SOS! Ndinexhala ekuhlaleni kwaye ndazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba akukho mntu kweli theko

Umxholo

• 1. Nyaniseka
• 2. Lungisa isinxibo sakho kwangethuba
• 3. Yiba nobubele kuwe
• 4. Ziphazamise
• 5. Thetha nabantu
• 6. Yenza isipele
• Uyenzile!

Iyenzeka. Umsitho womsebenzi. Ukutya isidlo sangokuhlwa nosapho lweqabane lakho. Umhlobo ucela ukuba ube ngumzuzu wabo wokugqibela umdibanise nomnye. Sonke kufuneka siye kwiminyhadala apho singazi mntu kwaphela.

Kumntu oxhalabileyo ekuhlaleni, ndingazishwankathela iingcinga zethu kunye neemvakalelo zethu ngegama elinye elilula:

"ARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGHGHHHHHH!"

Kufana nokucela umntu owoyika ukuphakama ukuba atsibe kwinqwelomoya!

Ukuqala kwam ukuya kwitheko nomyeni wam, ekuphela kwexesha endamvumela ngalo ukuba ashiye icala lam kuxa wayefuna indlu yangasese. Kwaye kwangoko, ndamnika amehlo enkempe! Mhlawumbi ngekhe ndihambe naye, ukuba ibingandenzanga ndakhangeleka ngathi ndiyibhoyila le bunny! Ukuba nje bebesazi - yayingeyiyo into obenayo, yayilixhala.

Kule minyaka idlulileyo, ndamkele ukuba le yinto ekufuneka ndiyilawule. Njengombhali, ndiyamenywa kwiminyhadala rhoqo kwaye andifuni ukuqhubeka ndibalahla. Kwakufuneka ndijongane nedemon, ngokungathi kunjalo.

Ke, nazi iingcebiso zam eziphezulu zokujongana neziganeko zentlalo ukuba unexhala lentlalontle:

1. Nyaniseka

Ukuba kuyenzeka, thetha ngokukhululekileyo ngexhala lakho nakumbuki zindwendwe, kumhlobo okanye kumntu okumemileyo. Akukho nto idrama okanye ngaphezulu. Isicatshulwa esilula okanye i-imeyile echaza ukuba unamaxhala ngexesha lokuhlala.

Oku kuya kuthi kwangoko kuthethwe ngomntu osecaleni lakho, kwaye uphakamise ubunzima emagxeni akho.

2. Lungisa isinxibo sakho kwangethuba

Khetha into oza kuyinxiba ubuncinci kusuku olunye kwangaphambili. Kufanele ukuba ibe yinto ekwenza uzive uzithembile, kwaye ikhululekile.

Owu, kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngoku asiloxesha lokulinga i-hairstyle entsha okanye ukubukeka kwe-makeup. Ndithembe. Ukujika ngokungacwangciswanga njengoko umtshakazi weDracula ayisiyonto intle!

3. Yiba nobubele kuwe

Uhambo oluya kulo msitho kuxa imithambo-luvo yakho iqala ukukhaba. Ke thintela oku ngokuzikhumbuza ngendlela okhaliphe ngayo. Zikhumbuze ukuba, ekuhambeni kwexesha, la mava aya kunceda ukuphucula uxinzelelo lwakho ekuhlaleni.

4. Ziphazamise

Endleleni eya apho, ihlala indinceda ukuba ndibeneziphazamiso okanye iindlela zokuphazamisa ezandleni. Umzekelo, kutshanje ndiye ndaphinda ndazithanda ziintaka ezinomsindo. Akukho nto ithatha ingqondo yam kunxunguphalo lwam njengokubulala abo bahleka iihagu ziluhlaza!

5. Thetha nabantu

Ndiyazi, le iyavakala ukuba iyothusa! Ngokukodwa xa yonke into ofuna ukuyenza kukufihla ekoneni, okanye kwizindlu zangasese.

Ekuqaleni, bendicinga ukusondela ebantwini ngekhe kwenzeke kum: Ulwandle lobuso endingabazanga, bonke benzulu kwincoko. Andinakuthemba ukuba ndingamkelwa. Nangona kunjalo, kutshanje ndiqalisile ukuzama eli qhinga, kwaye iziphumo bezintle kakhulu.

Sondela kubantu ababini okanye abathathu kwaye uthembeke: "Ndicela uxolo ngokuphazamisa, yinto nje yokuba ndingazi mntu apha kwaye bendizibuza ukuba ndingayingena na incoko yakho?" Kuyothusa, kodwa zama ukhumbule ukuba abantu… kulungile, ngabantu!

Uvelwano yimvakalelo eyomeleleyo, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ziibhonco ngokupheleleyo - kwimeko apho, kungcono ungathethi nabo - baya konwaba ukukuvuma.

Obu buchule busebenze iipesenti ezingama-89 zexesha kum kulo nyaka. Ewe, ndiyazithanda izibalo. Ukugqibela kwam ukuzama oku, intombazana ivume ngokuphandle: "Ndonwabile ukuba uthethile, andazi namnye umntu, nokuba!"

6. Yenza isipele

Kukho abantu abambalwa abakhethiweyo ebomini bam endaziyo ukuba ndingathumela umyalezo xa ndifuna ukukhuthazwa. Umzekelo, ndiza kuthumela umyalezo kum mhlobo wam osenyongweni ndize ndithi: “Ndikumthendeleko kwaye ndiyaphambana. Ndixelele izinto ezintathu ezinkulu ngam. ”

Uhlala ephendula ngento enje, “Unesibindi, uyathandeka, kwaye unegazi elonwabisayo. Ngubani ongafuni kuthetha nawe? ” Uya kumangaliswa kukuba zingqinisiso ezintle kangakanani na ezinokukunceda.

Uyenzile!

Nje ukuba ushiye kwaye wenza indlela eya ekhaya, qiniseka ukuba uzinike umfuziselo wokubamba ngasemva. Wenze into ekwenza uzive uxhalabile, kodwa khange uyivumele iyeke.

Yinto ekufuneka uzingce ngayo.

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