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Kubonakala ngathi yonke imihla kuvela isihloko esitsha malunga nomama oye wahlazeka ngenxa yenkalo ethile yendalo yokuzala (njengoko uyazi, ukuba namanqaku olula). Kodwa enkosi kumajelo asekuhlaleni, izihloko ezithile zangaphambili ezingafunekiyo, ezinje ngokudakumba emva kokubeleka okanye ukuncancisa esidlangalaleni, ekugqibeleni ziyahlelwa. Okwangoku, nakwinkcubeko yethu yokwabelana kakhulu, ayisiyiyo into yokuba sive iakhawunti eluhlaza, engacocwanga evela koomama abatsha abajongana noxinzelelo lomzimba (kwaye rhoqo ngokweemvakalelo) lokuzalwa kwecandelo le-C-kunye nomgwebo onokuthi ngelishwa yiza nayo. Enkosi kumama omnye otyisiwe, nangona kunjalo, eso sigqubuthelo siphakanyisiwe.

"Oh. I-C-section? Ngoko awuzange ubeleke ngokwenene. Kumele ukuba kube kuhle ukuthatha indlela elula ngolo hlobo, "uRaye Lee uqala isithuba sakhe, esiqulethe iifoto ezininzi ze-C-section scars. "Ewe, ewe. Icandelo lam lika-C elingxamisekileyo belingumbandela wokulungela. Kwakulungekile ukuba semsebenzini iiyure ezingama-38 ngaphambi kokuba usana lwam luye ekubandezelekeni kwaye emva koko yonke into eyayisenziwa yayimisa INTLIZIYO yakhe," ubhala eposini. , ngoku enezabelo ezingaphezu kwama-24,000.

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Uhlabela mgama echaza umothuko wokufunda ukuba wayelungiselelwa utyando olukhulu lwesisu ukuze asindise ubomi bosana lwakhe, kwaye uchaza ngokweenkcukacha ukuba yayinjani kanye kanye inkqubo yakhe yokubeleka. (Idibeneyo: Lo Mama weBlogger ubhiyozele uMzimba wakhe woSana-emva koMntwana ngeSelfie ehamba kunye neNgcaciso)

"Ukuba nosana olukhwazayo lukhutshwe kusikezo oluziisentimitha ezi-5 ubude, kodwa luye lwasikwa lwacolwa lwaza lwatsalwa lude lukrazule kuwo onke amanqatha akho, izihlunu, kunye namalungu omzimba (abekwe phezu kwetafile ecaleni kwakho umzimba, ukuze uqhubeke usika de ufikelele kumntwana wakho) ngamava ahluke ngokupheleleyo kunokuba bendicinga ukuba ukuzalwa konyana wam kuya kuba. "

Ngokwahlukileyo kuye nabani na okholelwa ukuba utyando ‘luyindlela elula yokuphuma,’ uRaye Lee uchaza indlela utyando “oluyeyona nto ibuhlungu endakha ndajamelana nayo ebomini bam” nokuba ukuchacha kuye kwaba yinkohlakalo ngendlela efanayo. "Usebenzisa izihlunu zakho ezingundoqo kuyo yonke into ... nokuba uhlala phantsi, cinga ukuba awunakukwazi ukuzisebenzisa ngenxa yokuba ziye zahluthwa kwaye zangcoliswa ngugqirha kwaye azabinakho ukuzilungisa kangangeeveki ezi-6 nangaphezulu kuba umzimba wakho kufuneka yenze ngokwemvelo,” ubhala watsho. (Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba amaxwebhu acebisa ukuthintela ukuzivocavoca esiswini ubuncinci iinyanga ezintathu, nangona indawo ejikeleze ukusikwa ingahlala iinyanga zintandathu okanye ngaphezulu, njenge FitPregnancy iingxelo kwi Umzimba wakho oTshintshayo emva kweC-C.

URaye Lee uchanekile: Ngelixa ukubeleka ngotyando kuhlala kubonakala ngathi 'kulula,' kwiimeko ezininzi, akunjalo. "Koomama abangenayo imeko yomngcipheko, umntu obelekileyo akhuselekanga kakhulu kumama nosana kunasekuzalweni kwelungu lobufazi," umphandi wokubeleka uEugene Declercq, Ph.D. uxelelwe Ukukhulelwa okufanelekileyo.

Ngaphandle kwamava akhe okwenzakala (ngokoqobo), unembono entle ngebali lakhe lokuzalwa, kwaye uzithatha njengenxalenye "yesizwe esibi sikamama." Kwaye nangona wayengenanjongo ncam ukuba isithuba sakhe esinyanisekileyo sihamba ngentsholongwane, uRaye Lee ubhala kwi-post-up ye-Facebook ukuba "uyavuya kakhulu ukuba abantu basasaza ulwazi lokuba akubona bonke oomama abanokuhambisa 'indlela yendalo.' Andibuthathaka, ndiligorha. " Ndiyavuya ukukunceda usasaze ulwazi, Raye Lee!

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