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Ukuba uqhelene neenketho ze-app yokuthandana ezifumanekayo ngoku, ukhe weva malunga ne-Bumble, eyahlula kwabanye ngokufuna abafazi ukuba benze inyathelo lokuqala xa abantu ababini bedibene. (Enkosi ngokusisindisa kuzo zonke izinambuzane ezikuyo ngenxa yezizathu ezingalunganga, i-Bumble.) Eli qhinga livumela abafazi ukuba bazive belawula ubomi babo bokuthandana, ngokungafaniyo ne-apps ezifana ne-Tinder kunye ne-Hinge, evumela nabani na ohambelana naye. ukwenza i-convo. (I-BTW, iTinder isandula ukuveza "owona msebenzi ubalaseleyo" kwi-app.)

Ngelishwa, akukho sixhobo sokuthandana sinokoyisa isenzeko somoya, xa umntu omnye eyeka ngokupheleleyo ukuphendula omnye ngaphandle kwengcaciso. Yeyona nto ikrwada kakhulu onokuyenza kumntu oncokola naye ngothando, kodwa iyenzeka *lonke* ixesha, ngakumbi xa kufikwa kubudlelwane obuqala kwi-intanethi. (Ngokungathi ukuthandana kwakungekho nzima ngokwaneleyo, akunjalo?)

Yiyo loo nto omnye umfazi egqibe kwelokuba angenise ibali lakhe lesiporho kwi-Elite Daily's Boom, Ghosted, ikholamu yeveki apho isiza sabelana ngesitokhwe esinye esineentloni veki nganye. Le yayiyinto embi kakhulu kangangokuba uBumble wagqiba kwelokuba aliyeke iqela elinetyala-inyathelo elincomekayo kwicala labo.

Makhe sichaze. Ibhinqa elihambelana nomfana kwi-Bumble kwaye baya kumhla. Emva koko, emva kokubhaliweyo okubonakala ngathi kuhamba kakuhle, wamkhupha. Wayekhathazekile kodwa akazange acinge nantoni na ngaloo nto kuba ngelishwa, oku kuqhelekile. Emva koko, oku kwenzekayo: "Ndifumene iprofayili entsha yeBumble ayenzileyo. Wongeze ezantsi," Pleeeeease ungatyeba ebomini bokwenyani. "

Umfana eneneni ebengene engxakini yokwenza iprofayili entsha ngokupheleleyo, egqibezele uluvo oluhlazo olunamafutha. Kuyaqondakala ukuba, eli bhinqa laziva lilihle kwaye lididekile. Waqhubeka wathi, "Ummm, uxolo? Ndiyazi ukuba inokuba ngomnye umntu, njengosuka kwidolophu yakowabo, kodwa okwenzekayo kuncinci kum. . Kwaye ke, andityebanga. Ndiyakwazi nje ukutswina, nje, 200 pounds, ngoko ke ndinamathanga ashinyeneyo mahle."

Okokuqala, ezo zizinto ezinzulu ze squat # iinjongo. (Aba bafazi babubungqina bokuba ukomelela kufile.) Okwesibini, asimsoli ngokufuna ukuzisa ingqalelo kwinto yokuba lo mfo ugcwele. Ayisiyongxaki ukuba wayethetha ngaye ngokukodwa okanye hayi kuba olu hlobo lolwimi olunxamnye namanqatha alwamkelekanga ngaphakathi nayiphi na imeko.

Ke nantsi into apho izinto zithatha inguqu elungileyo. UBumble wabona iposti malunga nale saga iphela kwaye wafikelela kumbhali odibanisa ibali ukuze afumane ulwazi malunga nomsebenzisi ukuze asuswe kwi-app.

Izikhokelo zomsebenzisi weBumble zichaza ngokucacileyo ukuba olu hlobo lokuziphatha alulunganga: "Siliqela elahluke kakhulu. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uhloniphe iinkolelo zabanye abantu, umdla wabo kunye nepropathi ngelixa ukwiBumble. Kufuneka uziphathe ngendlela efanayo kwiBumble njengoko ubuya kwenza ebomini. " Kunokwenzeka ngokupheleleyo ukuba umntu wakhe yi-IRL, kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ngoku unokuqiniseka ukuba kukho umngxuma omnye ongaphantsi kwiBumble. Ukuswayipha okumnandi! (Ufuna iingcebiso ngokuhlangana nomntu kwi-intanethi? Jonga ezi ngcebiso zisi-7 zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi.)

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