Dude Uphakamisa njengeLady: Kutheni ndithanda ukusebenza kwe "Girly"

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Abasetyhini abasebenza ukuzilolonga kwamadoda ibingumsindo mva nje, kodwa kuthekani ngamadoda enza ukuzonwabisa "kwentombazana"? Ngaba indoda inokufumana okulungileyo kokuzilolonga kwisitudiyo se-aerobics njengoko inako kumgangatho wobunzima? Kwaye, okona kubalulekileyo, ngaba angathanda? Ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yethu ye-XY, senziwe udliwanondlebe nekhadi lendoda elithwele umntu ongalunganga owenzeka nje kukuthanda ukusebenza ngokwesiko kwabasetyhini.

UTed C. Williams, utata otshatileyo womnye, ebesiya eTurbokick, Hip Hop Hustle, BodyPump, kunye neeklasi zoqeqesho zaseTabata kwiYMCA yakhe yasekuhlaleni iminyaka eliqela ngoku, kwaye ngelixa engomnye wamadoda nje ambalwa egumbini. uhlala eyindoda ekuphela kwayo eklasini yehip hop), oko akumgcini ekufumaneni ukuzilolonga okunzulu (kunye nokuzonwabisa). Xa ebuzwa ukuba i-estrogen overload ikhe imkhathaze, uyaphendula, "Ndiyoyika ukuqhambuka kwamabala!" Kwaye uthini ngoloyiko lokukhaba impundu yakhe yintombazana? "Andiboni abanye eklasini ngokwesini kodwa ngakumbi ngomzamo wabo kunye nezemidlalo."

Ukuba ngumfana kwigumbi elinabafazi ngokuqinisekileyo kunezibonelelo-kodwa ayizizo ezo ucinga ngazo, utsho njalo uWilliams. Enye into, "Ndifumana i-kudos nje ngokubakho nangaphambi kokuba iklasi iqale." Kodwa akaceli unyango olukhethekileyo. "Kuba bendinamava omdaniso wexesha elidlulileyo, ndifuna ukuba nobabalo kwaye ndiphumeze iintshukumo nokuba andingcono kunaye nawuphi na umntu eklasini, nokuba ungubani na. Njengomntu ongu-6'1" onesakhelo esikhulu, onobabalo ayizi ngokwemvelo, kodwa loo mceli mngeni wenza nayiphi na impumelelo endinayo yaneliseke ngakumbi. "

Inye into ebakhathaza uWilliam xa kufikwa ekusebenzeni namantombazana, esithi uyakhathazeka "ukuba abafazi eklasini bayakhathazwa ndim obelapho." Uyacacisa, "Ndiyazi ukuba [kubafazi abaninzi], ezi klasi lixesha labo lokukhulula, ukuphumla, kunye nokubalekela umgca wokufota ongathandekiyo okanye ukujonga okungahambi kakuhle abanokuthi bajongelwe kwenye indawo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. Xa ndilapho ndiyoyika. "Ndilisusile inqanaba lokuthuthuzeleka kubafazi eklasini. Ndizama ukuphuma kwindlela yam ukuze ndingabi yindoda ekhohlakeleyo ejimini kwaye ndizidibanise."

Uza kuthini kubafana abajongela phantsi ukuzilolonga kwamantombazana? "Yilibale." Uyongeza, "Xa kufikwa kumadoda enza imisebenzi enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo njengowesifazana, kukho uloyiko lokuba ngandlel 'ithile ubudoda bakho buza kubuzwa. Yiyo loo nto amadoda ekhawuleza ukukhupha izifuba zawo kwaye ahlasele amanye amadoda anokuthi yenza le misebenzi: boyika ukuba xa bengahlekisi ngayo, bayakuphulukana nobudoda. "

Kodwa ngaba kukuzilolonga okulungileyo? UWilliams ubonisa ukuba njengomsebenzi omningi, "okukhona uzityhalayo, kokukhona uya kuphuma kuyo!"

Ucinga ntoni ngamadoda enza ukuzilolonga "kwentombazana"? Shiya izimvo kwaye wabelane ngeengcinga zakho!

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