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Umxholo

• Zithini iimpawu zobuntu eziHlanu eziBalaseleyo?
• Ndingazifumana njani iziphumo zam?
• Kuthetha ntoni ukuba nesazela?
• Amanqaku aphezulu
• Amanqaku asezantsi
• Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthandeka?
• Amanqaku aphezulu
• Amanqaku asezantsi
• Ithetha ntoni i-neuroticism?
• Amanqaku aphezulu
• Amanqaku asezantsi
• Kuthetha ntoni ukuvuleka?
• Amanqaku aphezulu
• Amanqaku asezantsi
• Ithetha ukuthini into yokutshintsha?
• Amanqaku aphezulu:
• Amanqaku aphantsi:
• Ngaba imodeli enkulu yesihlanu inokwethenjelwa?
• Umgca wezantsi

Zithini iimpawu zobuntu eziHlanu eziBalaseleyo?

Ubuntu bakho bukhethekile kuwe kwaye yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuba ungubani. Ibandakanya izinto ozikhethayo, indlela oziphatha ngayo kunye nendlela oziphatha ngayo. Ngokudibeneyo, ezi zinokudlala indima kubuhlobo bakho, ubudlelwane, ikhondo lomsebenzi kunye nezinto ozithandayo.

Kukho iimvavanyo zobuntu ezingenakubalwa ezenzelwe ukukunceda ubuqonde ngcono ubuntu bakho. Ziza kwiifomathi ezininzi kwaye zisekwe kwiimodeli ezahlukeneyo. Imodeli enkulu yesihlanu yobuntu, ekwabizwa ngokuba yi-Five-Factor Model (FFM), yenye yeemodeli ezithandwayo.

Imodeli yeBig Five imele iimpawu ezintlanu eziphambili zobuntu, onokuzikhumbula usebenzisa isichazi seCANOE:

• Cubukrelekrele
• Aukubhululeka
• U-Nubuchwephesha
• Oubudenge
• EUkuchaphazeleka / ukongezwa

Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga neempawu eziNtlanu zoBuntu, kubandakanya nendlela yokufumana iziphumo zakho.

Ndingazifumana njani iziphumo zam?

Kukho iiwebhusayithi ezininzi ezibonelela ngeenguqu zabo zovavanyo lweempawu eziNtlanu zoBuntu. Olunye ukhetho oludumileyo lubizwa ngokuba luhlu olukhulu lweZinto eziHlanu. Le ndlela isebenzisa impendulo yakho malunga neengxelo ezimfutshane ezingama-50 okanye amabinzana.

Uya kucelwa ukuba uvumelane okanye ungavumelani, kwisikali se-1 ukuya kwi-5, kwibinzana ngalinye. Ngokusekwe kwiimpendulo zakho, iziphumo zakho ziya kukubonisa apho uwa khona kuluhlu lwempawu nganye. Umzekelo, unokufumana amanqaku aphezulu kwisazela kwaye uphantsi ekubuyiseni.

Ungazithathela ngokwakho uluhlu lwempahla olukhulu oluhlanu.

Xa ujonga iziphumo zakho, khumbula ukuba ubuntu bunzima ngendlela emangalisayo. Akukho zimpawu zichanekileyo okanye ziphosakeleyo, kwaye uphawu ngalunye lunxulunyaniswa namandla awodwa. Ezi ziphumo azilulo naluphi na uhlobo lwenkcazo eqinisekileyo malunga nobuntu bakho. Basenokude batshintshe ngokusekwe kuluhlu lwezinto, ukusuka kwimood yakho ngala mhla ukuya ekubeni unaso isiganeko esibalulekileyo, esishukumisa imithambo-luvo esiza kungekudala.

Kuthetha ntoni ukuba nesazela?

Isazela sichaza imeko ngononophelo, ejolise kwiinkcukacha.

Amanqaku aphezulu

Ukuba ufumene amanqaku aphezulu kwisazela, kusenokwenzeka:

• gcina izinto zilungelelene
• yiza uzilungiselele esikolweni okanye emsebenzini
• Ziqhutywa ziinjongo
• ziyazingisa

Ukuba ungumntu onesazela, unokulandela ishedyuli yesiqhelo kwaye ube nobuchule bokugcina iinkcukacha. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukhetha ngabom malunga nokukhetha kwaye usebenze nzima ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Abantu osebenza nabo kunye nabahlobo bakho banokukubona njengomntu othembekileyo nolungileyo.

Unokutyekela ekulawuleni iimeko okanye imisebenzi. Unokuba ulumkile okanye kunzima ukukholisa.

Amanqaku asezantsi

Amanqaku asezantsi kwisazela anokukunceda:

• azicwangciswanga kangako
• gqibezela imisebenzi ngendlela engacwangciswanga kangako
• thabatha izinto njengoko zisiza
• gqibezela izinto ngomzuzu wokugqibela
• ungxamisekile

Amanqaku okuba nesazela asezantsi anokuthetha ukuba ukhetha useto ngaphandle kolwakhiwo. Unokukhetha ukwenza izinto ngesantya sakho kunokusebenza kumhla obekiweyo. Oku kunokukwenza ubonakale ungathembekanga kwabanye.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthandeka?

Ukuvumelana kubhekisa kumnqweno wokugcina izinto zihamba kakuhle.

Amanqaku aphezulu

Amanqaku aphezulu ekuvumeni anokuthetha ukuba:

• bahlala bekulungele ukunceda
• banenkathalo kwaye bathembekile
• banomdla kubantu abakungqongileyo
• kholelwa okona kulungileyo ngabanye

Ukuba ufumana amanqaku aphezulu ekuvumeni, uluncedo kwaye uyasebenzisana. Abantu obathandayo basenokucela uncedo kuwe. Abantu banokukubona njengothembekileyo. Unganguye umntu ofunwa ngabanye xa bezama ukusombulula ukungavisisani.

Kwezinye iimeko, unokuthembela kancinci okanye ukulungele ukulalanisa. Zama ukulungelelanisa i-knack yakho yokukholisa abanye ngokuzimela.

Amanqaku asezantsi

Inqaku lokuvumelana okuphantsi linokuthetha ukuba:

• baneenkani
• ukufumanisa kunzima ukuxolela iimpazamo
• bayazingca
• ungabi naluvelwano kwabanye

Amanqaku aphantsi okuvumelana anokuthetha ukuba uhlala ubambe ingqumbo. Unokuba ungabi novelwano nabanye. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba uyiphephe imigibe yokuzithelekisa nabanye okanye ukukhathalela ukuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe.

Ithetha ntoni i-neuroticism?

I-Neuroticism ichaza utyekelo lokuba neengcinga kunye neemvakalelo eziphazamisayo.

Amanqaku aphezulu

Amanqaku aphezulu kwi-neuroticism angathetha ukuba:

• badla ngokuziva bebuthathaka okanye bengakhuselekanga
• fumana uxinzelelo ngokulula
• ulwa neemeko ezinzima
• yitshintshe imo

Ukuba ufumana amanqaku aphezulu kwi-neuroticism, unokuzibek 'ityala xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Unokukhathazeka kunye nawe ngokulula, ngakumbi ukuba wenza impazamo. Amathuba kukuba, nawe uqhele ukukhathazeka.

Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ubonakale ngakumbi kunabanye, okukunceda ukuba uvavanye kwaye uqonde iimvakalelo zakho.

Amanqaku asezantsi

Ukuba ufumana amanqaku asezantsi kwi-neuroticism, kunokwenzeka:

• hlala uzolile kwiimeko zoxinzelelo
• banethemba elingakumbi
• ungakhathazeki kangako
• ube nemood ezinzileyo

Inqaku eliphantsi le-neuroticism linokuthetha ukuba uqinisekile. Unokuba nokomelela ngakumbi kwaye ukufumane kulula ukuzola phantsi koxinzelelo. Ukuphumla kunokuba lula kuwe. Zama ukugcina engqondweni ukuba oku akunakuba lula kwabo bakungqongileyo, ke yiba nomonde.

Kuthetha ntoni ukuvuleka?

Ukuvuleka, okanye ukuvuleleka kumava, kubhekisa kwimvakalelo yokufuna ukwazi malunga nabanye kunye nehlabathi.

Amanqaku aphezulu

Ukuba uzuze amanqaku ngokuvulekileyo, unga:

• ukonwabele ukuzama izinto ezintsha
• yenza ubuchule ngakumbi
• yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni olungileyo
• kukulungele ukuqaphela izimvo ezintsha

Amanqaku aphezulu ekuvulekeni kunokuthetha ukuba unomdla obanzi. Unokonwabela ukusombulula iingxaki ngeendlela ezintsha kwaye ukufumanisa kulula ukucinga ngezinto ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukuvuleleka kwimibono emitsha kunokukunceda ukuba uhlengahlengise ngokulula ukuze utshintshe.

Qiniseka nje ukuba ubeka iliso ngaphandle kwazo naziphi na iimeko apho unokufuna ukumisela imida, nokuba ikunye namalungu osapho okanye ibhalansi yomsebenzi-wobomi.

Amanqaku asezantsi

Amanqaku avulekileyo aphantsi anokuthetha ukuba:

• bakhethe ukwenza izinto ngendlela eqhelekileyo
• thintela utshintsho
• ziqhelekile ekucingeni kwakho

Amanqaku avulekileyo asezantsi anokuthetha ukuba ujonge iikhonsepthi ngeendlela ezichanekileyo. Abanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba bakubone njengomhlaba othotyelwe emhlabeni.

Ithetha ukuthini into yokutshintsha?

Ukongezwa kubhekisa kumandla owafumanayo kunxibelelwano lwasentlalweni.

Amanqaku aphezulu:

Amanqaku aphezulu okutshintsha angathetha ukuba:

• funa ukonwaba okanye ukuzonwabisa
• yenza abahlobo ngokulula
• thetha ungakhange ucinge
• ukonwabele ukusebenza nabanye

Ukuba ufumene amanqaku aphezulu kwi-extraversion, unokucinga ukuba ungumntu odumileyo. Unokuyonwabela ingqalelo kwaye uzive uhlaziyekile emva kokuchitha ixesha nabahlobo. Ungaziva ngcono xa ukunye neqela labantu.

Kwelinye icala, unokuba nengxaki yokuchitha ixesha elide uwedwa.

Amanqaku aphantsi:

Inqaku eliphantsi lokutshintsha linokuthetha ukuba:

• Unobunzima bokwenza intetho encinci okanye ukuzazisa
• Ndiziva ndikruqukile emva kokuhlangana
• thintela amaqela amakhulu
• zigciniwe ngakumbi

Amanqaku aphantsi okutshintsha angathetha ukuba ukhetha ukuchitha ixesha uwedwa okanye neqela elincinci labahlobo abasondeleyo. Unokuba ngumntu wangasese ngakumbi xa kuziwa ekwabelaneni ngeenkcukacha ngobomi bakho. Oku kunokuvela njengokuma kwabanye.

Ngaba imodeli enkulu yesihlanu inokwethenjelwa?

Ukusukela kuphuhliso lwayo kwii-1990s zokuqala, imodeli yeBig Five isetyenziswe ngokubanzi ngabaphandi, iingcali zeshishini nabanye. Oku ngokuyinxenye kungenxa yokuba kuyimodeli esebenzayo.

Ngelixa ubuntu bunokuqhubeka nokukhula ngaphezulu kobomi bakho, uphononongo luka-2011 lubonisa ukuba iimpawu zobuntu eziHlanu eziBanzi, ngokubanzi, zizinzile kwisithuba seminyaka emine wakube umdala. Naluphi na utshintsho olwenzekayo luqhelekile encinci kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe.

Ukongeza, uphononongo lwango-2006 lwezifundo ezinqamleze inkcubeko ezijonga kwiimpawu zoBuntu eziHlanu zibonisa ukuba ezi mpawu zihlala zifumaneka kwihlabathi liphela.

Ezinye iimpawu zinokujongwa njengezingabalulekanga kwezinye iinkcubeko kunakwamanye, kwaye ezinye iinkcubeko zinokuxabisa ezinye iimpawu le modeli ayilinganisi. Kodwa ngokubanzi, le modeli ithathwa njengeyendalo iphela.

Umgca wezantsi

Uvavanyo lomntu ngamanye amaxesha lunokukunceda uziqonde ngcono. Kodwa abanako ukukuchaza ngokupheleleyo ukuba ungumntu onjani. Uvavanyo alunakukuchaza ngokupheleleyo, nokuba lufumana izinto ngokuchanekileyo.

Ukuba ungathanda ukusebenza kwimvakalelo ethile okanye isimilo, okanye ukuba ucinga ukuba enye yeempawu zakho inokuba nefuthe elibi kubudlelwane bakho, ungasoloko ufuna uncedo kumcebisi okanye ngonyango.

Umcebisi unokukunceda utyhile ngakumbi ngobuntu bakho kwaye ujonge iindlela zokufezekisa naluphi na utshintsho ongathanda ukulwenza.