima yakhe ekuqinisekisenikonke imizimba, iimilo, kunye nobukhulu zimelwe kwimidiya yoluntu.

"Andizukuyeka ukulwela ukumelwa kwamantombazana angakumbi njengam," ubhale watsho, evala umyalezo wakhe. "Andizukuyeka kwaye sele ndigqibile ukusokola. La ngamanye amagama asetyenziswa njengezixhobo ezichasene nam. Ndiyabulela, ukugwetywa kwam kunamandla kwaye kunamandla."

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