Yiya! Yiya! Oonopopi bezemidlalo babhengeza "iimbaleki" ukuba ibe yiNkosazana "eNtsha"

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Njengabantu abadala, uninzi lwethu luyalivuyela ithuba lokwakheka kwethu ukubaleka kunye neempahla zethu zokunuka ngenxa yokubila okukhulu (okoko nje kukho ithuba lokutshintsha ngaphambi kokuba sibuyele emsebenzini). Kodwa khumbula ukuba kwakunjani ukuba li-12 kwaye ubude ukuba unelokhwe entle njengonodoli bakho? Ewe, usomashishini kunye nomama wabantwana abathathu uJodi Norgaards ujonge ukuyitshintsha loo nto ngomgca wakhe weGo! Yiya! Amantombazana eMidlalo, umgca weedoli zokudlala ezemidlalo ezifuna ukubonisa amantombazana abo bonke ubudala ukuba abadlali bangamakhosazana amatsha.

Umgca wethegi yabo uthi konke: "Fumana ukungcola okuncinci kwisiketi sakho." "Kuyamangalisa ukuba amantombazana afuna ukunxiba ilokhwe entle kodwa ndifuna ukubaxelela, 'Ungakhazimla kwaye unokuba neengcwangu,' utshilo uNorgaards.

Kwaye yiloo nto kanye eyenziwa ngoonodoli abahonjisiweyo-amantombazana amahle anemixholo kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo, njengoko edlala ibhola ekhatywayo, ibhaskithi, ijimnastiki, igalufa, intenetya, ibhola ethambileyo, kunye nokuqubha. Kukho unodoli obalekayo, uElla, ochazwa njengomntu osoloko ebeka izithambiso zolusu kwaye ezolula, esela amanzi amaninzi, kwaye ethanda ukutya iibhanana emva komdyarho (ngokucacileyo Ubume intombazana ekwenzeni!). Unodoli ngamnye uza kunye nezixhobo zepeoper kumdlalo wabo kwaye unemotto eyimfihlo ethungelwe kwizisu zabo ukuze bakhuthaze amantombazana; UElla ufunda "Phupha kakhulu, baleka ngokukhawuleza!"

UNorgaards waphefumlelwa ukuba enze oonodoli emva kokuba ethathe intombi yakhe eneminyaka elithoba ubudala, uGrace, waya kwivenkile yokudlala emva kwebhola ekhatywayo kwaye oyena unodoli ubalaseleyo ababenokumfumana yayiyinto yokudlala exhokonxayo ebizwa ngokuba yi "Lovely Lola." Ukujonga unodoli-onxibe isiketi esincinci, i-top top yezityalo, izithende eziphakamileyo, kunye neetoni zokuthambisa-kwaye emva koko wajonga intombi yakhe enxibe iyunifomu yakhe emnandi, ebilayo, uNorgaards wacinga, "Ndingenza ngcono kunale. babe ukwenza ngcono kunale. "

Nangaliphi na ixesha 'u-sexy' efika engqondweni xa ujonga into yokudlala yabantwana abancinci, kufuneka ibekho ezishelfini, utshilo. "Ndicinga ukuba sonke sidiniwe kukubona amantombazana amancinci abelana ngesondo."

Ukulwa nomfanekiso we-hyper-sexualized wamantombazana kunye nabasetyhini kuluntu lwethu i-Go! Yiya! Imidlalo yamantombazana ayidlali nje kuphela uluhlu olubanzi lwezemidlalo kodwa ibonisa ukungafani komzimba kunye nemibala eyahlukeneyo yesikhumba, iintlobo zomzimba, kunye neenwele.

Kodwa uNorgaards uthi eyona ndawo ayithandayo kule nkqubo yayikukunxibelelana nombhali uKara Thom, umama wabane, owanikezela ukubhala incwadi eza kuhamba nodoli ngamnye. Endaweni yebali elinomtsalane okanye elineenkwenkwezi, uThom ugxile "kokulungileyo, okuhle, yonke imihla ngemicimbi yamantombazana" amanenekazi amancinci nabadala anokuziqonda.

"Ndihlala ndiyithanda imidlalo. Andizange ndibalasele kodwa ndiyonwabele," utshilo uNorgaard. "Ndifuna nje ukukhuthaza amantombazana ukuba asebenzise imizimba yabo ngendlela esempilweni."

Kwaye umyalezo wakhe uyasasazeka. Intombazana yeTennis yaba ngunodoli wokuqala ukuthengisa e-US Open ngo-2008 kwaye umgca uthathwe nguWal-Mart kunye nezinye iivenkile ezithengisayo, wafumana amabhaso amaninzi okudlala endleleni kunye nokuqinisa kumantombazana kuyo yonke indawo ukuba akukho nto ingcono kunoko. ukubila.

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