Iingcebiso ezi-7 zokuthatha ibhotile yomntwana wakho

Umxholo

• 1. Ukwenza ikomityi ibe yimpumelelo
• 2. Yenza indawo efanelekileyo
• 3. Susa iglasi ngokuthe ngcembe
• 4. Khetha iglasi oyithandayo
• 5. Nika ibhotile abo bayifunayo
• 6. Qiniseka ungabuyeli umva
• 7. Zicwangcise ngokwakho

Abazali kufuneka baqale ukususa ibhotile njengendlela yokondla umntwana phakathi konyaka wokuqala nowesithathu wobomi, ngakumbi xa eyeka ukuncancisa, ukunqanda ukuxhomekeka ngakumbi kumntwana onomkhwa wokuncancisa ukondla.

Ukusukela oko umntwana ephethe ikomityi yeplastiki kunye nokusela ngaphandle kokukrwitshwa, nokuba kungaphantsi kweliso labazali, ibhotile inokususwa kwaye iqhubele phambili ukondla indebe kuphela.

Nazi iingcebiso ezisixhenxe zokwenza ukuba le nkqubo ibe lula.

1. Ukwenza ikomityi ibe yimpumelelo

Isicwangciso esiliqili kukuba abazali bathethe nomntwana kwaye babonakale ngathi kukuhamba okuvela kwibhotile kuye eglasini, eneneni, kuyimpumelelo enkulu kubo.

Kufuneka kuthiwe umntwana uyakhula kwaye abe mdala, ngaloo ndlela ufumana ilungelo lokusebenzisa indebe njengabanye abantu abakhulu nabazimeleyo. Ke, uya kuziva ekhuthazekile ukuba enze utshintsho.

2. Yenza indawo efanelekileyo

Ukukhuthaza umntwana, ingcebiso kukuba usapho luhlala lusetafileni, ngakumbi ngexesha lokutya kunye nesidlo sakusasa.

Abazali kufuneka bathethe, babalise amabali kwaye benze imeko emnandi, apho wonke umntu ekhulile kwaye asebenzise iikomityi kunye neepleyiti endaweni yokulala ebhedini okanye esofeni yedwa nebhotile.

3. Susa iglasi ngokuthe ngcembe

Ukuze ungothusi umntwana, eyona nto ilungileyo kukususa iglasi ngokuthe ngcembe, ukuqala ngokusebenzisa iglasi ngexesha lokutya emini kunye nokushiya ibhotile ebusuku, ukuba kunyanzelekile ukuba uyisebenzise.

Xa usebenzisa eli qhinga, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ungayithathi ibhotile xa uhamba okanye undwendwela namalungu osapho, njengoko umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba ngoku usebenzisa eyakhe iglasi.

4. Khetha iglasi oyithandayo

Ukuqhubela phambili ukubandakanya umntwana kwinkqubo yotshintsho, icebo elilungileyo kukumthatha akhethe ikomityi entsha eya kuba yeyakhe yedwa. Ke, uya kuba nakho ukukhetha ikomityi kunye nefoto yomlinganiswa amthandayo kunye nombala awuthandayo.

Kubazali, incam kukukhetha ubunzima, iikomityi ezinamaphiko ukunceda umntwana ukuba azibambe. Abo banemilomo enemingxunya kwincam lukhetho olufanelekileyo ekuqaleni kwenkqubo.

5. Nika ibhotile abo bayifunayo

Elinye iqhinga lokuba umntwana alahle ibhotile kukuba athi iya kunikwa abantwana abancinci abangakwaziyo ukusebenzisa ikomityi okanye uphawu lomntwana othile, njengoSanta Claus okanye i-Easter Bunny.

Ke xa ecela ukuba ibhotile ibuye, abazali banokuphikisa ngelithi sele inikwe omnye umntu kwaye akukho ndlela yakuyifumana kwakhona.

6. Qiniseka ungabuyeli umva

Njengokuba umntwana ekumkela ukususwa kakuhle kwebhotile, ngaxa lithile uyakumkhumbula kwaye ajule ingqumbo ukuze ambuyise. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bamelane nokubandezeleka komntwana, kuba ukubuyisa ibhotile kuya kumenza aqonde ukuba angayifumana yonke into ayifunayo, ngaphandle kokuzinikela ekulahlekiseni into leyo.

Ke, zihloniphe izigqibo kunye nokuzibophelela ukuze umntwana aphuhlise nolu xanduva. Yiba nomonde, uya kuyeka ukuba nomsindo kwaye oyise eli nqanaba.

7. Zicwangcise ngokwakho

Abazali kufuneka bacwangcise kwaye babe nenjongo yokuba umntwana ayeke ukusebenzisa ibhotile, edla ngokuboniswa iinyanga ezi-1 ukuya kwezi-2 de ikomityi iphumelele.

Ngeli xesha, amacebo ahlukeneyo kufuneka asetyenziswe, kukhunjulwa ukungabuyeli kwinyathelo ngalinye elithathiwe kule nkqubo.

Ngoku jonga iingcebiso zokwenza umntwana wakho alale ubusuku bonke.