UClaire Holt wabelane "ngoBumnandi obugqithisileyo kunye nokuzithemba" Okuza noMama

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Umlingisi wase-Australia uClaire Holt waba ngumama okokuqala kwinyanga ephelileyo emva kokubeleka unyana wakhe, uJames Holt Joblon. Ngelixa u-30 oneminyaka engaphezulu kwenyanga malunga nokuba ngumama wokuqala, kutshanje uthathe ku-Instagram ukuze abelane ngendlela ekunokuba nzima ngayo ukuba ngumama.

Kwi-selfie yeemvakalelo, uHolt ubonwa ephethe umntwana wakhe eneenyembezi emehlweni akhe. Kwingcaciso, wachaza ukuba akanakunceda kodwa azive ngathi "woyisiwe" emva kokusokola ukuncancisa usana lwakhe. (Idibeneyo: Ukuvuma kukaMfazi okubuhlungu malunga nokuncancisa #SoReal)

"Bendinamaxesha amaninzi anje okokufika konyana wam," uqhubeke watsho. Into endikhathazayo kukuqinisekisa ukuba iimfuno zakhe ziyafezekiswa, kodwa ndihlala ndiziva ngathi ndiyasilela.

UHolt wongeze ukuba uzama ngako konke okusemandleni ukubuyela umva kwaye azenzele lula ngeli xesha linzima. Wabhala wathi: “Ndizama ukuzikhumbuza ukuba andinakufezeka. "Andikwazi ukuba yinto yonke kubo bonke abantu. Kufuneka nje ndenze konke okusemandleni am kwaye ndiyithathe iyure enye ngexesha ... iMamas phaya ngaphandle, ndixelele ukuba andindedwa ??" (Eyeleleneyo: Abafazi aba-6 babelana ngendlela abajija ngayo ubuMama kunye nemikhwa yabo yokuzilolonga)

Ukuba ngumama kunokuba nomvuzo omangalisayo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kulula okanye ukuhamba ngokutyibilikayo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba kukho "icala elimnyama" ekukhulelweni nasekubeni ngumama, eyona nto abantu abaninzi bengakhululekanga ukuxoxa ngayo okanye ukuyivuma.

Kodwa uninzi loomama bebekwizihlangu zikaHolt kwaye bayazi kakuhle ukuba uziva njani.Ngapha koko, oomama abaninzi abadumileyo babelane ngenkxaso yabo kumdlali weqonga kwicandelo lezimvo kwiposti yakhe ye-IG.

"Ndizinike iintsuku ezimbini zokuphumla kwiveki yokuqala ukuze ndingoyiki kwaye ndibuhlungu qho xa evuka eyokutya," uphawule watsho uAmanda Seyfried. "Kwaye yanceda kakhulu. Akukho tyala. Impompo kunye nebhotile nje. Kwaye emva koko wenze zombini. Uxinzelelo oluncinci. Awuwedwa."

"Hlala phaya mama! Owona msebenzi unzima kwaye unomvuzo," wabhala uJamie-Lynn Sigler. "Yaye ungalibali ukuba loo mahomoni adlala ngentliziyo kunye nentloko yakho. Awuwedwa. Yinxalenye yale nkqubo emangalisayo enzima. Ukuthumela lonke uthando."

Nkqu nowayesakuba yimodeli yaseVictoria eyimfihlo, uMiranda Kerr, wathi: "Hayi yedwa! Kuqhelekile ukuziva ngale ndlela. Ukuthumela uthando."

Uziva enombulelo, uHolt emva koko wabelana ngesinye isithuba, evakalisa indlela anombulelo ngayo ngayo yonke ingxelo evela kuluntu lwase-Instagram.

“Ndichukunyiswe lulo lonke uthando endilufumeneyo emva kweposti yam yokugqibela,” ubhale watsho. "Ndikhunjuzwa ngenkxaso engakholelekiyo eza nokwabelana ngamaxesha abasesichengeni."

“Ndiziva ngathi ndiyinxalenye yesizwe esihle-sonke sikule nto kunye,” uqhubeke watsho. "Ndiyabulela ngokundinceda ndizive ndiqhelekile. Ngokwabelana ngamabali akho. Indinike intuthuzelo enkulu." (Idibeneyo: Indlela uMama ayitshintshe ngayo indlela iHilary Duff isebenza ngayo)

Njengoko uHolt wabhala kwiposti yakhe yokuqala, ukuba ngumama kunokonwaba kwaye kuyakhathaza. Kusuku ngalunye olubi oluza nokuba ngumama, usuku olulungileyo luphantse luqiniseke ukuba lulungile ekoneni. Konke kukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kwezi zibini, kwaye isithuba sikaHolt sisikhumbuzo kubo bonke oomama ukuba zi kumendo olungileyo, nokuba kunokubonakala ngathi kunamatye okwangoku.

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