U-Erin Andrews uvula malunga nokuhamba kwakhe kumjikelo wesixhenxe we-IVF

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U-Erin Andrews uthethe ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngolwe-Lwesithathu malunga nohambo lwakhe lokuchuma, etyhila ukuba uya kumjikelo wakhe wesixhenxe we-IVF (in vitro fertilization) unyango.

Kwisincoko esinamandla ekwabelwana ngaso Imbumbulu, Intatheli ye-Fox Sports esecaleni, 43, obefumana unyango ukusukela kwiminyaka ye-35, uthe ufuna ukuvula malunga namava akhe, ephawula ukuba baninzi abadlula kwinkqubo "yokuchitha ixesha kunye nokukhathaza ngokwasemphefumlweni," kunye " ayithethwa nje kwaphela. " (Izinto eziNxulumeneyo: Ngaba Iindleko eziPhezulu ze-IVF zabasetyhini eMelika ziyimfuneko ngokwenene?)

“Ndineminyaka engama-43 ngoku, ngoko ke umzimba wam ubekwe ecaleni kwam,” wabele u-Andrews kwiBulletin. "Kudala ndizama ukwenza unyango lwe-IVF okwangoku, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ayihambi ngendlela oyifunayo. Umzimba wakho awukuvumeli oko."

"Yonke imijikelo iyahluka kumzimba wesetyhini, ngoko ke ezinye iinyanga zingcono kunezinye," waqhubeka u-Andrews, oye watshata nomdlali we-NHL osemhlala phantsi uJarret Stoll ukususela ngo-2017. Kwafuneka ndiyicinge kwakhona.Ndiza kuludibanisa njani olu nyango ngaphezu kweshedyuli yam yomsebenzi?Ndaba noxinzelelo kakhulu.Xa oku kusenzeka, kukwenza uzibuze: ingaba likamva losapho lwam okanye ngaba ngumsebenzi wam? "

Intatheli yexesha elide, u-Andrews uhlala egubungela imidlalo emikhulu ye-NFL yeveki, kubandakanya i-Super Bowl. Kodwa njengoko u-Andrews wabelane ngoLwesithathu, ukholelwa ukuba kwishishini lakhe, "abafazi baziva benesidingo sokugcina izinto ezinje zithe cwaka." Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu baqala iintsapho emva kwexesha kwaye babeke ezinye izinto ezininzi zobomi babo, "ubhale watsho. "Ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ngeli xesha, ndizakube ndivulekile kubavelisi bam malunga nokuza emsebenzini emva kwexesha eliqhelekileyo kuba bendisiya kwindibano yemihla ngemihla yokuzala. Kwaye ndiyabulela ukuba ndenzile."

U-Andrews wongeze ngoLwesithathu ukuba "akanazintloni" kwaye ufuna "ukuthetha kwaye anyaniseke" malunga nenkqubo, athe inokuthatha "ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo" emzimbeni wakho. "Uziva ngathi u-s-t. Uziva udumbile kwaye unehomoni kwiveki enesiqingatha. Ungahamba ngalo lonke eli thuba ungafumani kwanto kulo- yinxalenye ephambeneyo. Yitoni yemali, yitoni ixesha, yitoni yokukhathazeka ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni. Kwaye amaxesha angaphezulu kunoko, awaphumelelanga. Ndicinga ukuba yiyo loo nto uninzi lwabantu lukhetha ukuthula ngalo, "uqhubeke watsho. (Idibeneyo: Ixabiso eliphezulu lokungabikho komntwana: Abafazi basengozini yokutshatyalaliswa komntwana)

I-IVF ngokwayo lunyango olubandakanya ukubuyisela amaqanda kwii-ovari, ukuwafaka ngedlozi kwilebhu ngaphambi kokufaka i-embryo edibeneyo kwisibeleko somfazi, ngokutsho kwe-American Pregnancy Association. Umjikelo opheleleyo we-IVF uthatha malunga neeveki ezintathu, ngokweKliniki yaseMayo, kwaye malunga neentsuku ezili-12 ukuya kwezi-14 emva kokufunyanwa kweqanda, ugqirha unokuvavanya isampulu yegazi ukukhangela ukukhulelwa. Amathuba okuzala umntwana osempilweni emva kokusebenzisa i-IVF axhomekeke kwizinto ezinje ngobudala, imbali yokuzala, izinto zokuphila (ezinokubandakanya ukutshaya, utywala, okanye icaffeine egqithisileyo), ngokweKliniki yaseMayo, kunye nenqanaba lembungu (imibungu ezo zithathwa njengeziphuhlisiwe zinxulunyaniswa nokukhulelwa okuphezulu xa kuthelekiswa nokungaqhubi kakuhle).

U-Andrews uphinde waphawula ngoLwesithathu ukuba unqwenela ukutshintsha incoko malunga ne-IVF kuba ekupheleni kosuku, "awusoze wazi ukuba ngubani omnye ohamba kuyo." Endaweni yokuba neentloni, kufuneka sizinike uthando ngakumbi, "ubhale watsho.

Ukuphendula umyalezo wakhe wangoLwesithathu, u-Andrews - okwangumsindisi womhlaza womlomo wesibeleko-wafumana imiyalezo yenkxaso evela kubafundi, embulela ngokungavuleki kangako. "Kuyamangalisa ngokwenene oku. Ndikunqwenelela ithamsanqa kwaye ndiyabulela ngokwabelana kwakho," wabhala omnye umfundi, ngelixa omnye wathi, "Ndivuya kakhulu ngokwabelana nabanye ngohambo lwakho, luya kunceda abanye abaninzi abahamba kulo."

Nangona uhambo lwe-IVF "lunokuzahlula," njengoko uAndrews abhalile, ukungafihli kwakhe kunokubenza abanye abasokolayo bazive bengaphantsi kakhulu.

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