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Ndiyazithanda iintlanganiso. Nditsalele umnxeba ndiphambane, kodwa ndingena xesha lobuso, ndicinga ngeengcinga, kunye nesizathu sokuvuka kwidesika yam okwemizuzu embalwa. Kodwa, ayilahlekanga kum into yokuba uninzi lwabantu lungabelani ngolu luvo. Ndiyayifumana. Igumbi lenkomfa-kwanakwindawo yokudala, eyonwabisayo njenge Ukucokisa 29-asiyondawo ekhuthazayo. Kwaye unezinye izinto ekufuneka uzenzile. "Uninzi lweentlanganiso lumalunga neentlanganiso," u-Lena Dunham wabhala kwi-2013 into evanithi ngokuthambile isiqwenga. "Kwaye ukuba uneentlanganiso ezininzi kakhulu malunga neentlanganiso uyakuziva uziva ubushushu." Xa uhlangana nesifundo esithandekayo esibonisa indlela iintlanganiso ezingenamveliso ngayo, kucacile ukuba ikho kwinto ethile.

Kodwa kukho into ethethwayo malunga nexesha lokusebenzisana nabantu osebenza nabo. Kweli xesha leendawo zokusebenza ezizezinye, kutheni ungabinayo enye indlela yeentlanganiso, nazo?

Faka "ukubila ngomsebenzi" -ubugcisa bokuthatha iintlanganiso zakho ngokuzilolonga. U-Alexa von Tobel, umsunguli weLeaveVest, ufunga ngayo kwaye uthi ukusebenza ngaphandle yeyona nto ayigcinayo kuhlelo lwakhe oluxakekileyo. "Ukuba nentlanganiso ngelixa ndizilolonga yeyona ndlela ilula yokuba ndihlale ndinemveliso," utshilo nge-imeyile. "Iqinisekisa ukuba ndiyazikhathalela nokuba ikhalenda yam iba nzima."

Umphathi weClassPass u-Payal Kadakia uthi ubona iintlanganiso zokuzilolonga zeqela zisenzeka ngalo lonke ixesha. "Ukusebenza noogxa bakho yindlela ephumayo yokuphuma e-ofisini uye kwindawo ekhuthaza ukusebenzisana kunye nokusebenzisana," undixelele nge-imeyile. "Ikwayindlela entle yokunqamula ekubeni usoloko 'ungena' kwaye ufumane unxibelelwano lomzimba olunokukunika amandla kwaye luncede ukufumana iijusi zokuyila zihamba."

Ndinomdla, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndizame.

Kwiveki ezimbini, ndizamile ukwenza zonke iintlanganiso endinazo-zombini nabantu endisebenza nabo kunye nabantu bezinye iinkampani-zenzeke ngexesha lokuzilolonga. Ndibambe ubulungu benyanga kwiClassPass ukuze ndikhe ndizame ii-studio ezahlukeneyo kuyo yonke i-NYC. Emva koko, ndathumela i-imeyile kuwo wonke umntu endiyilungiselele iintlanganiso ngexesha lesiqingatha sokuqala sika-Agasti ukuba sibuze ukuba sinokukhupha iintlanganiso zethu ngaphandle kwegumbi lenkomfa kwaye senze ngakumbi ... kakuhle, ukujuluka.

Nge-6 ka-Agasti: I-Barre esulungekileyo

Intlanganiso: UAmanda *, mhlobo wentatheli

Mna noAmanda saye sadibana xa sobabini sasinomcimbi womsebenzi ngo January. Ukusukela ngoko, sihlala sidibana isidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sakusasa. Kodwa, ngeenjongo zokuzama kwam ukubila, wayengumlingane wokuqala ogqibeleleyo. Besishiywe lixesha ukuba sidibane, kunjalo.

Uye wandimema ukuba ndimjoyine iklasi yabucala ye-Pure Barre-thina sobabini kunye nomqeqeshi. Ukuba awuzange uyenze iBarre eQinisekileyo ngaphambili, kukuzilolonga okupheleleyo komzimba okusebenzisa iintshukumo ezininzi ezincinci ukufumana ukutshiswa okunzulu. Ngamanye amazwi, kunzima ngokwenene kwaye kuya kukwenza ukuba ubuze ukuthanda kwakho ukuphila.

Ngelixa mna noAmanda singakhange sithethe ncam malunga nemibono yamabali okanye ishishini lobuntatheli, ngokuqinisekileyo safika kwinqanaba lomntu ngobomi bethu nemisebenzi. Sahleka ngesondo. Sinezinto zokwenyani malunga nokufikelela kwinqanaba lomsebenzi wakho xa kufuneka uvavanye ukuba wenza into ukonwabisa abanye okanye ukuzonwabisa. Ezi zizinto esinokuthi ekugqibeleni sixoxe ngazo malunga nebhiya, kodwa eklasini sakwazi ukuphalaza ii-egos zethu kwaye sengozini ngokupheleleyo ngayo yonke loo nto. Ndingathanda i-100% ndenze intlanganiso enje kwakhona.

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Intlanganiso: UJulia kunye noKirk, Refinery29 iqela levidiyo

Rhoqo ngolwesiBini ekuseni, uKirk, uJulia, kunye nam sihlangana sisebenza kwizikripthi kwaye sicwangcise ukudubula kuthotho lwewebhu Izigaba ezintlanu. Ndibabuze ukuba bangathanda na ukutshintsha itafile-nezitulo zethu ukuze bafumane into esebenzayo. UKirk ucebise ukukhwela iibhayisekile. Ke, besiceba ukurenta iiCitibikes usuku.

Ngaphandle kokuba, uLwesibini wajika wangumhla wemvula ophambeneyo. Sithe masicwangcisele iveki elandelayo, kodwa khange yenzeke. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu baneentlanganiso ezininzi kulula ukuba bavele kwigumbi lenkomfa kwaye bagqibe ngalo. [Funda ibali elipheleleyo kwiRefinery29.]

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