Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba yi-Biromantic?

Umxholo

• Kuthetha ntoni kanye kanye nge-biromantic?
• Uthetha ukuthini xa usithi ‘okanye ngaphezulu’?
• Kubonakala njani ukuba yi-biromantic xa usenza?
• Ihluke njani le nto ekubeni pan panantic?
• Ngaba ukuhlala nge-biromantic kuhlala kunye nokuziphatha kwakho ngokwesondo?
• Ke unokuba biromantic kwaye ungathandani ngesini?
• Kutheni le nto iphikisana kangaka?
• Uhamba njani ngokwabelana nabantu ebomini bakho?
• Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Kuthetha ntoni kanye kanye nge-biromantic?

Abantu beBiromantic banokutsala abantu abathandana nababini okanye nangaphezulu- ngamanye amagama, abantu abaninzi ngokwesini.

Yahlukile kubungqingili kuba i-biromantic imalunga nomtsalane wothando, hayi umtsalane wesini.

Uthetha ukuthini xa usithi ‘okanye ngaphezulu’?

Isimaphambili "bi-" sithetha "ezibini," kodwa ubungqingili kunye ne-biromanticism azikho malunga nesini kuphela.

Isini asiyiyo into yokubini - ngamanye amagama, "amadoda" kunye "nabasetyhini" ayisiyiyo kuphela into oyithandayo.

Umntu ongeyonto engazichazanga ngokukodwa njengendoda okanye ibhinqa.

I-nonbinary ligama lesambulela elibandakanya uninzi lwezinto ezichaziweyo ngokwesini, njenge-bigender, i-pangender, isini, kunye ne-agender, ukubala nje ezimbalwa.

Intsingiselo ye "bisexual" kunye ne "biromantic" inokubandakanya abantu abangazisebenzisiyo, yiyo loo nto ubungqingili kunye ne-biromanticism zimalunga nokufumana umtsalane kwababini okanye nangaphezulu Isini.

Kubonakala njani ukuba yi-biromantic xa usenza?

Ukuba yi-biromantic kujongeka kwahlukile kubantu abohlukeneyo. Ingakhangeleka ngathi:

• umtsalane wothando emadodeni nakwabafazi, kodwa hayi kubantu abangabhinqiyo
• umtsalane wothando emadodeni nakubantu abangabhinqiyo, kodwa hayi kubafazi
• umtsalane wothando kubafazi nakubantu abangabhinqiyo, kodwa hayi amadoda
• umtsalane wothando emadodeni, kubafazi, nakubantu abanezazisi ezithile ezingafakwanga
• ukuthandwa ngabantu bazo zonke izazisi zesini
• Ukutsala abantu abangafuniyo ukwahluka ngokwesini, kodwa hayi ngabantu abangambini (Oko kukuthi, abantu abachonga ngokukodwa njengamadoda okanye abafazi)

Ukuba u-biromantic, unokufumana unxulumene nenye okanye ezingaphezulu kwezi ngxelo zilandelayo:

• Ufumanisa ukuba isini asiyonto ebalulekileyo kuwe xa kufikwa kwisigqibo sokuba ngubani ofuna ukuthandana naye kwaye uzibophelele kuye.
• Unqwenela ubudlelwane bezothando nabantu abangena kwiqela elinye lesini kunye nabantu abangena kwelinye iqela lesini.
• Xa ucinga iqabane lothando elizayo, awusoloko ufanisa umntu wesini esifanayo.

Khumbula, akukho ndlela inye yokuba yi-biromantic - bonke abantu abathandanayo bahlukile. Ke unokuba yi-biromantic ngaphandle kokunxibelelana noku kungasentla.

Ihluke njani le nto ekubeni pan panantic?

I-Panromantic kuthetha ukuba unamandla okuthandana nabantu be konke Isini.

I-Biromantic ithetha ukuba namandla okuthandana nabantu be ezininzi Isini.

I-Biromantic yinto encinci evulekileyo njengoko kunokuthetha ukuba unomdla othandana nabantu ababini, abathathu, abane, abahlanu, okanye onke amaqela ezesini.

IPanromantic, kwelinye icala, imalunga konke amaqela ezesini. Ngamanye amagama, kukho ukungangqinelani.

Abanye abantu bachonga njenge-biromantic kunye ne-panromantic. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu basebenzisa igama elithi biromantic endaweni ye-panromantic ukucacisa ukuba abathandani kuwo onke amaqela ezesini.

Umzekelo, umntu unokuzifumana enomdla kwabafazi nakubantu abangafuniyo, kodwa hayi amadoda. Kule meko, i-biromantic ibachaza kakuhle, kodwa i-panromantic ayenzi njalo.

Ekugqibeleni kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ukhethe ileyibhile okanye iilebhile ezikufanelayo.

Ngaba ukuhlala nge-biromantic kuhlala kunye nokuziphatha kwakho ngokwesondo?

Kuyenzeka ukuba bobabini biromantic kwaye bisexual. Oku kuthetha ukuba nobabini nithandana kwaye nitsaleleka kubantu besini esahlukileyo.

Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu abane-biromantic banesimo sokuziphatha ngokwesondo esahlukileyo kukhetho lwabo lokuthandana.

Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi "mixed orientation" okanye "cross-orientation" - xa utsalwa luthando kwiqela elinye labantu kwaye utsala nelinye iqela labantu.

Nantsi imizekelo embalwa yabantu abane-biromantic abanokuqhelaniswa okuxubeneyo:

• Umntu o-biromantic, o-asexual uyathandana nabantu abathandana nabesini esithile, kodwa amava amancinci kukungathandwa ngokwesini.
• Umntu obhinqileyo ongathandani nobufanasini uyathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo, kodwa utsala kuphela abantu besini.
• Indoda enobungqingili, indoda engqingiliyo iyathandana nabantu abathandana nabesini esithile, kodwa itsala kuphela amadoda.
• Umntu obhinqileyo ongatshatanga nomntu othandana naye, uyathandana nabantu abathandanayo, kodwa utsala kuphela amadoda.
• Umntu ongathandani nomntu ongathandani nomntu ongatshatanga naye uyathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo, kodwa utsala umdla kubo bonke abantu besini esahlukileyo. Mhlawumbi bazifumana bethandana nabantu kunye nabantu abangabhalisiyo, kodwa hayi abafazi.

Le yimizekelo nje embalwa yendlela yokuziqhelanisa okuxubeneyo enokubonakala ngathi. Ezi asizizo kuphela iindlela zokuchaza ngokwakho.

Ke unokuba biromantic kwaye ungathandani ngesini?

Ewe. Rhoqo, "ulala nabantu ababini" usetyenziselwa ukuchaza zombini ezothando kunye nolwabelana ngesondo.

Nangona kunjalo, njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, ukuqhelaniswa okuxubeneyo yinto kwaye unokuba nesini ngaphandle kokuba ube yindlalifa- kwaye ngokuchaseneyo.

Kutheni le nto iphikisana kangaka?

Abantu abaninzi banoluvo lokuba umtsalane wesini kunye nothando yinto enye.

Abanye bathi igama elithi bisexual lithetha ukuba utsaleleka kubantu besini esinye okanye nangaphezulu, kunye nokutsala isini kunye nangaphezulu.

Kule minyaka idlulileyo, sifunde ukuba ukuxubana nokuxubana kuyinyani, kwaye zininzi iindlela zokufumana umtsalane.

Uhamba njani ngokwabelana nabantu ebomini bakho?

Ke, uqikelele ukuba uyibhayimon. Kuhle! Okwangoku, unokufuna ukuxelela abantu ebomini bakho.

Kwabanye abantu, ukuphuma kunokuziva kunomdla. Kwabanye, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ukuphuma kunokujongeka njengoku:

• ukuqokelela abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho buqu kwaye ubaxelele ukuba uyabiromantic
• Ukuthetha nomntu nomnye nabantu obathandayo kwaye ubatshele ukuba une-biromantic
• ukwenza iposti yemidiya yoluntu apho uchaza khona uthando lwakho
• ubukele iNetflix nomhlobo wakho kwaye ngokungakhathali uthi, "Hi ndlela leyi, ndiyindalo!"

Inqaku lelokuba akukho ndlela "ilungileyo" yokuphuma njenge-biromantic - konke kukuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba uziva ekhululekile.

Xa uphuma njenge-biromantic, unokufuna ukusebenzisa ezi ndawo zilandelayo zokuthetha:

• Qala ngokuthi kukho into ongathanda ukwabelana ngayo nabo. Baxelele ukuba uyindalo.
• Chaza ukuba kuthetha ntoni. Usenokuthi, "Oku kuthetha ukuba ndiyakwazi ukuthandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo." Mhlawumbi ungachaza ukuba yeyiphi into oyithandayo.
• Ukuba ungathanda, cacisa indlela oziva ngayo ngokwesondo, nayo, numahluko phakathi komtsalane wothando nolwabelana ngesondo.
• Baxelele ukuba ufuna inkxaso enjani. Umzekelo, ungathi, “Ndingathanda ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo endinazo. Ndingakhuphela? ” okanye "Ungandinceda ndixelele abazali bam?" okanye "bendifuna ukukwazisa kuba kubalulekile kum."

Ukuba uphumela emntwini ngesiqu sakho kwaye uyoyika ngendlela abasabela ngayo, kunokuba bubulumko ukuza nomhlobo oxhasayo.

Awuyithandi incoko yabantu? Cinga ngokuphuma ngaphandle kombhalo okanye umnxeba. Abantu abaninzi baphuma kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo, ebanceda ukuba baxelele abantu abaninzi ngaxeshanye kwaye baqokelele uthando kunye nenkxaso kwabo babangqongileyo.

Ungafunda phi ngaphezulu?

Ukuze ufunde okungakumbi malunga ne-biromanticism, jonga ezi zinto zilandelayo kwi-Intanethi:

• Ukubonakala ngokwesini kunye neNethiwekhi yezeMfundo, apho unokukhangela khona iinkcazo zamagama ahlukeneyo ngokunxulumene nokwabelana ngesondo kunye nokuziqhelanisa
• IZiko leZibonelelo zeBisexual kunye neBiNet USA, ezo zombini ziyimithombo yolwazi egqwesileyo kunye nenkxaso yabantu abathandanayo nabathandanayo
• I-GLAAD, enezixhobo ezininzi kunye namanqaku kwindawo yabo

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