Ungaluchonga njani uxinzelelo kumanqanaba ohlukeneyo obomi

Umxholo

• Iimpawu eziphambili kwinqanaba ngalinye lobomi
• 1. Uxinzelelo kubuntwana
• 2. Uxinzelelo kwishumi elivisayo
• 3. Ukudakumba xa ukhulelwe okanye emva kokubeleka
• 4. Uxinzelelo kubantu abadala

Ukudakumba kunokuchongwa ngobukho bokuqala, kubunzulu obuphantsi, beempawu ezinje ngokunqongophala kwamandla kunye nokozela emini, ixesha elide kuneeveki ezi-2 zilandelelana.

Nangona kunjalo, inani leempawu liyonyuka kwaye liyakhula ngokuhamba kwexesha, kubangela ukukhubazeka ekuhlaleni kunye nokwenza iimpawu zakudala zoxinzelelo ngakumbi, ezinje:

1. Ukusilela komnqweno wokwenza imisebenzi enika ulonwabo;
2. Ukungabikho kwamandla kunye nokudinwa rhoqo;
3. Ukuziva ungenanto okanye ukudakumba;
4. Ukucaphuka kunye nokucotha;
5. Iintlungu notshintsho emzimbeni;
6. Iingxaki zokulala kunye nokutshintsha kobunzima;
7. Ukuphelelwa ngumdla wokutya;
8. Ukungabikho koxinzelelo;
9. Iingcinga zokufa nokuzibulala;
10. Utywala neziyobisi.

Ukuba kukho urhano ngesi sifo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba kubonwe ugqirha oqhelekileyo, kuba iimvavanyo zaselebhu ziya kuba yimfuneko ukukhupha nasiphi na isifo semvelo. Emva koko, umntu lowo uya kuthunyelwa kugqirha wezengqondo okanye ugqirha wengqondo oya kuthi aqalise uvavanyo olunenkcukacha ukuqinisekisa isifo kunye nokukhokela unyango olufanelekileyo. Jonga ukuba ukuxilongwa koxinzelelo kuqinisekiswa njani kwaye lwenziwa njani unyango.

Iimpawu eziphambili kwinqanaba ngalinye lobomi

Nangona iimpawu zakudala zoxinzelelo zikhona nakweliphi na ubudala, kukho iimpawu ezinokwahluka ngokwamanqanaba obomi:

1. Uxinzelelo kubuntwana

Ukudakumba kwabantwana kunokuba yeyona nto inzima ukuyibona, kuba iimpawu zokuzahlulwa ekuhlaleni ziphazanyiswa lula kukucaphuka nokuba neentloni. Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu ezinje ngokumanzisa ebhedini, ubundlongondlongo kunye nobunzima bokufunda bunokunceda kwisifo.

Ke ngoko, ukuba ngaba zikhona ezi mpawu, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baxele utshintsho kwindlela aziphethe ngayo umntwana kugqirha wabantwana, oya kuthi avavanye imeko yeklinikhi, aqinisekise ukuba luxinzelelo ngokwenene okanye lolunye uhlobo lotshintsho, ezinje ngexhala okanye ukunganyamezeleki , umzekelo., ukuze, ukuba kukho imfuneko, umntwana asiwe kwingcali, enje ngengcali ngengqondo yomntwana okanye ugqirha wezifo zengqondo, ukuze afumane unyango olufanelekileyo.

Jonga ukuba lunjani unyango loxinzelelo lwabantwana.

2. Uxinzelelo kwishumi elivisayo

Iimpawu ezithile ezibonisa ukudakumba kweli nqanaba, ukongeza kwiimpawu zeklasikhi, kukuhlala ucaphuka, ukusilela kwememori, ukungazithembi kunye neemvakalelo zokuziva ungaxabisekanga, ukongeza kwiimpawu zakudala.

Nangona kunjalo, utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha nakwimood zixhaphakile ebusheni, njengoko sisigaba esineenguqu ezininzi zehomoni ngexesha lobomi. Nangona kunjalo, ukudakumba kwinqanaba lokufikisa kunokubangelwa ziimeko ezininzi, ezinje ngokuselwa kweziyobisi kunye notywala kunye nembali yosapho yoxinzelelo, umzekelo, ukongeza kwimeko yendalo enokubangela ukuhlawuliswa okugqithisileyo kunye nokudala amathandabuzo.

Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba kwimeko yokusola, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo kufunwa enze uxilongo oluchanekileyo kwaye aqalise unyango olufanelekileyo, kuba ukwanda koxinzelelo kulutsha kunxulunyaniswa nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kotywala neziyobisi ebudaleni, izinto ezinokubeka impilo yomntu esichengeni kunye nomgangatho wobomi.

3. Ukudakumba xa ukhulelwe okanye emva kokubeleka

Utshintsho lweemood ngeli xesha liqhelekileyo kwaye sisiphumo sotshintsho lwehomoni oluqhelekileyo ekukhulelweni okanye emva kokubeleka kwaye kunokubonakaliswa kukutshintsha kwemood, ixhala kunye nosizi, oko kunokukhokelela ekungathandekeni kokukhulelwa kunye nokungabikho komdla emntwaneni emva kokuzalwa.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba imeko yokudakumba iyaqhubeka kwaye ihlala ngaphezulu kwenyanga enye ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nakwiiveki ezi-4 okanye ezi-6 okanye iinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-4 emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, kuya kufuneka kuxelwe kugqirha ohamba nokukhulelwa okanye i-puerperium, ke ukuba ingcali efanelekileyo ibonakaliswe ukuba ihamba kunye nonyango. Jonga uvavanyo olukwi-Intanethi olunokukunceda wazi ukuba luxinzelelo lwasemva kokubeleka.

Ngokwesiqhelo ukudakumba xa ukhulelwe okanye emva kwexesha lokubeleka kunokubakho kwiimeko apho ukungazinzi kwemali, uloyiko, ukungazithembi kunye noxinzelelo kwezentlalo kunye noluntu, ukongeza kumava abuhlungu ngexesha lomsebenzi.

4. Uxinzelelo kubantu abadala

Uxinzelelo kubantu abadala lunokuvela kwihomoni nakwimeko yokusingqongileyo, nangona kunjalo, isengunobangela ongaziwayo. Iimpawu zophawu lweli nqanaba lobomi kukungakhathalelwa ngokwakho njengokungafuni ukuhlamba, ukungasebenzisi amayeza esiqhelo ukuba kukho kunye nokutsiba ukutya, kunye nazo zonke iimpawu zakudala.

Ukongeza, xa ushiywe unganyangwa, uxinzelelo kubantu abadala kunokubangela iziphumo ezibi zempilo, njengokulahleka kwenkululeko yokwenza imisebenzi, utshintsho kwimemori, ukuhlala wedwa ekuhlaleni, ukongeza ekuthandeni kwezifo.

Ke, ukuba kukho urhano lokudakumba kubantu abadala, kuyacetyiswa ukuba kufunwe ugqirha wezamayeza, ukwenzela ukuba kwenziwe iimviwo eziyimfuneko kwaye kuqalwe unyango olufanelekileyo.