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• Wonke umntu unendaba yebele
• Akululanga ukukhula njengomfazi eIndiya

Iprojekthi efunyanwa ngabantu abaninzi kwi-Instagram ibonelela ngendawo ekhuselekileyo yabasetyhini ukuba bathethe ngamabele abo.

Yonke imihla, xa umculi waseMumbai u-Indu Harikumar evula i-Instagram okanye i-imeyile yakhe, ufumana isikhukhula samabali obuqu, iinkcukacha ezisondeleyo zobomi babantu, kunye ne-nudes.

Abangacelwanga, nangona. Sekuyinto eqhelekileyo kuHarikumar emva kokuba eqale i-Identitty, iprojekhthi yobugcisa efunwa ngabantu ebiza abantu basetyhini ukuba babelane ngamabali abo kunye neemvakalelo malunga namabele abo.

Njengomntu ohlala eneengxoxo ezikwi-Intanethi malunga nesini, isazisi, kunye nomzimba, iHarikumar ineeprojekthi ezininzi ezifunyanwa ngabantu.

Eyokuqala, # 100IndianTinderTales, inemifanekiso yakhe ebonisa amava amaIndiya asebenzisa iTinder yokuthandana. Uqale neprojekthi ebizwa ngokuba yi #BodyofStories egxile kwincoko malunga nokuhlazeka komzimba kunye nokuzithemba komzimba.

Akumangalisi ukuba u-Identitty avela kwenye incoko enjalo. Umhlobo uxelele uHarikumar ngendlela ubhasikidi wakhe omkhulu owamfumana ngayo ingqalelo engafunekiyo kunye nendlela awayeziva ngayo ngokuphendula kwabantu kunye nezimvo ezingafunekiyo. Wayesoloko “eyintombazana enebhontsi enkulu.” Babeyinto elihlazo; Nditsho nomama wakhe wamxelela ukuba akukho ndoda iyakufuna ukuba naye kuba ii-boobs zakhe zazinkulu kakhulu kwaye zi-saggy.

UHarikumar, naye, wabelana ngamava akhe okukhula esifubeni esifutshane, ebalisa ukungcikiva kunye nezimvo awayeqhele ukuzifumana kwabanye. “Sasingamacala ahlukeneyo omboniso [ngokobungakanani]. Amabali ethu ayehlukile kodwa ayafana, ”utshilo uHarikumar.

Eli bali lomhlobo laba yinto entle yobugcisa, eyathi yabiwa nguHarikumar kwi-Instagram, kunye nebali lomhlobo wakhe ngamazwi akhe kwi-caption. Ngokuchonga, uHarikumar ujonge ukuphonononga ubudlelwane babafazi kunye namabele abo kuwo onke amabakala ahlukeneyo obomi.

Wonke umntu unendaba yebele

Amabali abonisa uluhlu lweemvakalelo: ihlazo kunye nokuthotywa malunga nobukhulu besifuba; ukwamkelwa ‘kwemithetho’; Ulwazi namandla ekufundeni ngamabele; impembelelo abanokuba nayo kwigumbi lokulala; kunye novuyo lokuzibonakalisa njengeeasethi.

Iibhrasi sesinye isihloko esishushu. Elinye ibhinqa lithetha ngokufumana ubungakanani obufanelekileyo kwiminyaka engama-30. Omnye ubalisa ukuba wafumanisa njani ukuba ii-bras ezinamaphiko ngaphandle kwe-underwire zimnceda ukuba angafundi ukuba kwakunjani ukuba "i-ironed flat"

Kwaye kutheni Instagram? Iqonga leendaba ezentlalo libonelela ngendawo esondeleyo kwaye ivumela uHarikumar ukuba agcine umgama xa izinto zisongamela. Uyakwazi ukusebenzisa isincamathelisi sombuzo kumabali e-Instagram ukuqala ingxoxo. Emva koko ukhetha ukuba yeyiphi imiyalezo anokuyifunda kwaye ayiphendule, kuba ufumana okuninzi.

Ngexesha lokumemeza kwakhe ngamabali, uHarikumar ucela abantu ukuba bangenise umfanekiso wombala we-bust yabo kunye nendlela abangathanda ukuba amabele abo azotywe ngayo.

Abasetyhini abaninzi bacela ukutsalwa njengothixokazi uAphrodite; njengesifundo segcisa laseIndiya uRaja Ravi Varma; phakathi kweentyatyambo; ngeengubo zangaphantsi; esibhakabhakeni; okanye nokuba ze, kunye no-Oreos begqume iingono zabo (ukusuka kwisingeniso "kuba yonke into yam kukutya okutyiwayo, kubandakanya").

IHarikumar ichitha malunga neentsuku ezimbini iguqula ukungeniswa kwefoto nganye kunye nebali kwisiqwenga sobugcisa, izama ukuhlala inyaniseka kangangoko kwifoto yomntu ngelixa ifuna eyayo inkuthazo evela kumagcisa ahlukeneyo.

Kwezi ncoko malunga namabele abo kunye nemizimba yabo, uninzi lwabasetyhini lukwaxoxa ngomzabalazo wokuhambelana okanye "ukucudisa" amabele abo kwiibhokisi zokunqweneleka ezichazwe yinkcubeko ethandwayo, kunye nendlela abafuna ukwahlukana nayo kuxinzelelo lokujongeka njengeVictoria Iimodeli eziyimfihlo.

Umntu ongafunekiyo uthetha ngokufuna isibeleko kuba "ubukho bamabele buyandikhathaza."

Kukho abantu ababhinqileyo abasindileyo ekuphathweni gadalala ngokwesondo, ngamanye amaxesha kubangelwa ngumntu osapho lwabo. Kukho abafazi abaye bachacha kutyando. Kukho oomama nabathandi.

Iprojekthi iqale ngaphandle kwe-ajenda, kodwa i-Identitty yajika yaba yindawo yovelwano, ukuba neencoko, kunye nokubhiyozela ukuzithemba komzimba.

Amabali ekwabelwana ngawo kwi-Identitty avela kubafazi bayo yonke imvelaphi eyahlukeneyo, ubudala, amanani abantu, kunye namanqanaba ahlukeneyo amava ezesondo. Uninzi lwazo lumalunga nabasetyhini abazama ukugqobhoza iminyaka yobukhoboka, ukungakhathalelwa, ukuhlazeka, kunye nengcinezelo ukwamkela nokubuyisa imizimba yabo.

Ininzi yale nto inento yokwenza noluntu lwangoku kunye nenkcubeko yokuthula ethe gqa kwimizimba yabasetyhini eIndiya.

"Abasetyhini babhala besithi," Yile ndlela kanye endiziva ngayo 'okanye' Indenze ndaziva ndindodwa. 'Kukho ihlazo elininzi, kwaye awuthethi ngalo kuba ucinga ukuba wonke umntu unolu hlobo. Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ubone izinto ezichazwa ngomnye umntu ukuze uyiqonde indlela oziva ngayo nawe, utshilo uHarikumar.

Ukwafumana imiyalezo evela emadodeni athi amabali abanceda baqonde ngcono abantu basetyhini kunye nobudlelwane babo namabele abo.

Akululanga ukukhula njengomfazi eIndiya

Imizimba yabasetyhini eIndiya ihlala ipolisa, ilawulwa, kwaye imbi - iphathwa gadalala. Kukho intetho engakumbi ngento amabhinqa angafanele ayinxibe okanye angafanele ayenze ngaphandle kwento yokuba iimpahla azikhokeleli kudlwengulo. I-Neckline zigcinwa ziphezulu kwaye izikethi zisezantsi ukufihla umzimba webhinqa kwaye zihambelana nemigaqo ekudala ikho "yokuthozama."

Ke, kunamandla ukubona i-Identitty inceda ukutshintsha indlela abafazi ababona ngayo amabele kunye nemizimba yabo. Njengomnye wabafazi (umdanisi waseOdissi) uxelela uHarikumar, “Umzimba uyinto entle. Imigca yayo kunye namagophe kunye nemijikelezo yayo kufuneka inconywe, yonwatyelwe, ihlale kuyo, kwaye inyanyekelwe, ingagwetywa.

Thatha imeko ye-Sunetra. Ukhule enamabele amancinci kwaye kwafuneka enze utyando oluninzi ukuze asuse amaqhuma kuwo. Xa ekuqaleni wayengenakuncancisa izibulo lakhe - ngeentsuku ezili-10 emva kokuba ezelwe, akazange akwazi ukubambelela - wayegutyungelwe kukungakhathali nokuzithemba.

Ngenye imini, ngomlingo, wanamathela, kwaye uSunetra wakwazi ukumondla, imini nobusuku, kangangeenyanga ezili-14. Uthi kwakubuhlungu kwaye kuyadinisa, kodwa wayezingca ngaye kwaye enentlonipho entsha ngamabele akhe okondla abantwana bakhe.

Ngomzekeliso weSunetra, uHarikumar wasebenzisa uHokusai "Igagasi eliKhulu" elibonakalisa emzimbeni weSunetra ngokungathi ubonakalisa amandla aqulathwe emabeleni akhe.

"Ndiyazithanda iititi zam ezincinci ngenxa yento abayenzileyo kwiibhotshi zam ezincinci," uSunetra ubhalela mna. “Isazisi sinika abantu ithuba lokuba baphalaze izithintelo zabo kwaye bathethe ngezinto ngebengazange ngenye indlela. Ngenxa yokufikelela, kunokwenzeka ukuba bafumane umntu ochonga ibali labo. ”

I-Sunetra ifuna ukwabelana ngebali layo ukuxelela abanye abantu basetyhini ukuba nangona izinto zinokuba nzima ngoku, ekuhambeni kwexesha konke kuya kuba ngcono.

Kwaye yile nto indenze ndathatha inxaxheba kwi-Identitty: ithuba lokuxelela abantu basetyhini izinto unako kwaye uya kuthanda yibangcono.

Nam, ndikhule ndikholelwa ekubeni kufuneka ndivale umzimba wam. Njengomfazi waseIndiya, ndafunda kwangethuba ukuba amabele angcwele njengobuntombi, kwaye umzimba womfazi uya kwenziwa ipolisa. Ukukhula ngamabele amakhulu kwakuthetha ukuba kufuneka ndiwagcine ethe tyaba kangangoko kwaye ndiqinisekisa ukuba iimpahla azizisi ngqalelo kuwo.

Njengoko ndandikhula, ndaqala ukulawula umzimba wam, ndizikhulula kwiingxaki zoluntu. Ndaqala ukunxiba iibras ezifanelekileyo. Ukuba ngumfazi kwandinceda ndatshintsha iingcinga zam malunga nendlela abafazi ekufuneka banxibe kwaye baziphathe ngayo.

Ngoku ndiziva ndikhululekile kwaye ndinamandla xa ndinxiba iincopho okanye iilokhwe ezibonisa amagophe am. Yiyo loo nto ndaye ndacela ukuba ndizotywe njengebhinqa elongamileyo, ndibonise amabele akhe kuba nje kukhetho lwakhe ukuwabonisa umhlaba. (Ubugcisa abukapapashwa.)

Abasetyhini basebenzisa imifanekiso kaHarikumar kunye nezithuba ukubonelela ngovelwano, uvelwano, kunye nenkxaso kwabo babelana ngamabali abo. Abaninzi babelana ngamabali abo kwicandelo lokuphawula, njengoko i-Identitty inokubonelela ngendawo ekhuselekileyo xa uthetha nabahlobo okanye usapho olungenakwenzeka.

Ngokubhekisele kwiHarikumar, uthatha ikhefu lexeshana kwi-Identitty ukugxila emsebenzini ozisa imali. Akawamkeli amabali amatsha kodwa uzimisele ukugqibezela into ekwibhokisi yakhe. Isazisi sinokuba ngumboniso eBengaluru ngo-Agasti.

Igama litshintshelwe kwimfihlo.

UJoanna Lobo yintatheli ezimeleyo eIndiya ebhala ngezinto ezenza ubomi bakhe buxabiseke- ukutya okunesondlo, uhambo, ilifa lakhe, kunye nabasetyhini abazimeleyo, abazimeleyo. Khangela umsebenzi wakhe apha.