5 Iziphumo eziXhalabisayo zeXesha elide zokuNgxolisa abantwana baKho

Umxholo

• 1. Ukukhwaza kwenza ukuba iingxaki zabo zokuziphatha zibe mandundu
• 2.Ukutshintsha ukutshintsha indlela ukukhula kwengqondo yabo
• 3. Ukukhwaza kungakhokelela kuxinzelelo
• 4. Ingxolo ineziphumo kwimpilo yomzimba
• 5. Ukukhwaza kunokubangela iintlungu ezingapheliyo

Sifuna okona kulungileyo kubantwana bethu. Kungenxa yoko le nto abazali abaninzi besokola ekukhetheni ukuba ngabazali. Kwaye singabantu kuphela, emva kwayo yonke loo nto.

Yinto eqhelekileyo ukukhathazeka ngabantwana bakho, ngakumbi ukuba abaziphathi kakuhle. Kodwa indlela oveza ngayo oku kuphazamiseka kwaye ujongane nale meko inokuba nefuthe elikhulu kuphuhliso lwabo lobuntu nakwimpilo yexesha elide.

Ngapha koko, amanyathelo aqatha oqeqesho lwabazali, njengokukhwaza, anokuba nefuthe elikhulu kubantwana kunokuba bekholelwa ngaphambili. Funda ukuze ufunde ukuba zeziphi izifundo zeklinikhi ezifumanisiweyo malunga neziphumo zexesha elide ezinokukhwaza ebantwaneni.

1. Ukukhwaza kwenza ukuba iingxaki zabo zokuziphatha zibe mandundu

Unokucinga ukuba ukukhwaza abantwana bakho kungasombulula ingxaki ngalo mzuzu okanye kunokubathintela ekuziphatheni kakubi kwixa elizayo. Kodwa uphando lubonisa ukuba inokudala imicimbi emininzi ekuhambeni kwexesha. Ukukhwaza okunene kunokwenza isimilo somntwana wakho sibe sibi ngakumbi. Oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka ukhwaze ngakumbi ukuzama ukuyilungisa. Kwaye umjikelo uyaqhubeka.

Uhlolisiso kubudlelwane phakathi komzali nomntwana lubonise ukuba oku kunjalo kwiintsapho ezininzi. Kolu phando, abantwana abaneminyaka eli-13 ubudala abakhwazwa ngabazali babo basabela ngokwandisa amanqanaba abo okuziphatha okungalunganga kunyaka olandelayo.

Kwaye ukuba ucinga kubalulekile ukuba ngowuphi umzali owenza uqeqesho, akunjalo. Omnye wafumanisa ukuba akukho mahluko ukuba isohlwayo esiqatha sivela kuyise okanye kunina. Iziphumo ziyafana: iingxaki zokuziphatha ziya zisiba mandundu.

2.Ukutshintsha ukutshintsha indlela ukukhula kwengqondo yabo

Ukukhala kunye nezinye iindlela zobuzali ezingqongqo zinokutshintsha ngokwenyani indlela yobuchopho bomntwana wakho obukhula ngayo. Kungenxa yokuba abantu baqhubekeka ulwazi olubi kunye neziganeko ngokukhawuleza nangokupheleleyo kunezinto ezilungileyo.

Omnye uthelekisa ukuskena kwengqondo ye-MRI yabantu ababenembali yokuhlukunyezwa ngomzali ebuntwaneni kunye nezikeni zabo babengenayo imbali yokuxhatshazwa. Bafumene umahluko obonakalayo ngokwasemzimbeni kwiindawo zobuchopho ezinoxanduva lokulungisa izandi kunye nolwimi.

3. Ukukhwaza kungakhokelela kuxinzelelo

Ukongeza kubantwana abaziva bekhathazekile, boyike, okanye bedanile xa abazali babo bebangxolisa, ukuphathwa gadalala kunakho ukubangela imiba enzulu yengqondo eqhubeka nokuba mdala.

Kuphononongo olulandelele ukwanda kweengxaki zokuziphatha ngabantwana abaneminyaka eli-13 abaye bakhwazwa, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuphakama kwiimpawu zokudakumba. Ezinye izifundo ezininzi ziphakathi kokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo. Ezi ntlobo zeempawu zingakhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi kwaye zinokude zikhule zibe zizenzo zokuzenzakalisa, njengokusebenzisa iziyobisi okanye ukwanda kwengozi yesondo.

4. Ingxolo ineziphumo kwimpilo yomzimba

Amava esikhule nawo asibumba ngeendlela ezininzi, ezinye zazo esingaziqondiyo. Uxinzelelo ebuntwaneni olusuka kumzali oxhaphazayo ngamazwi lunokwandisa umngcipheko womntwana weengxaki ezithile zempilo njengomntu omkhulu. isixelela ukuba ukufumana uxinzelelo njengomntwana kunokuba nefuthe lexesha elide kwimpilo yomzimba.

5. Ukukhwaza kunokubangela iintlungu ezingapheliyo

Uphononongo lwamva nje lufumene ikhonkco phakathi kwamava amabi ebuntwaneni, kubandakanya amazwi kunye nezinye iintlobo zokuxhatshazwa, kunye nokukhula kamva kweemeko ezingapheliyo. Imiqathango yayiquka isifo samathambo, iintloko ezibuhlungu, umqolo nentamo, kunye nezinye iintlungu ezingapheliyo.

Akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuba wenze utshintsho kwindlela oziphethe ngayo njengomzali okanye ufunde iindlela ezintsha. Ukuba uyazibona ukuba uyangxola okanye ucaphuka, cela uncedo. Umgqirha okanye omnye umzali unokukunceda uhlele ezinye zezo mvakalelo kwaye uphuhlise isicwangciso sokujongana nabo ngendlela esempilweni.