Nceda! Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba ikhondomu iza ngaphakathi kuwe
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Izinto ezininzi ezoyikisayo zinokwenzeka ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo: ii-headboards eziqhumayo, i-queefs, i-penises ephukile (ewe, ngokwenene). Kodwa enye yezona zinto zimbi kuxa inxenye ebalulekileyo yenkqubo yokwabelana ngesondo ngokukhuselekileyo ingahambi kakuhle, kwaye uzifumana une ~ iingxaki zekhondom. ~
Ukuba ukhathazeke ngokwenene malunga nokuba ikhondom iphumile, kukho into ekufuneka uyazi. Ukuba usebenzisa ikhondom ngokuchanekileyo uqalise ukugqiba, akunakwenzeka ukuba ikhondom iphumele ngaphakathi kuwe, utsho uGqr. Logan Levkoff, oyiShape sexpert. Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwekhondomu ngama-85 epesenti asebenzayo, ngokukaMbutho wabaSebenzi bezeMpilo yokuzala. Ngokusetyenziswa ngokugqibeleleyo, nangona kunjalo, ukusebenza kakuhle kuya kuthi ga kwi-98 pesenti.
Yintoni ukusetyenziswa "ngokuchanekileyo", kanye? Ibandakanya la manyathelo alandelayo: ukumisa ixesha lokudlala ukuze ubeke ikhondomu kwangoko xa iqabane lakho limi nkqo nangaphambi kokuba kwenzeke naliphina ithuba lokungena, ukuyisonga ikhondom yonke indlela ukusuka kwincam ukuya kwisiseko, nasemva kokuphuma, ubambe isiseko sekhondom kwaye Ilungu lobudoda ngelixa urhoxa kwindawo yokungena. Ukulinda ade aphulukane nokwakhiwa kwakhe ukuze akhuphe kwaye asuse ikhondom nguhayi-hayi.
Ukuba ulandele incwadi yomgaqo wekhondom ukuya ku-T kwaye usazifumana udlala ngokufihla uyokukhangela ikhondom yeqabane lakho esele lisetyenzisiwe, kungcono uyidlale ukhuselekile kunokuba ube nosizi: hamba uye kuvavanyelwa ii-STD kwaye uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, kwimeko nje. (Nangona uGqirha uLevkoff esithi kuya kufuneka usoloko usenza ezo zinto.)
I kakhulu Iindaba ezimnandi? Izinto azinakulahleka ngaphakathi kwilungu lobufazi ngonaphakade. Njengomlingo ~ njengoko injalo i-anatomy yabasetyhini, ayingomngxuma omnyama. (Ukuba ubucinga ukuba kunjalo, ke uyasidinga esi sifundo somzimba, umthetho.)