UCarrie Underwood ubangele impikiswano kwi-Intanethi malunga nokuchuma emva kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala

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Kwi Incwadi ebomvuUdliwanondlebe lukaSeptemba ngekhava, uCarrie Underwood uxoxe ngecwecwe lakhe elitsha kunye nokwenzakala mva nje, kodwa uluvo alwenzileyo malunga nocwangciso losapho lwakhe lwafumana ingqalelo enkulu kwiwebhu iphela. "Ndineminyaka engama-35, kungoko singaphoswa lithuba lokuba nosapho olukhulu," uxelele umag. "Sisoloko sithetha ngokwamkelwa nangokwenza oko xa umntwana wethu okanye abantwana bebadala kancinci."

Akubonakali ngathi yinto ~eyimpikiswano ~ into yokuthetha, kodwa inkcazo ka-Underwood ivuselele iitweets ezinomdla malunga nokuchuma. Abanye abantu babelane ukuba bacinga ukuba ingxelo ka-Underwood ilahlekile. "Kufuneka uyazi ukuba iwindow yakho yokuba nabantwana ayivalekanga. Ekuphela kwento ekuyekisayo sisigqibo sakho sokungavumi okanye sokungavumi. Usenakho ukuba nabantwana abasempilweni. I-35 ayigugi, i-35 ayikashiywa lixesha, i-35 ilungile," Umntu omnye utwitter.

"Carrie ucinga ukuba kutheni, xa uneminyaka engama-35, iwindow yakho ivaliwe ukuba ubenomnye umntwana? Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umdala kuye akukho lula ukukhulelwa. Ukuba uyayifuna, yenzeke!" omnye wabhala. (Eyeleleneyo: UCarrie Underwood Wabelane ngezona foto zintle zisebenza kunye nosapho lwakhe)

Abanye beza kukhusela u-Underwood. "Kutheni wonke umntu enika uCarrie Underwood ubushushu esithi ukhathazekile malunga nokuzala eneminyaka engama-35? Awunguye ugqirha wakhe, awazi ukuba unempilo na eyenza ukuba kube nzima kuye ukuba nabantwana," umntu omnye wabhala. "UCarrie Underwood ulungile. Emva kokuba uguqule i-35 ukukhulelwa kwakho kuthathwa njengomngcipheko omkhulu. Iingxaki zeengxaki zomntwana kunye nomama ziphezulu, "ithunyelwe enye.

Ukucaca, u-Underwood akazange athethe ngabafazi ngekhe unabantwana emva kwe35, uthe nje yena UCanzibe uphose ithuba lakhe lokuba a enkulu usapho. Yena nomyeni wakhe uMike Fisher ngoku banomntwana omnye. Amagqabantshintshi abonakalise ukuba i-35 ayindalanga kakhulu ukuba angakhulelwa ichanekile, nangona kunjalo. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, i-US ibone ukunyuka kwabasetyhini abanomntwana wabo wokuqala emva kweminyaka engama-35, okunokuthi kube ngenxa yokuvela kwenkqubela phambili yezonyango efana ne-IVF, ukukhenkceza kweqanda, kunye nokuzala.

"Nangona imingeni, abafazi abaninzi abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 banokuba nokukhulelwa okunempilo kunye neentsana," ngokutsho kwe-American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). (Nazi iimpendulo kuyo yonke imibuzo yakho malunga nokukhenkceza kweqanda kunye nokuchuma njengoko ukhula.)

Kwelinye icala, ii-tweeters ezize ekuzikhuseleni nazo zinenqaku. Kuyaziwa ukuba ukuzala kuqala ukwehla xa uneminyaka engama-24 nangaphezulu okwehla ngokukhawuleza xa abasetyhini befikelela kwi-30s yabo ephakathi. "Ukuchuma akwehli ngesiquphe," u-Mary Jane Minkin, MD, uprofesa wezonyango nokubelekisa kwisikolo sezonyango i-Yale. Ubume. "Kodwa malunga neminyaka engama-35, uqala ukubona ukwehla okungacacanga, kwaye kuma-40 ukwehla okubaluleke ngakumbi. Ukuhla okulandelayo kukumalunga neminyaka engama-43." Ngamanye amazwi, i-Underwood yayingekho-kwisiseko sokucebisa ukuba iingxaki zakhe zokuba nabantwana abaninzi behlile. Abasetyhini abakhulelweyo abadala kunama-35 banamathuba aphezulu okuba babe nosana olunesiphene sokuzalwa okanye ukubandezeleka kwesisu okanye ukuzalwa komntwana oswelekileyo, ngokwe-ACOG. Ukongezelela, abasetyhini abaneminyaka engama-35 ubudala nabo banokuchaphazeleka kwi-preeclampsia, imeko eyingozi eyenza uBeyoncé ukuba abe necandelo le-C likaxakeka. (Ikwayimeko efanayo eyanyanzela uKim Kardashian ukuba asebenzise umntu obambeleyo kumntwana wakhe wesithathu.)

TL;DR? Icala ngalinye lalinokutolika okwahlukileyo koko kwathethwa ngu-Underwood, kwaye kukho iinyani ngasemva kwenqaku ngalinye elisebenzayo. Kodwa ikristale yento enye icacile: Ukuchuma kunye nokuguga kuya kuhlala kungumxholo othintekayo kunye nesihloko.

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