Ungamnceda njani umntwana akhase ngokukhawuleza

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• Uqinisekisa njani ukhuseleko losana olukhasayo

Usana luqala ukukhasa phakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-10, kuba kweli nqanaba sele ekwazi ukulala ngesisu intloko yakhe ibambelele kwaye sele enamandla ngokwaneleyo emagxeni nasezingalweni, nasemqolo nasemgodini ukuya ukukhasa.

Ke ukuba umntwana wakho sele enomdla wokurhubuluza kwaye unokuhlala yedwa ngaphandle kwenkxaso, abakhathaleli bakho banokukunceda ukhase ngeendlela ezithile ezilula, ezinje ngezi zingezantsi:

1. Phakamisa umntwana emoyeni: ngexa uthetha okanye umculela, kuba oku kubangela ukuba afumane izihlunu zesisu eziza kumnceda ukuba afunde ukukhasa;
2. Shiya umntwana ixesha elininzi phantsi, elele ngesisuukuphepha ukubeka umntwana kwisitulo esiphakamileyo okanye kwisitulo esiphakamileyo, kwenza ukuba umntwana aqhelane nomgangatho kunye nokukhulisa amandla emisipha emagxeni, iingalo, umqolo kunye nesiqu, ukulungiselela ukukhasa;
3. Beka isipili phambi kosana xa umntwana elele ngesisu: kuba oku kumenza atsaleleke kumfanekiso wakhe kwaye uzimisele ngakumbi ukusondela esipilini;
4. Beka izinto zokudlala zomntwana kude kuye: ukuze azame ukuyibamba yedwa.
5. Beka isandla esinye kwiinyawo zonyawo lomntwana, xa sele ejonge ebusweni: Oku kuyamenza ngokwendalo, xa esolula, anyanzelise izandla zakhe nokukhasa.
6. Ukurhubuluza ecaleni komntwana: xa ujonga indlela eyenziwa ngayo, usana luthanda ukulinganisa intshukumo, luququzelele ukufunda kwayo.

Uninzi lweentsana luqala ukukhasa ngeenyanga ezi-6, kodwa umntwana ngamnye ukhula ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwaye awungekhe uthelekise ukukhula kwakho nabanye abantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana sele efikelele kwiinyanga ezili-10 kwaye akakwazi ukukhasa, kunokubakho ukulibaziseka ekukhuleni, ekufuneka kuphandwe ngugqirha wabantwana.

Bukela ividiyo ufunde ukuba umntwana ukhula njani kwaye ungamnceda njani ukuba akhase:

Uqinisekisa njani ukhuseleko losana olukhasayo

Ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko losana olukhasayo, kunye nokufumanisa umhlaba omtsha ophambi kwakho, kufuneka:

• Gquma zonke iindawo eziseludongeni uze ususe zonke iingcingo ezinokubangela iingozi;
• Susa izinto phantsi ezinokuginywa lusana, ukukhubeka okanye ukwenzakala;
• Nxiba umntwana ngeempahla ezenza ukuba ahambe;
• Sukushiya amashiti neengubo phantsi ezinokuminyana umntwana.

Ingcebiso elungileyo kukubeka iiphedi zakho zamadolo usana ukuthintela amadolo ekubeni ajike abe bomvu kwaye ubeke iikawusi okanye izihlangu ukuze iinyawo zingabandi.

Ukongeza, izihlangu zomntwana okhasayo kufuneka ziqiniswe ngaphambili ukukhusela iminwe encinci kunye nokuzinzileyo.

Emva kokuba usana lukwazi ukukhasa lodwa, kunokwenzeka ukuba kwiinyanga ezimbalwa liza kuqala ukuphuma kwaye lifune ukuhamba, limi eshalofini okanye esofeni, liqeqesha umzimba ukulungelelana. Kweli nqanaba elilandelayo lokukhula komntwana kunokubonakala ngathi kulinga ukubeka umntwana kwi-walker ukuze afunde ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza, kodwa oku akulunganga. Nantsi indlela yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe ngokukhawuleza.