Defralde: ungayithatha njani ilweyile yosana kwiintsuku ezi-3

Umxholo

• Imigaqo yokususa i-diaper kwiintsuku ezi-3
• Inyathelo ngenyathelo ukuthatha ilweyile kwiintsuku ezi-3
• Usuku 1
• Usuku 2
• Usuku 3
• Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba obu buchule abusebenzi
• Nini ukuthatha i-diaper emntwaneni

Indlela elungileyo yokutyhila usana kukusebenzisa ubuchule "3" Uqeqesho lwePotty Day ", Eyenziwe nguLora Jensen kwaye uthembisa ukunceda abazali basuse ilweyile lomntwana kwiintsuku ezi-3 kuphela.

Sisicwangciso esinemithetho eqinileyo nenenjongo ekufuneka ilandelwe kangangeentsuku ezintathu ukuze umntwana afunde ukuchama nokukhupha kwigumbi lokuhlambela ngaphandle komothuko, ukuququzelela ukususwa kwe-diaper.

Ukususa ilweyile losana kwiintsuku ezi-3, umntwana kufuneka abe ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezingama-22 ubudala, angancanciswa ebusuku, ahambe kakuhle yedwa kwaye azi indlela yokunxibelelana ukuze umama abone ukuba kufuneka aye kwindlu yangasese.

Imigaqo yokususa i-diaper kwiintsuku ezi-3

Ukongeza kwiimfuno ezithile ngokubhekisele kubuchule bomntwana ekuqinisekiseni ukuba impumelelo yolu buchule, kubalulekile ukuba ulandele imigaqo ebalulekileyo, ebandakanya:

• Mnye kuphela umntu, ngakumbi umama okanye utata, ekufuneka esebenzise obu buchule kwaye abe noxanduva lomntwana kangangeentsuku ezi-3 zilandelelana;
• Ngale mihla kuyacetyiswa ukuba umama okanye utata asoloko ehlala ekhaya nosana, kuthintelwe ukuphuma kunye nokushiya izidlo zilungele ukufumana ubuncinci bemisebenzi. Ukwenza oku usebenzisa impelaveki kunokuba sisisombululo esifanelekileyo;
• Ukuba enye indlela sele izamile ukutyhila usana, kuya kufuneka ulinde inyanga enye ukwenza le ndlela intsha, ukuze umntwana aqale ukuyifunda ngaphandle kokuxhathisa kwaye angayidibanisi ngendlela engeyiyo kunye neenzame zokugqibela;
• Ukuba nembiza ekhaya, ekufuneka ikwigumbi lokuhlambela, kufutshane nendlu yangasese okanye kwileli enesithinteli somntwana ukuba akhwele kwindlu yangasese;
• Ukuba nezincamathelisi ezigciniweyo okanye into umntwana ayithandayo kakhulu ukuba ayinike njengebhaso nangaliphi na ixesha xa esiya kwigumbi lokuhlambela aze achame okanye ayeke ukungcola kwindlu yangasese.

Kukwacetyiswa ukuba malunga neepanties ezingama-20 ukuya kwezingama-30 okanye iimpahla zangaphantsi ekhaya zokutshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha usana luchama okanye luphuma "kwindawo engeyiyo".

Inyathelo ngenyathelo ukuthatha ilweyile kwiintsuku ezi-3

Inyathelo ngamanyathelo obu buchule kufuneka yahlulwe ibe ziintsuku ezi-3:

Usuku 1

1. Emva kokuvusa umntwana ngaxeshanye uhlala evuka esidla isidlo sakusasa, susa ilweyile kwaye unxibe ihempe kuphela kunye nempahla yangaphantsi okanye ipanty;
2. Umama nosana kufuneka baphose ilweyile elinxitywe lusana kunye nazo zonke ezishiyekileyo, nokuba zicocekile, ukuze umntwana akuqonde okwenzekayo. Ukusuka ngalo mzuzu ukuya phambili, akusayi kubakho manaphukana kufuneka abekwe emntwaneni ngeentsuku ezi-3, nokuba ulele;
3. Dlala ngokwesiqhelo nosana, uhlala ecaleni kwakhe kwaye umnike amanzi, iti okanye incindi yeziqhamo emini ukuze azive efuna ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela;
4. Jonga nawuphi na umqondiso wokuba umntwana ukwimeko yokuya kwindlu yangasese;
5. Isidlo kufuneka sityiwe nosana kwaye silungiselelwe, ngokukhethekileyo, ukuze "singachithi" ixesha lokupheka;
6. Emini, khumbuza umntwana ukuba, ukuba ufuna ukuchama okanye ukungcola, kufuneka axelele umama okanye utata wakhe ukuba aye kwindlu yangasese, akuphephe ukubuza ukuba uyafuna na ukuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela okanye ufuna ukuchama okanye ukungcola;
7. Ngalo lonke ixesha usana luchama okanye luphuma ebhodweni okanye endlini yangasese, mdumise kwaye umnike ibhaso njengesincamathelisi sokuncamathelisa okanye into ayithandayo kakhulu;
8. Ngokukhawuleza thatha usana uye nalo kwigumbi lokuhlambela xa ubona ukuba uyachama kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ekwazi ukwenza yonke into echaphazelekayo embizeni okanye endlini yangasese, nika ibhaso;
9. Kwiimeko apho usana luyochama okanye luthi nkxu kwimpahla yakhe yangaphantsi okanye kwi-panty, thetha naye ngokuzolileyo, uchaze ukuba kuya kufuneka achame okanye akhuphe kwigumbi lokuhlambela atshintshe iimpahla zakhe zangaphantsi okanye ipanty yakhe entsha, ngethoni yolwazi kwaye angangxolisi;
10. Ngaphambi kokulala emva kwemini nasebusuku, ngaphambi kokuba ulale, thatha umntwana kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze uchame okanye ubethe, ungalindi ngaphezulu kwemizuzu emi-5 embizeni;
11. Ukuvusa umntwana kube kanye kuphela ebusuku ukuba aye kwigumbi lokuhlambela, ungalindi ngaphezulu kwemizuzu emi-5 nokuba akachami okanye angqengqele embizeni okanye kwindlu yangasese.

Kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana abe "neengozi" ezininzi kusuku lokuqala, echama okanye akhuphe indawo engeyiyo. Ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyazi kakhulu into eyenzelwa lusana, wakuba nje ufumanise ukuba uyaswela, zise kwangoko kwigumbi lokuhlambela.

Usuku 2

Ngale mini kuya kufuneka ulandele imigaqo efanayo nangomhla woku-1, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ujoyine ubuchwephesha obenziwe nguJulie Fellom, ekuvumela ukuba uphume endlwini iyure e-1 emva kwemini. Ukwenza oku, linda umntwana ukuba aye kwigumbi lokuhlambela emva koko uphume endlini kwangoko ngeyure e-1. Olu khuthazo likuvumela ukuba uqeqeshe umntwana ukuba achame ngaphambi kokuba aphume endlwini, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa indlu yangasese esitratweni okanye ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ilweyisi ukushiya indlu.

Ngale mini, kufuneka kukhethwe ukuhambahamba kufutshane nasekhaya, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa imoto, kunye nokuthatha imbiza ephathekayo, ukuba umntwana ucela ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese.

Usuku 3

Olu suku lufana kakhulu nolwesibini, kodwa ngalo mhla umntu unokukhupha umntwana kusasa nasemva kwemini, uhlala elinde umzuzu xa esebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela, emva koko ashiye indlu kwangoko.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba obu buchule abusebenzi

Nangona iziphumo zolu buchule zilungile ekumiselweni komntwana ngempumelelo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ayingabo bonke abantwana abaya kukwazi ukuyeka i-diaper ngokukhawuleza njengoko kulindelwe.

Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kufuneka ulinde phakathi kweeveki ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-6 kwaye uzame kwakhona, uhlala uziva unethemba lokuba usana aluziva luyohlwaywa.

Nini ukuthatha i-diaper emntwaneni

Ezinye zeempawu ezinokubonisa ukuba umntwana ukulungele ukushiya i-diaper zibandakanya:

• Usana luthi lune-poop okanye luchophe kwi-diaper yakhe;
• Usana luyalumkisa xa lupopola okanye luchamela ilweyile;
• Usana ngamanye amaxesha luthi lufuna ukukhupha okanye ukuchama;
• Usana lufuna ukwazi ukuba abazali okanye abantakwenu bazokwenzani kwigumbi lokuhlambela;

Olunye uphawu olubalulekileyo luyenzeka xa umntwana ekwazi ukugcina i-diaper yomile kangangeeyure ezimbalwa ngqo.