Ungamkhuthaza njani umntwana ukuba ajike yedwa

Umxholo

• Dlala ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba aqengqeleke
• 1. Sebenzisa into yokudlala oyithandayo
• 2. Biza umntwana
• 3. Sebenzisa istiriyo
• Unonophelo oluyimfuneko
• Yintoni ukubaluleka kokukhuthaza?

Usana kufuneka luqale ukuzama ukuqengqeleka phakathi kwenyanga yesi-4 neyesi-5, kwaye ekupheleni kwenyanga yesi-5 kufanele ukuba lukwazi ukwenza oku ngokupheleleyo, lujike lujikeleze icala, lulala ngesisu kwaye alunancedwa ngabazali okanye nkxaso.

Ukuba oku akwenzeki, ugqirha wabantwana ohamba nomntwana kufuneka aziswe, ukuze kujongisiswe ukuba ngaba kukho naluphi na uhlobo lokulibaziseka ekukhuleni, okanye ukuba kukusilela nje kokukhuthaza.

Ezinye iintsana sele zikwazi ukwenza le ntshukumo ekuqaleni kweenyanga ezi-3 zobomi, kwaye akukho ngxaki kuphuhliso olukhawulezayo. Oku kuhlala kwenzeka xa umntwana sele eqalile ukuyiphakamisa intloko kwangoko kwaye efundile ukuyilawula.

Dlala ukukhuthaza umntwana ukuba aqengqeleke

Eyona nto iphambili emntwaneni ukuze akwazi ukukhulisa ukulungelelaniswa kwemoto sisikhuthazo asifumanayo kubazali nakusapho, ukongeza kunxibelelwano olunikezelwa ngezinto ezahlukeneyo, iimilo kunye noburhabaxa.

Eminye imidlalo abazali abangayisebenzisa ukukhuthaza umntwana wabo ukuba azivulele yona yile:

1. Sebenzisa into yokudlala oyithandayo

Isipho sokunceda usana ukuba luzenzele ngokwalo kukumbeka emqolo kwaye ushiye into yokudlala oyithandayo ecaleni kwakhe, ngendlela yokuba umntwana abone into xa ejika intloko, kodwa angakwazi ukufikelela kuyo.

Njengoko intshukumo yokubamba ngezandla ingayi kwanela, usana luya kukhuthazwa ukuba luqengqeleke, ngaloo ndlela lomeleze izihlunu zomqolo wangaphezulu kunye nesinqe, nto leyo eya kuthi ibaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuhlala kwinyanga yesi-6 .

Jonga ukuba ungayenza njani le ndlela kunye nezinye iindlela usebenzisa iithoyi ukunceda ukukhula komntwana, kunye nonyango lomzimba uMarcelle Pinheiro:

2. Biza umntwana

Ukushiya umntwana ecaleni kubude bengalo, umbize encumile kwaye uqhwaba izandla, ikwaliqhinga lokuba, ngendlela yokuhlekisa, ikuncede ufunde ukuba ujike kanjani. Bona eminye imidlalo ukunceda ukukhula komntwana wakho.

Ngexesha lomdlalo kubalulekile ukubeka inkxaso kumqolo womntwana ukuyikhusela ekuqengqeleni ukuya kwelinye icala, ukunqanda ukuwa.

3. Sebenzisa istiriyo

Ngexesha lenyanga lesi-4 nelesi-5 lobomi, umntwana uqala ukuba nomdla kwizandi azivayo, ikakhulu izandi ezivela kwindalo okanye kwizilwanyana.

Ukuze oku kusetyenziswe kuphuhliso lweemoto zomntwana kwaye lumncede ajike, abazali kufuneka balushiye usana esiswini ngaphambi kwexesha, kwaye banxibe istereo, esingangxoli kakhulu kwaye singabi sikhulu kakhulu, ecaleni. Ukufuna ukwazi ukuba isandi sivela phi kuya kukhuthaza umntwana ukuba ajike aqengqele.

Unonophelo oluyimfuneko

Ukusukela oko umntwana efunda ukujika, ukhathalelo luyafuneka ukunqanda iingozi, ezinjengokungamshiyi yedwa ebhedini, kwiisofa, kwiitafile, okanye kutshintshi lwe-diaper, kuba umngcipheko wokuwa mkhulu. Jonga ukuba kufuneka lube njani uncedo lokuqala xa usana luwile.

Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ungashiyi izinto ezinamanqaku, zinzima kakhulu okanye ezinokuba bukhali ubuncinci iimitha ezi-3 ukusuka emntwaneni.

Ukongeza, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umntwana afunde ukujika ajonge kwicala elinye kuqala, kwaye akhethe ukusoloko ejikela kwelicala, kodwa kancinci kancinci izihlunu ziya zisomelela kwaye kuya kuba lula ukujikela kwelinye icala kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali kunye namalungu osapho bahlala besenza inkuthazo kumacala omabini, nditsho nokunceda umntwana ukuba akhule ngengqondo yendawo.

Yintoni ukubaluleka kokukhuthaza?

Ukukhuthazeka kosana ngeli nqanaba kubaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lweemoto, nanjengoko kusemva kokufunda ukuqengqeleka, apho umntwana aza kukhasa ade ekugqibeleni akhase. Jonga iindlela ezi-4 zokunceda usana lwakho luqale ukukhasa.

Ukujika kunye nokuqengqeleka yenye yeempawu zokuba usana lukhula kakuhle, kodwa ukuze yenzeke loo nto kufuneka ukuba izigaba zangaphambili zigqityiwe, njengokukwazi ukuphakamisa intloko yakho xa usesiswini. Bona ezinye izinto ekufuneka zenziwe ngumntwana oneenyanga ezintathu ubudala.