UGiuliana Rancic ufuna ukuba wazi ukuba uMhlaza wamabele ayisosifo esilingana nobukhulu obunye.
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Kunyaka ophelileyo, uGiuliana Rancic ubhiyozele iminyaka emihlanu engenawo umhlaza ngaphandle komhlaza wamabele emva kokuba ebekhe wenza imastectomy ephindwe kabini. Isiganeko esibalulekileyo sibonisa ukuba amathuba akhe okuba nesi sifo kwakhona ayephantsi kakhulu. Ngelixa sisiqabu esikhulu, i Ewe! umamkeliayinakukunceda kodwa ibe neemvakalelo ezixubileyo.
"Ukunyaniseka, ndaziva ndilusizi ngaloo mini," utshilo uRancic kutshanje Imilo. Ndizifumene ndicingakuwo onke amabhinqa amangalisayo endidibene nawo apha endleleni angenakufikelela kweso siganeko-kwaye oko kwakubuhlungu. "
Kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo, iRancic ichithe ixesha elininzi ikhuthaza ukwaziswa ngomhlaza wamabele ukunceda abantu abangakumbi kunye nabasetyhini ukuba bafikelele kuloo mbalasane. Kungenxa yoko le nto kungothusi ukuba usandula ukuba sisithethi soHlobo Olunye, iphulo elinikezelwe ukutshintsha imbono yomhlaza wamabele.
"Kubalulekile ukuba abantu bazi ukuba umhlaza webele awulingani konke konke," utshilo. "Zininzi ezahlukileyo iintlobo Umhlaza webele kwaye xa uyiqonda loo nto, unolwazi olufunekayo lokuya kugqirha uze kunyango olulungele wena. "
Rancic uqaphele ukuba ngelixa uninzi lwethu lusazi ukuba uqheleke kangakanani umhlaza webele (omnye kwabasetyhini abasibhozo uya kufunyaniswa kubomi babo), ngumntu omnye kwabathathu owaziyo ukuba kukho iintlobo zomhlaza wamabele, nganye inokuthi ifune unyango olwahlukileyo .
"Ngaphambi kokuba ndifunyanwe, bendicinga ukuba ndiyazi kancinci malunga nomhlaza webele, kodwa eneneni, bendingenalwazi lokuba ukuqonda uxilongo lwakho olulodwa kubalulekile ekufumaneni unyango oluchanekileyo," utshilo. "Ndandineminyaka engama-36 ubudala xa ndafunyaniswa okokuqala kwaye ndingenayo imbali yosapho, ngoko ke yayiyimpepho yeemvakalelo kum-Ndiyazi abafazi abaninzi abavakalelwa ngendlela efanayo. Kodwa kungelo xesha apho kufuneka ubeke impilo yakho. ezandleni zakho."
"Nangona ukhathazekile njengoko unokuziva, kuxhomekeke wena ukuya kwingcali yakho yezonyango elungiselelwe imibuzo-the kunene Imibuzo malunga nolona hlobo lomhlaza wesifuba unayo, uqhubeke watsho. "Xa unolwazi oluthe kratya, kokukhona uya kukwazi ukusebenza noogqirha bakho ukufumana unyango olufanelekileyo nolulungeleyo." (Related: 5 Iindlela Zokunciphisa Umngcipheko wakho womhlaza wamabele)
Umhlaza wamabele sisifo esinzima kakhulu. Ihlelwe kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo ngokusekwe kwiimpawu ezizodwa zethumba ngalinye, kubandakanya uhlobo, ubungakanani, ubume be-lymph node, kunye nenqanaba, phakathi kwezinye izinto, kuphawula ukuba alukho udidi lwewebhusayithi. Ke ukuba uyasebenza ngakumbi kwaye unolwazi emva kokuba ufumene isifo, amathuba okuba ube phambili kwesi sifo.
"Nangona umhlaza wamabele ubenzima, undisikelele ngethuba lokutshintsha izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka, ndibengumntu onamandla nangakumbi, ndincede nabanye," utshilo uRancic. "Injongo yam kukufumana abantu abaninzi-hayi abaguli abanomhlaza wamabele kuphela, kodwa abo babathandayo kunye nabakhathaleli kunye nokuthetha malunga nokuba umhlaza wamabele awuluphi na uhlobo. Ngubani owaziyo? Sisonke, sinokwazi ukugcina ubomi apha endleleni."